女人不搭理你怎么办？搭讪的技巧哪些好

 weihedahuanvdebulini？zenyangyoumoliaotian？bubiqinei，buyaoqinei，sheidouhaimeigebuchenggongdeqingkuangxia，genghekuangnizheijinjinqudahuayoubushiqugaobai，haipa?duolianxi，yesuanzuozhanglegegongzuojingyan。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

最先，提议搭话的男孩子不必出現下列状况：

不正确一：彻底不提及自身的归路，一味逼问女孩的信息内容。

 dabufennanhaizidahuadekaichangciquanshi“piaoliangmeinv/tongxuenihao，ganggangjiandaoniblahblah(gezhonggeyangmeihaodeciyu)，nengyunirenshiyixiama?”zenyangyoumoliaotian？zheileizhuangkuang，piaoliangdenvhaiquanshilijipaodiao…...youyubuqingchunishisheiya，shixueyuanhuanshigongzuozhongle，dayuenianjiyekanbuchu，woweihegenyigelurenkonghua?niyudaoshangchuandanpaifademeichabiema!liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

不正确二：针对性过强，急切取得成功，急于求成。

 yibanzhuyaobiaoxianwei：yishangqujiuwenshoujihaoma，liankaichangciyemeiyou。liru，“piaoliangmeinv，nengbangwoyixianideshoujihaoma?”“piaoliangmeinv，jiageweixinbei”，zheileinanhaizilingrenjuedehensuiyi，qingtiao，haoxiangmeirihuiwenjishigeguolurenshoujihaomadezhonglei。zuiyaorenmingdeshi，zheileiwenshuilufahuirangnvhaijuedezishenshineimasuiyidema?

不正确三：油腔滑调种类，不可靠种类。

 xuduonanhaizixueleyiliangjujingdiantaici，jiuchulaijiannvhaibianshuo，zheizhongjingdiantaicidoubeibierenshuolanle，zouxiaodianxinba，nanrenmen。wofeichangzongtingdehuashi：“woganjuejiaruwobuhuilairenshini，wonenghouhuimojiyibeizi”neimexuqingjiayi，yeyoulianshuo，wozhenshiqinpeinidedanliang(han)haowuyiwengenjishigeguolurendoushuoyiguoba，jiangwodangshazima。yibeizi，hehehe。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

搭话没理你怎么办

 bubiqinei，buyaoqinei，sheidouhaimeigebuchenggongdeqingkuangxia，genghekuangnizheijinjinqudahuayoubushiqugaobai，haipa?duolianxi，yesuanzuozhanglegegongzuojingyan。zenyangyoumoliaotian？laoshijidemingyanbianshi：wocongweibuchenggongguo，wozhishizhaodaoyiwanzhongbujianxiaodefangshibale。dahua，jianghuiqudechenggong，yejianghuibuchenggong。shijishangbeijujueyeshihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，wuxuganjuefeichangganga。dahuajiudegaohaobeijujuedechongfenzhunbei，nixuyaoxiangdahuaqudechenggongjianghuijiunengrenshiyixia，dahuabuchenggong，jiushileliangsanjudeluren。jiaruqudahua，lingyifangbulini，neijianghuijiushinidahuadefangfabutaihao。dahuabeijujueganjuefeichangganga，nenggouxiaozhelingyifangshuo“neimeishier，wojiwopenyouwende”zheileide。

搭话tips

 1.jiaruganjuehaobutaihaoyao，jiubazijidehaojiaojilingyifang，jilingyifangtiaoxuanlianluoshifoudezhipeiquan，rangnvhaibawozhudaoquan。

 2.buguanshuoxieshenmeganshenme，douhaijideyaoshishixiangyongxinchuduixiangerbushiyouhuidenvhai，zaiyingduizheshixiangdequanshi“zheigerenchusema?”“zheigerenyouzaiyiqidejianghuima?”yinci ，nanhaizidemeirirenwubianshiquzaiduanqineineijinliangchulizheilianggenanti。

男孩子恰当的搭话姿态

第一步：外观设计篇

 wuxutingshuai，kanjianzhengjiejiukeyile。qianwanbielalilata，bubitu，gengbukeyiyishenchouhan(chufeishinishigangconglanqiuchangdishangzouchuqudeshuainan)。ziranyebubiguoduchuanzhedabanchuandefeizhuliunvsheng……xiangcunfeizhuliunaxiederaolewoba。

第二步：张口讲话，声音速度减慢，说得快并不等于另一方会更有耐心!

 dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？jianghuaneirongshibaohan：jianjiemingledejiandanziwojieshao，liru“tongxuenihao，woshiwomenyuanxiaoxxxuexiaodexnianlingxueyuan，wodemingzijiaoxx”huoshi“ninhao，woshizaizhoubianxxgongsishangbandexx”lirucilei。huiyingzishen，liru“dahuayoudianermaomei，keshirujinmeiyoubiedegengqiangdefangfale，zheishiwodiyicizouzailushanggenshengshunvhaidashan”