还不知道如何正确搭讪喜欢的女生？看完你就知道搭讪技巧哪些好

 ruheliaomeishiyizhikunhuoxuduonanshitongbaomendenandian，jinqiyiduanshijian，xuduodixiongsiliaogenwoshuo“zenmehexiaidenvshengxianliao？”he“zenyangcaikeyihenvshengkaixindexianliao？”。dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？shijishang，xuduonanshengyebumingbairuhezhengquedehenvshengjiaowang，bumingbainvxingsiwei，henvshengjiaowangzhipingzishendejuede，neiyangdejieguotongchangbianshilejielexuduonvhai，querengrandanshennannv。ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

 dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？wangbianwozhiqianyeshixiangqinyuehuilejishigemeizhi，dantongtongdouyouyubushanyanci，beinvhaijujuele。zhihoukandaolemeiyuwanfengxiedeshizhanyanlianxianliaoshili，.worumengchuxing，henvhailiaotianyuanxiannenggouneimehaowanerquwei。ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

1、闲聊的目地是啥？

 zuoweiyigeyoujingyanren，xiangduinishuoxianliaodemudiyidingshiyaoqing，youyuniyaoxiangdeshiyigeyingshengshengdenvyou，erbushimeirihuozaixiangxiangdangzhong，xiandaishehuideshenghuodejiezouneimakuai，tashenpangruguochuxianyigebiniyouxiudenanren，zhibudingpengmianyiqianjiubeibiedenanshengqiangqu。

 zirannixuyaogaoqingchuyigedadaoli，xiangyuenvhaichuqumingqueqinglvguanlian，bingbushiyijujijuhuajiukeyiliaochengde，jiaruzheiyinvhaiyiliangjuhuajiunengtongyini，yiyangtahaikeyitongyiqitanansheng。

2、闲聊的核心是什么？

xianliaodeguanjianshiyaorangnvhaixintaizaochengqifu，neiyangtacaihuiduinizaochengchuliandeganjue，jugeshili：

 nizaochenqushangban，daoshangchajuezijideqianjiadiulian，suihouyizhengtiandoutouhunhunchenchen，yelixiabanledeqingkuangxiayigerexinrenrangnisonglehuijia，shibushiniqingxuhuiyishunjianhenkaixin。yinci，nifajuelemeiyou，qianjiahuanshinageqianjia，keshiniyitiandexintaizhuanbianqueshifendeda。

 dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？paoniuyeshiyiyangdedadaoli，biaocengshangkan，dahuoerliaodefangfoquanshitongyiyangwupin，danjiarunimeifaqifudaotadexintai，niyejiubukeyirangmeizhiganshoudaobuyiyangdexianliaokuaile，nimeifajinvhaifeichangdejuede，youzenyangjibaibiedejingzhengduishouni？ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

3、闲聊的基础流程

第一步：激起兴趣爱好

neimazenyangjiqinvhaidexingquaihaoni？

jugeshili：nijiarulijiwennvhai，nilaizinali，huoduohuoshaohuirangnvhaiganjueyoudianerbeishenxundejuede。

jiarunixiangyaozhidaotashinaliren，ninengxuanyonglengdudefangfa，nenggouhuanwei，kanzhenihaoxiangshisichuanren。

meizhijiusuanhuiyingbingbushi，suihouwenniweishenme，niyenenggoujieyiju“youyutingwensichuanyouhenduopiaoliangmeinvha”。

第二步：创建吸引住

 youderendajialejielehaozhangshijian，danjuedebingbingbushihenlejie，youderen，cailejieyitian，bianhuijinizaochengyijianrugudejuede，zheidaodishizenmehuishini？

 zheierbianshiyunyongleshijianyiweifa，womenkeyigenjuzhuiyishaonianertongqingkuangxiadeyouqudeshi，zhaoyixiequweidetupokoucaiyinqigongming，nvhaiyehuiyunigongxiangyixiezishenershiqingkuangxiadeyouqudeshi，neiyanghuirangnvhaijuedenifangfotaershidepengyou，zaochengyizhongniyutayiqizhangdadexintaizhuangtaihuanjue。

第三步：建立关联

 dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？chenzherededatie，zainvhaizaoyibeinixiyinzhudezhuangkuangxia，nidexunsudebatayuechuqu，yaoburandengtameiduihuakuangle，zaizenmeyuedouyuebuchulaige。