如何正确搭讪而不会被拒绝？搭讪技巧哪些好

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chukaiyizhedabanyiwai，nideshenxingshenxing、gaogemengjindexinxinjuzhiyehuirangtaduinizaochenghaogandu，kuodadahuadetongguolv。

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 dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？jinidahuadesuiyi，tayeshiyoujienahuoshihuijuedesuiyi；nikeyiyouzongtimubiaoditiaoxuandahuamubiao，tayekeyiyouzongtimubiaodijienahuoshihuijuedahua。dahuabianshiyizhongyixinxin、gongpingweijibendeshuangxiangjiaoliu。