wangluoliaotianliaomeitaolu,jitalejienishenpangyeyoubiedenvxing。zaiwangluoshanghenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia,nidezhenduixingbubitaiqiang,bubilijishuomingzishenbianshixiangliaota,nixuyaozuodeshiershizhuyaobiaoxiannizuihaodeyimian,ziranhaiyaoranglingyifanglejie,wangshangliaotianliaomeijiqiaoyounaxieni?,nizhidaoruheruheliaomeiliaotianzainiderichangshenghuoyehuichuxianbiedenvshidefasheng,bubiyouyiqumanbao,neiyangcaikeyixianxianchuniyizhizaishijizhongyeshiyigezhengzhideren。
1、不能过多话
zheigeshijieyouhenduoderen,meiyigerendoushiyoubuyiyangdexingqing,buyiyangdeshenghuohuanjing,buyiyangdeaihao,meiyigerenzhenduirichangshenghuodezhuduodoushiyouzishendeguandian。zaiwangluoliaotianpaoniudeqingkuangxia,bunengguoduohua,shuoguoduohuafeichangrongyicuowu,huoxuhuichuyudaolingyifangdejihui,yalelingyifangdedaodedixian,jiumeiyouzaicidehenyoukenengle。helingyifangliaoqiyiduanshijian,jiaoweizhangwolingyifangdeqingkuangxianenggoudandaliao,shuodeduoyemeiyouguanxi。
2、掌握好话题讨论完毕的時间
henvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia,bubiyizhishuodaozuizhongmeiyouhuaticaitiaoxuanwanbi,neibanhuigannankan,yehuiranglingyifangganjuenijiaoweifawei,yaoshiduliuxiefubi。liaodaohenhaideqingkuangxia,jiarufajuelingyifanghaideqingkuangzaibianruo,jiuxuyaozhangwofencun,bubizaishuole。
wozhiqianhenvhailiaotianshi,yeshinvhaibuhuiwoweixin,wangshangliaotianliaomeijiqiaoyounaxieni?,nizhidaoruheruheliaomeiliaotianjishihuiying,yeshing、a、e,zheilei,naizhiyoushihaibeinvhaijiaruheimingdande。woyizhigaobudongweishenmenvshengdouneiyangduiyuwo,zhizhiyouyicibujingyijiankanguobeigongyuzenizhuanjizheibenshu,caizhidaozheileizhuangkuangshiyouyumeiyoubeinvhaixiyinzhuzaochengde。yizhaolibiandefangshi,wokaizhanlegenggai,daoxianzaigennvshengliaotian90%doushihuihuiyingfeichanghao,bingqieguanjianshishulibiandegongxinzhanweixinliaotianjiqiaozhenxinshiyigongnengqiangda,jibenshangquanshiliaoshangjichangjiunenglijiyuechuqu,hahaha。qianglieyaoqiudixiongmenyaokanxiazheibenshu,beigongyuzenizhuanji,quzaiwangshangchaxiajiunengxunzhaodianzishujide。ronghuiguantong,yonghengbubiandezhenzhi,zhudixiongmendouzoutaohuayunbaoman。
3、变一下提问方式
zaiwangluoshanggennvshengxianliao,jiaruxiangwenlingyifangnantidehua,bubiwendetailiji,huibianyixiatichuwentidefangfahuigenghao。jiarulijiwenlingyifang“nizaiganshenme?”,neiyangdefangfalingyifangganjuenimeishenmewenminglimao,yeganjuenihenfawei。nenggouneiyangwen“wozhengzaiganshenme,nilei?”xianlihoubing,bianshibazijidezhuangkuanggaozhilingyifang,ranglingyifangshifangyali,ranglingyifangganjuenishizhenchengde,caikeyiranghuatitaolunzaici。
4、不必太主观性
zhuguanxingbianshirenhedongxidouyizhaozishendeniantoueryan,laizuoshiqing,taiziwole。
jiarunvhaiwen:“wodekouhongsehaomeiliyufou”
nanhaizibuzhengquehuiying:“wojuedebumeiguan”
nanhaiziqiadanghuiying:“zheiyikouhongdeyansegennibushihenda”
buzhengquedehuiying,wangshangliaotianliaomeijiqiaoyounaxieni?,nizhidaoruheruheliaomeiliaotianbianshitaiziwole,huiyingdefangfataizhuguanxingyebutaihao。
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