跟生疏女生搭讪为何非常容易被拒

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女孩总爱听之任之

 xuduonanhaizizaidahuashiyidingdoufangzhibushangneiyangdenankan，neijiushinvhaiduinichongmanlefangbeixinlizhuangtai。tamenyingduinidedahuayizhitingzhirenzhi，jibian nijiletamenyiduanshifenyouhaodekaichangci，keshitamenhenyoukenengliannideyijuhuadoubuyuanduotingtingjiudiaotoupaodiao。cikedeninengwenyixiaziji，weiheyiqiedoushiyizhaoshubenshanghuoshizaiwangshanggezhonggongzuojingyankaizhande，danshinvhaibianshizhijiaojininiyigeshenyingni?

 zuixiannixuyaogaoqingchu，jiaruyigelurenhuranyunidahua，biaomingchuduinidexingquaihaohehaogandu，dashanjiqiaozuoweiyiqieyigenvshengyidingdoushihuiweichijingtidexintai。huoxuzheiyinvhaizaoyibeihenduorendahuaguo，yinci duinanhaizidedahuazaoyimianyili，tahuijiangnidangzuotuixiaochanpinshangyebaoxiandexiaoshouyuanyiyang。neimaruciyilainidedahuabidingbuchenggong。

 neimayingduinvhaidezheileixinlizhuangtai，nixuyaokuaisubiaominglaiyi，ruguonichongzuqianghandaonvhaimeiyoumashanghuijuedejiyu，neimanidedahuajiyoukenengqudechenggong。

女孩不容易马上对你有好感

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 youdeqingkuangxianvhaimenhuiduijijixiangqiandahuadenanhaizishengneijiutianmandichu，bingbingbushiyouyunizishendenanti。zhishizaitamenyanli，niyuyigenvshengdahuajiuzhengshinijiaoweiqingtiao。yinci ，zaihenvshengdahuashiniyaoquchukendingzhenxinshiyidexintai，shuomingzishenyaoxiangjiejiaotadezhenxinshiyi。ruciyilaijianxinhuifeichangdadetigaodahuatongguolv。

如果你和女生索取联系电话

 bulunshizaijieshanghuanshimouyichangsuo，ruguonihemouyinvhaidahua，zuihouqudechenggongdejieguobianshitatongyijianglianxidianhualiuyourangni。zhongjiu，yaoxiangzhihouyouyidingdexiangjiaojiuwubiyaoqudenvhaidelianxidianhua。jinguanzheishinidezhongjimubiao，keshiqianwanbiejigongjinli，yikaishijiupobujidaidexiangnvhaisuoqulianxidianhua。zhongjiusheiyebuyuanyijianggerenxinxibiaolujiyigepengmiandanshishufenzhongderen。ninengxianchangshihetashuominglaiyi，yongyixieheshidajiadehuatitaolunrangtaduinikendingbuhuishifendichu。henduorenquanshizhaowoliaozhaowoliaojiyugongshenghaoganduyehuoxu。zheigeshihouninengshuomingyaoxiangjiaopengyoudeniantou，neimayaogehaobingdanshifen。

怎样降低搭话被拒的几率

最先长相

 zenyangjiangdidahuabeijudejilvzheishiyigekanzhangxiangdeshehuifazhan，nipobudeyirenke，nandaoshuoninengdahuayigechouguniang?danzhangxiangbingbushijinjinliandaner，zheiyidianbiaozhunduinanhaizihuiwandekaidian，yaoshinanhaishengaogou，chuandededang，haikeyirangnvhaiganjuehenokle。xiangfan，jiarudiyiyinxiangbuzuhaohuirangtarenzhuguanyiduandeganjuezheirenhenyoukenengyeshijiaoweilalilata。dangranyejiuduinimeixingqule。

讲话要幽默搞笑，明白让她开心高兴

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明白文明礼貌知进退，有知人之明，办事要客观

 dahuayaoyoulimao，xuehaoshuo”ganxie“”ninhao“zheileidewenminglimaoyu。yeyoubieyiweidezhuiganmeizhitiwenti，shikeguanchalingyifangmuguanghexiaobiaoqing。jiarufajuebudui，yaomingbaisisuozishennaerzuodebuduihuoshiweifandaomeizhideshenjingxitongshitabijiaominganle。keguankandaiyiqie，fangnengdexinyingshoudedahua。

一个有理有据的原因

 zuizhongyaolingyifanglianxidianhuadeqingkuangxiagengyaoliuyi，tashitingxiandeyibuqi。jiaruzheibuqipanjincuo，gongkuiyikui。jiaruzoudui，baodemeirengui。zaizheiertianbuyixia：weiheyaolianxidianhuashigejiaoweinandenanti?ruguonimingquetichuyaolianxidianhuashi，pingchangrendoushihuizaochengyizhongyufangtizhi，buguannishinanhuanshinv。jiaruzheishinibunengyouyige“tangerhuangzhi”deyuanyinshinanyixudaode。yinci zheiyiyuanyinhuoshifencunganzishencaokonghao。lianxidianhuahuode，dashanfazeguanjianshikanzheniyumeizhizaixianliaoquanguochengdeshijian、jiqijuedejuecede。xianliaoshijianhejiaotantihuiyuzuizhongjianlilianxifangfachengxianxingxiangguan。yibanlaishuoshijianyuejiuyuefeichangrongyiqudao。daozuizhongnizhibixuyigeyouliyoujudeyuanyinjiunaxiale。