选择复婚是失而复得，复婚后的感情会更好吗

 fuhunhoudeganqinghuigenghaoma？ruguonidehunyinbuxingfu，nihuizuochushenmeyangdexuanze？yuelaiyueduoderenzaibuxingdehunyinzhihouxuanzelihun。tamenrenweilihunhoukeyizhaodaogenghaodeshenghuo，danyouyuzhongzhongyuanyin，xuduonvxingxuanzezaihun。

danshizaihunhouzhendehuixingfuma？shiganqingdesangshihaishizaicitiaojinhuokeng？shenmeqingkuangxiabushihezaihun？

 xuanzelihunyiweizhehunyinchuxianleliehen。youshi，youliehendehunyinkenengdebudaohenhaodexiufu。zaiyixiaqingkuangxia，ruguonijianchizaihun，xiaoxinniziji“wanjiebufu”deshenyuan。

1.反复保证但反复出轨

 youzheiyangyigenanren，meicitabeipantadeqizi，qingqiutadeqiziyuanliang，nvrenkan，a，tayigedananrenkeyiguixialaikuwo，yidingzhendezhidaocuole，ranhouwohuijitayigejihui。

 jieguo，nidehaoxiangfashanghaileniziji。zheibingbuyiweizhenibunengyuanliangta，danniyuanliangdetaikuaile。nidedaodeyidingshilingyigenanrendebeipan，dannimeixiangdaozheigenanrenmeicidouhuizheiyang。niyiciyouyicidiyuanliang，dantayiciyouyicidibeipan。

 zuihou，niwufarenshouzheizhongshenghuo，xuanzefangshou，danlihunhou，nifaxiannirengranwufameitianpingjingdishenghuo。tahuiyizhizhaoni，qiuni。nihuitingdaozheiyangdehua：

 “wozhendezhidaowocuole。wocuodetailihaile。dangwohenizaiyiqideshihou，wobuzhidaoruhezhenxita。wozongshiduinizhemi。zicongnilikaihou，wofaxianzheigejiatingshiduomezhongyao。wozhendehenhouhui。zaihaizimenmianqianhuilaihaoma？tatainianqingle，meiyoumamatahuobuxiaqu。”

chucizhiwai，nihaihuibeigongpobuduandaoqianhequanshuo，zuihouniweilehaizihejiating，xuanzezaihun，niyiweitazhendehuigaibianma？

 nicuole。nibumingbaineixieyiciyouyicibeipanderenzaixiangshenme！taganyuyiciyouyicidibeipan，zheibiaomingtayijingzhuazhulenideruodian。meiciniyibuyibudituiduifang，nidouhuidedaotadexin。

 duiyuzheizhongxinggederenlaishuo，taxuyaodeshibutongdenvrentiezaitashenbian，manzutadexurongxin。tahuirenweiwozhendehenqiangda，zilianqingjiehuizaizheigeguochengzhongchengzhang。guoduzilianqingjiedebeihoushishenshendezibei。

 yexutayouyigetiaojianbuhaodechushenjiating，yexutadetongnianconglaimeiyoubeizhongshiguo。zheizhongzibeiheyinyingyizhibansuizhetadaochengnian。dangnichengnianhou，ruguoniduitadegulihezanyanggengshao，nidexuqiudebudaomanzu，nihuifengkuangdicongbutongderenshenshangxunzhaomanzuzijideyuwang。

 fuhunhoudeganqinghuigenghaoma？zheiyangderenkelianyoukehen。nihennanrangtawanquangaibian。xinggedexingchengshiduonianjileide，suoyiruguonimangmuzaihun，nikenenghuidedaoduanzandexingfu，danzuizhongdejieguoyidingshitabuduandebeipan。

2.这三种观点，因为时间淡化了问题

sanguanwentishihunyinzhongdedawenti，zheibujinjinshixinggebuhe，ershishenghuoguannianshangdejudachayi。

 nizhuanleqian，xiangmaiyitaohuazhuangpinlaijiangliziji，dantashuonishigeshibaizhe。nixiwangnidehaizicongxiaojiupeiyanggezhongxingqu，jifatamendexingqu，bingbaomingcanjiabuxiban，dantajuedeqianbunengsuzaotamendehaizi。

 nixihuanzaijieriqijianjuxingyishi。jishinimenyiqizaicanguanchifan，tayejuedezheishilangfeijinqianheshijian。zuihaozaijiazuofan。nixiangfanianzhongjiangchuquwan，dantajuedechuqukanrenhenlei。

 zheishiyigedianxingdelizi，niduishenghuo、jiaoyu、jinqiandouyoubutongdekanfa，yinweizhangshijiandejiechu，rangnigandaonanyirenshou，xuanzelihun。

 danshiguoleyiduanshijian，nimenyoujianmianle，kandaoleduifangdehao，shijianchendianlenimenzhijiandexianxi，suoyinimenyaotuiyibu，zaishiyici。

 zheigewentibenshenhaimeiyoujiejue。ruhezaiduanqineigaibianguanniandexingcheng？ruguonixiangzaihun，zhishishijianyangailewenti。wentirengranwufajiejue。jishinimaichuyibu，zhangqidexiangfayehuirangnizaicixianruyigeqiguaideduikangquan。

zuizhong，nidexuanzewufeishizaicilihunhuoweibeizijideyiyuanshenghuo。

 qishihenduoshihou，womenbingbuxiangqingyijieshuyiduanhunyin，yinweilianggerendejieheyoutaiduodejiuchan，youdeshenzhiweilehaizierhuo。

 fuhunhoudeganqinghuigenghaoma？zheibujinjinshiziaidebiaoxian。haizimenzenmenengzaieliedeqifenzhongjiankangchengzhangni？suoyiyoushihouzhengquedelihunbicuowudehuiyigengzhongyao！jirannifaxiannixuancuoleren，nijiuzhendewufadiaozhengbicidewenti。lihunshizuihaodexuanze！