分手后被拉黑还有机会复合吗，男人拉黑了多久可以复合

 nanrenlaheileduojiukeyifuhe？fenshouhoubeiduifanglahei，womenhaiyoujihuima？zenmezuo？xuduonvxingyouqijusang：“wohetafenshouhou，tabawolaheile，neimewuqingma？nandaowomeiyoujihuima？”dengdeng。

 jiaruyigenanrenhenifenshou，banilahei，neimezheizhongfuhedekenengxingbibulaheidekenengxingyaogao。nizhidaoyigenanrendexiangfa，nijiuzhidaole。

 zaiyigenanrendexinmuzhong，taweishenmeyaolesuoni？ruguotazaifenshouhouzhendefangxialezheiduanganqing，tanengjinidezuihouyifenliwushilengmohehushi，takanbudaonizuoshenme。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nikenenghennanhuifu。

 raner，ruguotazhudonglesuoni，zheibiaomingtaduizheiduanguanxiyechongmanleaihehen。yifangmian，zheishifeichangtongkuhebushufude，lingyifangmian，zailixingsiweixia，tajuedezheishibuheshide。ganxingsiweishiai，lixingsiweishibuheshide，suoyiaihenjiaozhishifeichangbeishangde。

 tazhinenggaosuziji：“fangxia，qingnilikaitadeshijie”suoyitahuilesuoni，shitutongguokanbujiannilaijianqingtaduinidesinian，suoyiwomenkeyikandaotaguanxinni。zhiyouneixiecuowudeguanximoshi，huozheyixiewenti，daozhitaduinidegaodufumianqingxu，caihuidaozhizuizhongdefenshou。

 ranhou，zaiwomenlejielezheiyidianzhihou，zhishaojiwomenyifengxin:beiheiyemeiguanxi，ruguowomennengbatalahuilai，womengaizenmeban？lianggebuzhou:

第一步：化解对立情绪

 youxierenzaibeilesuohoulijikaishidanxin。tamenhuxiangdadianhua，xialouquzuzhitamen。meiyong，yinweirenmenxiangbanituikai。nizongshijijinbierendeshijie，zheizhihuirangtamendefumianqingxugenggao，shenzhishuoyixieshanghainidehua。yinci，zaizheigeshihou，womenyinggaijiejueduilideqingxu。

 jiejueduiliqingxudediyibushibuyaoxianzhaoguduifang，zhishaobaochijuli。zheicijiniyigeyibandejianyi，jiushizaizuihouyiciliaotianhoudeqitian，zheishidiyici。

 zaizheiqitianli，nibuhuishenmedoubuzuo，danniyinggaizongjieyixiayiqiandewenti，zhaochuwentidegenyuan。qitianhou，nikeyishizhehuxiangtianjia，wulunshitongguoxinjianhaishiduanxin。

 neimeruhetianjiatani？wohuijiniyigegengchangjiandeci，nikeyigenjunideqingkuangshezhi，liru，nikeyishuo，shei，sheibixushiniyiqiangengqinmidemingzi，birujiaobierenxiaowangtongxue，wangxiongdidengdeng，kankannitongchangruhehuxiangdadianhua。danbuyaotaiexin，yinweinihaimeiyoufuhe，nishuozheizhihuirangduifangxiangqiyiqiandeganjue。nanrenlaheileduojiukeyifuhe？

 neimediyijujiushiyaohuajiefumianqingxu，nikeyishuo：“wobushilaizhaonifuhede，zhishijuedewomendeganqingzheimeduonian，jishifenkaile，yekeyijuzaiyiqifensan。”，xiannibijiaodaqi，tongguolvjigao。

第二步：让他感受到你的变化，表达他对对方的理解

 liaowanzhihou，zheilideliaotianbaokuonidepengyouquan，zhanshinidebianhua，jiniyigegongshi:gaibian+huiyi+lijie，zuihoujiashanglijie，shigenjunideqingkuang。

 yejiushishuo，ruguonizhiqianxiangchudeguochengshi，tarenweinibulijieta，nikeyilijie，ruguonirenweinidejiazhihendi，neimenibixutianjiaqitade，gaojiazhidengdeng。

 wojugelizi，yonglijiezheige，nikeyishuozheiyangyiduanhua：“jintian，wozaijiazhujitang。”liru，zainibugoulejietazhiqian，tajinizuolejitang，ranhounishuo：“danshimeiyounizuodehaochi。yiqianmeiciduziteng，nidouhuizhujitangjiwohe。xianzaixiangxiangdangshideni。”。

 nanrenlaheileduojiukeyifuhe？younidebianhua，younidehuiyi，youniduiduifangdelijie，yinweizheiyangdehuarangtaganjuedaonidebutong，jiukeyile。