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在旅行的时候被强行搭讪怎么办?教你几个预防被陌生人搭讪的技巧

 zenyangyoumoliaotian?dujialvyoudeqingkuangxia,beiqiangzhidahuagaizenmeban?fangzhilurendahuadexiaoqiaomen。liaotianbaodian:dashandejiqiaonaxiehao?xianshiwomenfuyuanyixialvyoushijianghuichuxiandahuagerenxingweideqingjing:

a.yijingxingzoushibeilanchulaizhilu

julishuoming:zhiluren:hixiaojieninhao,woxiangwenyixiaxxxdiruhezoua?

b.zaichengzuodaibugongjushibeilinzuoderenqiangzhidahuahuoshixunwen

julishuoming:dahuaren:e^?nishiquxxxxma?woshiei~quneiganshenmea?

c.yongcanhuoshijiudianzhusushibeiqiaoyuhuoshilinzuoderenqiangzhidahua

 julishuoming:zenyangyoumoliaotian?dahuaren:tingnihuayinshixxlaidema?woyiqianyeshiyoupengyoushineibiandee~dajiajianghuadouhaohaoditing!liaotianbaodian:dashandejiqiaonaxiehao?

 zhishang3zhongchangjingjiushiwochulailvyoushibeidahuabijiaoduodeqingjing,yibianjiejuezheileinanti,xialiejiushiwoduiyumeigeqingjingdechudeshekongshouce:

情景a:已经行走/赏析美丽风景时被搭话

解决方式 :

1.健步如飞法——不给所有人拦下你的机遇

 zhengsuoweitianxiawugong,weikuaibupo。zaiyishidaozishenyoushekongyihou,diyigeyaoxiuliandebianshi"jianburufei"zhuanyejineng,yongyouzheiyigongzuonengli,dabufennenggoufangzhi50%zailuchengzhongduoyudedahua。shexiangyixia,jiarunilaidaoxuanxiaodechengshibixuzhilu,ninengzhaoshenmeyangderenni?wojuedeyidingburongyizhaokanshangqujijimangmangde,erbubingqiezuohaoyibuzoudefeijidongcheba?

 jibiannijiangtamenlanchulai,tamendoubuyidinghuiyongxintingnidewenti。dechudekenengshichedibuzhengquedefangwei。yinci,ruguonishiyigeshekongbingrenshi,yingyong"jianburufei"nenggouconggenbenyuanyinshangfangzhibeidahuadezhuangkuang。ciwai,jianburufeishi,yanjingwubizhushizhengqianfang,bubiyusuoyourenyoueyecontact,yongyoueyecontact,nibeilanchulaidegailvhuidadazengjia。

2.惜字如金法——单独字的回应就是你的决杀武器装备,你就是话题讨论结束王

 danrenmenjieyeyouyizhongguaiyidezhongqunchengwei"zilaishu",erzheileizhongleilibiandebazhechengwei"qiangzhizilaishu",zuiyouxiangzhengxingdebianshizhongguodamamen。womamazuowei"qiangzhizilaishu"zhongdeyiyuan,buguanzaiqichezhanhuanshirenxinghengdaoshangmiannengheburenshiderenzhaohuati。zenyangyoumoliaotian?tamendejueshawuqizhuangbeishi"lianhuaitichuwentifa",xianjiangnilanchulai,suihouxiaoxixitiyixiekanqilaijianyidenantijinibutaihaohuijue,shubuzhiyihoumeiyigenantiranhouciwaiyigenanti,yihuankouyihuan,jinimeifashanbi,huanghuzhijiandangzhong,shifenzhongzaoyiqiaoqiaodiyiwang……liaotianbaodian:dashandejiqiaonaxiehao?

 pengdaozheilei"qiangzhizilaishu"debazhe,shidefangshi bianshi——xizirujin!zhenduitamendenantijinyousanzhonghuiying:shi,bingbushi,buqingchu。chengqianshangwanbubiduojiangchuzheiwugezizhiwaideyiqieyigezi,burandoushijilingyifang"shijishangtayoudianerxianghenizaicixianliao"debuzhengqueshujuxinhao。hao,dajiajiexiaquyanxiyixia:

dahuaren1:qingwenyixiazheiyixxxruhezoua?ni:buqingchue^——huatitaolunjieshu

dahuaren2:ninhao~nenggoubangwopaizhangzhaoma?ni:hao。(paiwanzhaoyihouyaoxiangzaicidahua)

dahuaren2:wa!qingwennishijishuzhuanyedema?paidezhenbangya!ni:bingbushi。

dahuaren2:bingbushijishuzhuanyedoupaineimepiaoliang?lihaiya!ni:xiaorong——huatitaolunjieshu

 ziran,"xizirujin"zheiyifangshi bingbushizhiyouyongzaiqingjingazhongde,yaoshiyiduandahuakaishile,jiaruniyaoxianglikewanbizheicihuihua,yingyong"xizirujin"shishidefangfa,xialiedeyiqieyigeqingjingzhong,xizirujindounenggouyiqiezhengchangyingyonge~

