如何让前任主动求复合，怎样让前任主动复合

 zaihuifuguochengzhong，womenbujinyaotigaozijidexiyinli，haiyaojiangdizijidekeyongxing，rangduifangtouziyuni。ruherangqianrenzhudongqiufuhe？zheishi，yourenhuiwen，ruhetigaoduifangdetouzichengdu，zheiliyourenhuiwen，ruherangduifangzhudongyunijianmian?rangwomenlaikankanzheixiehuifuqianrendejineng，rangqianrenzhudonghuidaoyiqi?

心态

 gaosuta“ji”meiyong。wobunengjizhechiredoufu!yinweinifeichangkewangjiandaota，nixiangjinkuaijiejuenimenzhijiandewuhui，nixiangrangtazaiciaishangni。ruguonixianghetazhongguiyuhao，zheiyiqiedoushinixiangyaode，nixiangyaode，danniyoumeiyouxiangguo，zhengshiyinweinirucikewang，nifanleneimeduocuowudehuifufangshi，dianhuahongzha，guixiaqingqiuyuanliang，jiuchanbuqing……niweishenmebulixingdisikao?ruguonishineigeren，nihuiyuanliangnizheimefanrenma?dangranbushi。tashenzhihuirangnigengjiayane，shinidehuifuguochenggengjiakunnan。

 shuodaozheili，woxiwangnvhaimennengzhenzhengyishidaozaikangfuguochengzhonglianghaoxintaidezhongyaoxing。buyaogulididuidaitamendexintaihekangfu。zheiliangzhexiangfuxiangcheng，queyibuke。yinci，ruguonixianghuifu，nibixushouxiandiaozhengnidexintai，jizhu，jizhu。

断联

 bushisuoyoudefenshoudouxuyaoduankai。nibuxuyaoduankailianjiedeqiantishi“niyouhenhaoderenzhinengli，jieshounengli，lianghaodegoutongjiqiaohebiaodanengli!huozhenideqingshanghengao(zheizhongleixingderenhenshao，zhenzhengqingshanggaoderenbuhuiyoudawenti，yebuhuixunqiubangzhu。tamenkeyizijijiejue，huozhetamenzhixuyaobierenqingqingditongguo，erbubihuaneimeduoshijianlaihuifu)

 raner，henmingxian，taxuyaoduankailianjie。duankailianjiedeshijianshigenjutamenwentideyanzhongchengduhetadebianhuayijiziwowanshan(xiayibujiangtaolun)dexiaoguolaishedingde。yibanlaishuo，bianhuahegaijinyuekuai，duankailianjiedeshijianjiuyueduan!yinci，zaiduankailianjieqijian，ninxuyaozhaodaoyaozuodeshiqing。duankailianjiedeguochengjiushinigaibianheziwowanshandeguocheng，erbushimeitiandengdai，shurizi，duankailianjie，duankailianjie，shenmedoubuzuo(jizhu)

变化与自我提升

 zaizuozheijianshizhiqian，niyaoqingchudizhidaonidegenbenwentizainali!nimenrenshiduifangma?zhidaotaxiangyaoshenme?weishenmebuxianghenizaiyiqi，weishenmexuanzeta，tiqianlejiedisanfangdeqingkuang(youjiqiao)dengdeng，zheixiedoushinizaiduanxianqijianyaozuodeshiqing!haishizhijizhibi，zhitaren!meigerendouyouruodian，ruodianshitameiyoude，tameiyoudeshitaxiangyaode，manzutaxiangyaode!meiyiduanganqingdouhuijingliyiduanrelianqi——moheqi——pingdanqi，zheishiqingganzhongdeguilv，yejiushishuomeiyiduanganqinghuoduohuoshaodouhuiyouwenti!yongyouyigexindeaiqingbingbukepa，kepadeshinibuzhidaoruhexuehuichengzhang，bianchengyigegenghaodeziji，zhuazhuheshideshiji!zaiduanxianqijian，niyinggaixuexiniganxingqudedongxi，bingzhongjianshangshuxilie(yanjiu、jianshen、peixunkecheng、xuexixingbieqingganzhishi、kuodashejiaoquan、pengyouquanjianshe、huazhuang、chuanyideng)“ercixiyin”zhunbei，huifudebenzhishi“gaibianhetisheng，jiushizaicixiyinduifang，zuoyigeyoujiazhideren，rangduifangjuedehenizaiyiqikeyidaijiwoxiangyaode!

复联

 ruherangqianrenzhudongqiufuhe？fenshouyiduanshijianhou，shuangfangdexindoufangsongle。zheizhongzhongxinlianjiedezhibiaoshi，nimenzhijiandechongtujizhongduyijingjiangdidaoduifangyuanyiyunimengoutongdechengdu，yincinimenkeyijinxingzhongxinlianjie。ruhecaozuo，zheishiwomenguwendegongzuo。kangfuderenyeyishidaozijidewentibingzuochugaibian，tamenjingchangxianglianxiduifang。womenchengzhiweizheigeguocheng“fulian”!fuchouzhelianmengxuyaoyigechuangkoulaidakai，erfuchouzhelianmengdezuijiafangshishishiyongduanxinhuoweixin。zaizuihaoxunwenduifangzuijindeqingkuangzhiqian，ruguoduifangzhengzaicanjiakaoshihuoganmao，neimebuyaodanxinmeiyouhuati，yebupashuocuohua。ruhezaizheilifasongduanxin，wobuzhidao!