那么人的搭讪的小窍门在哪里

 shuodaodahua，xianzaiyouyulaiyuduoderenhuigenjudahualaijiejiaopengyou，dashanshishenmeyisiyeyouxierenhendichu“dahua”，shijishangwojuededahuahaikeyisuzaobenshendexinxinhegoutongxiediaonengli。jinjinguanjianshiqujueyuruhedashan，ruhedahua。xiabiandashandashishuowojiuweidahuoerzhizhizhaoer。

搭话的开场词1、不以提出问题而提出问题

 zhiwenzheixieduinidedahua“youxiao”denanti。zheiyi“yongtu”dashandashishuoguanjianjiushizhibangnifenbianyandixiahetajiaowangdejiyuhehenyoukeneng。

 liru，“nizainalizhanxiacheshi?”“nideshierbanhaolemeiyou?”“niguangdeyouduolei?”“nijuedezheigefandianruhe?”…………gaileinantinenggou likeweihainiduitaxiayibucaiyongdetiyihexingdong。tishidahuoeryixia，yiqietichuwentidoubuliyuchuangjianshushidu。yinci，“niganshenmegongzuode?”“nilaizinali?”“nipingchangxiaizuoshenme?”“niyizhizaishenmexuexiao?”…………gaileinantizaidahuadeqianqihuanjiebianshikonghuayidui。

搭话的开场词2、尽量用陈述句替代一般疑问句

liru，dahuayigeyijingtingtangpanghuangdemm。“nishizaidengma?”jiubibushang“laikannidepengyouyewanle”heli。

 xixinganshou，houmianyizhongdeyudiaogengjianjue、dangran、youshan，bingqiehaiqiadangdianshizheledashanzhezijideqingkuang。bijiaozhixia，qianmianyizhongdedanchunxingtiwenjimeibiaomingnizijideyiqiexinxineirong，haiguidingduifangweinichushitadezhuangkuang，zheijiufeichangrongyirangmmjiaolvbuanhedichu。

搭话的开场词3、不规定另一方回应的提出问题

 liru“wojuederenshini?”jiqi“womenyiqizouruhe?”zheijijuhuadebenzhishi“woshigexiangrenshinideren”jiqi“woshigexianggenniyiqizouderen”，zhishishixiangmmchanshunidelaiyi。kejiarujiangwanyihouniyejiujianmole，neimazheijijuhuajiubianchenglechunsuideyibanyiwenju“wojuederenshini，kebukeyi?”“womenyiqizou，zenmeyang?

 erlingyifangyejiuwubizaiyeshenozhongjianzuoyigetiaoxuanle。cike，chuziyufangfanyishibennengfanying，mmgengfeichangrongyizuochufourendehuiying。yinci，zhongyaodefangfabianshibukeyijianmo，bukeyinankan，bukeyidengdaimmjianghua，yaolikexuanzedierjuxiantan。liru“jintiandetianqiruheruhe”“zheigedifangzenyangzenyang”。

搭话的开场词4、友善

 dahuanvhaideqingkuangxia，yidingyaoyouhao。jiaruniyilianyinxianduladequdahua，zaobarenhetuile。yinci，dashanshishenmeyisizaihenvshengdahuadeqingkuangxiayidingyaoyouhaobingqiebubijiaolvbuan。(budahuadeqingkuangxia，xintaibubigaoao，yaoburanhuijilingyifangyifutiandagenilaoerdeyinxiang。)