情景b:乘座代步工具时被邻座强制搭话

 zaiwoyujiandequanbuqingjingzhong,zheiyizhongshizuifeichangrongyibeiqiangzhidahuade,youqishifeijihuocheshangshijianjiaoweizhang,shineikongjianyoujiaoweizhaixiao,dahuoernenggouzuodeshierhenshao,yincidahuadechanshengdejianghuiyejiaoweida。zheileiqingkuangxia,jiuxuyaocongmeiyigejieduandoubimiandahuachanshengdegailv。

1.自身室内空间法——最后第二排的靠窗户坐位就是你的天然屏障

 zaiqingchunouxiangjujuqingzhong,bushanyancinanzhudezhuanyongbuweishizuihoudierpaidekaochuanghuzuowei,zenmehuishi?youyutabuyuanyigendahuoerduojianghua,yaoweichixinxiangan。yinciyaobimianshejiaomeiti,zuixianjiuxuyaotiaoxuanyigepianyiquntiguanlizhongxindebianyanbuwei。feijihuocheshanghoupaizuodekaochuanghuzuowei,suishisuidinenggouzhuantoukanxiangchuangqiankaizhanshehuixuesisuo,sugeladiyiyangxiaobiaoqingdaoyingzaibolichuangshang,zheiyike,qiankunzhicunyouyunidesisuodangzhong。

2.物理学自闭症法——封闭式起來,没有人会打扰你

 jinqiyinianwowaichulvyou,daodaibugongjushangyijiuzuo15fenzhongneibidingrushui,bingqiebizaijialishuidedouxiang,yebuzhidaoshizhelenaxiemo。ziran,rushuiyihoujiumeirenhuilaigenniqiangzhidahuale,zhongjiusheiyuanchengdan"qichuangqi"ni?

3.手机耳机定魂法——把歌曲收种,用听觉系统找开心

 ziranyoushirushuiyebushiwanlingdan,zhouweidaniangdexianliao,houpaizuoxiaoduantuidanyeyaoyizhitinidetaoyanguijiqifenhaowulunxiaopihaidebabamamachangchanghuipengdao,yincinixuyaoyigezugetamende"jinzhongzhao"!

 zheiyijinzhongzhaowoyibanhuitiaoxuantoudaishierji。nilejieouzhoudeguojia,yuezhongbeiyueyoushekong,yuezaihugerenkongjian。tamenshineileigongcheshangjiarunizuozhetazhouweitalikezhanliqilaizhaoyigemeiyourenzuoweideneileishekong,meiguorengengweichangjian。yincidaileyinianyihou,wofaxianletamenwaichuchangchangpeidaiyigezhuanyonggongjulaiduiwaikaifangxuanbugerenkongjian——toudaishierji。daishangzheileitoudaishierji,dengtongyuzaietoushangxielesigecuzi"bubifanwo",yigerennenggouzaidiscodequanqiulizidechangyou。

情景c:用餐或是酒店住宿时被搭话

 zheileizhuangkuangyibanjiaoweishao,keshiyigerenduliyongcanshiyeyoujianghuibeilinzuodedanshennanrendahuade,zheileizhuangkuangzaiouzhouyouyidingdezhanbi。yaoxiangduodiaolailibumingdedahua,xialieyou3zhongfangshi gongniyingyong:

1.拼了命看手机法——手机上是我的全部性命

 shoujishangbeichuangzaofamingchuquzhenshijiejiuleshekongderen,xiangjiaoweidaishangmafandeshuji,daiyizhixiaoxiaoshoujishang,yongcanshibiankanbianchi,chenjinzaizishendequanqiu,meirenhuidajiaoxiangyouxuhuanshijiekaixindeniyo~

2.装糊涂法——sorry,Idontunderstand

 laidaohaiwai,changchangyoufenbuqingchuyazhoudiquxiangmaodexiaozhan(jamie)、xiaoluo(robert)changshigenniwenhao,yibantamenhuixunwenni:rujapanese?kuniqiwa?huoshirukorean?lolannihasaiyo?

 zheigeshihou,niyibanyaozhuyaobiaoxianchumihuobujiedexiaobiaoqing,suihouzhenchengxiaorong,yizhishoutaiqiyaobaibudingzuochu"no"dezishi,qidongjiaodidianjidakai"jianburufei"defangshi。qianwanbiechangshigenbierenbiaoshu:imchinese,fromchinazheileide。buranniyejiuhuibeitichuwentidexifangrenchengshengjujiyibaigenanti。

3.掩藏名模法——在我十米范畴以内都是被冻住冰哟

 zuizhongeryanyigeqinziceshigongnengqiangdadefangshi ,bianshiyanzangmingmofa。dashandejiqiaonaxiehao?ziranwogezijinyou158,meibanfafuyuanmingmodegezi,zhiyouxiaofangmingmodeqizhi。ermingmodeqizhibianshi:kuangwangzida、mukongyiqie、mubuxieshi、lenglengbingbing、dabuliuxing。zongeryanzhibianshibenshenyaoshifangchuyizhong"bieguolaifanwo,fanwonijianghuihuisi"deqizhi。youzhezheileiqizhiyihou,jichuyeliwaichudouburongyipengdaonance。

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