搭讪的好处有哪些你知道吗？怎么搭讪才正确

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？yijianzhongqingzheileiqiuerbudequeyaoxiang，zongsuanpengdaozishenkewangbukejidenvsheng，zendongdetacongshenbiancongcongmangmangzouyuan，danshiyaoxiangxiangqiandahua，quechajuezijiyagenbuqingchushuoqixienaxie。liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

 ainizaixinkounankai，jianghuibianshizheibanba。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？neimapengdaoxinaideguniangzenyangcainengrangtabucongniyanxiabianchengcongcongguokeni？neibianshidandashanglaidahua，genjudahua，rangxianghushengshudebici，lejiexianghu。haodedahuakeyixiezhuniyizhizaizhuiqiuwanmeidelumianshangjiyaqunxiong，neijiujinggaizenmezuoni？liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

1、扩展异性交友圈

 bansuizhezhongguodanshennanshizaojiutishengwuqianwandelailin，zheiyejiudaibiaozhejiangyou3000duowandenanshirenkoushuliangjiangzaoyu“qubudaolaopo”dejushi。

zheijiangshiyigejiweilangduoroushaodeshiqi，yincijiarunibuyuanyibeizi，qubudaolaopo，jiuwubizuochugenggaile。

kuokuanjiaopengyouquandefangfa，youhenduozhongduoyang，nenggouduoqubaomingcanjiazuduihuoshilianjidezhutihuodong。

 biru，mitu，bengbengchuang，panyanyundong，huabing，manpao，ajiao，zheixiehuwaihuodong，doushipengdaobuyiyangdenvhai，lejiedaliangdenvhai。

zhangwogezhongleidenvhai，nicaikeyiyuenizishenzhenshiaideren。duozouxiangshijie，shaozhaizaijia，caishiyingdaolie。

2、超越自我

bingqie，woguojuedaduoshunanhaizidouhaipazaijieshang、daxingshangchang、ditiezhan、diantijiaoxiangdengdiqugenzishendongxindenvshengdahua。

youyutamendanxinshibai，ganjueyaobushanglianxidianhuahuihendiumianzi，danyoutarenganjuetamendahuaneiyangdegerenxingweihuihenguaiyi。

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？keshi，zhiyaoniyuanyiquchuyixiawu，qudahua20genvsheng，ninengfajueqiansanci，jiujuedehaoxiangreshenyundong，buguanqudechenggongshifou，doushijinijindaoyizhongjijizhudongdejidongqingkuang。liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

bansuizhenidahuadepinciyulaiyuduo，yulaiyuxianshu，nidexinxinhedanliangdoushidangrantigao。

zailianaixuezhong，xinxinheyingyongquanshiqiangdadexiyinzhugexingtezheng。

 bingqiezheijidagexingtezhengyidanpeiyang，buguannishixiyinzhunvsheng，huanshicongyebiedexingye，doushiduinichanshengshifenyouliangdeweihai。

3、学好辨别

 zaijimengxiangjiwenshidejinri，cuishengchuleyidapide“jiazhao”，haikeyishuojibenshangmeiyigenvhaidoushiyingyongjimengxiangjibazijipdemeimeidade。

 yingyongjimengxiangjijiuhaoxiang，rendaotongtengdeqingkuangxiafushilemazuiyao，jinjinbiaocengjuedebutengle，danshitongtengyirancunyou，shuobailebunenggenchu。

danshi，zheiyewukefeiyi，zhongjiuaimeizhixinrenrenjieyou。

 danzheizhenduidajiazhaoduixiangeryan，shiqueshidaozhilejudadefumianyingxiang，meiyigenanshengdouqidaixungepiaoliangnvhaiwanhun，bazijideyichuanjiyinchuansongdegengqiang。

 keyingduinvhaimenzhanxianrangwomendexiangpianshi，“xiuwei”shangqiandedixiongshiqueshibianbiechubulaizhenjia，zaiwangshangliaotianlehaozhangshijiande“piaoliangmeinv”yuechuqujieguocaifajueshibawanglong，zheileixiangpianyushijizhongjiandeqifuyeshigoudenishoude。

yincixianshishenghuozhongdahuajiukeyichedibangniguolvdiaozheixie“jiazhao”，haojinianxinquai，dandaquai！

jietoudashanhuanshiyouhenduofangshi ，danzuizhongyaodeshidanliang。

ruguonigan，jibenshangjiuqudechenggongyibanle。

zaifangshi fangfashang，guanjianbawoxialiejileijiuchongzule。

1、来到她的眼前，对他说

 “hai，daraoyixia，wobujiuzaineibiandeqingkuangxiajiukandaoleni，nidezhangqunfeichangpiaoliang，worenweinihenyouqizhi，huranjiutexiangrenshini”。

 tashiyijulianguanxingdehua，niganwanbukeyiguodujinzhang，dangranchihuandeweiweiertanjiukeyile，erqieyidingyaoquebaolingyifangshizaiyongxintingnifayandeqingkuang，erbushiniziyanziyutayagenmeiyouyunigoutongjiaoliushang，nixuyaozhenxinchengyibiaomingshangxita，yaoxianglejieta。

ganwanbukeyirangtawurenweinishigenzongkuanghuoshishigaochuanxiaozuzhide。

2、也有一种方式 便是，你能说

 “ninhao，bujiuwohaizaineilidengpenyouqiahaojiandaoni，ganjuenihenyoushan，yincichongguolaijiuxianggennirenshiyixia，danyihuierwodoudequzhaowodehaopengyou”。

 zheiyejiuhenhaodeshuominglenidezhenshishenfen，nishiyigezhengjingren，erqieyeanshizheletanikendingbuhuiyizhijiuchanbuqingta，burongyiduitadaozhiweixie。

 duanqineineishimeifachuangjianxinlaide，keshizheileifangshi quenenggouweilingyifangqianruguishugan，yincizaidahuazhong，nvhaideguishugan，jiushiniyaokaolvdaodezhuyaoyaosu！

 zaizheigequanguochengzhizhong，zuixiannixuyaowenminglimaoshifangyali，buranyehuijiazhonglingyifangdequefaanquanganhejiaolvbuan，bingqiejiangwanzheizhonghuanijianduanyixia，jitayixieshijianhuancun。

 nvhaiyibandoushihenchayi，huoshixunwenniyixienanti，niyaoshizhenxinchengyihuiyingtajiuhaole，bixudeqingkuangxianinengjianyidekaizhanyixiajiandanziwojieshao~

3、要联系电话

 shoujihaojibenshangshizuigerendelianxidianhuale，daduoshudoujianghuihuiqianshedaochuxukahuobiedezhanghudeguanlian，yincimingquetichuyaolianxidianhuananduxishuhenda。

 bingqiejishiyaolaidao，worenweirujindahuoeryongdianhuayuyangoutongdegongzuonenglidouburushoujiweixingengwengoutongjiaoliudegongzuonengliba~

 bijiaozhixia，weixinhaomajiugengfeichangrongyiyaodao，zhongjiunideshihoujingjichangbingbushilianxidianhua，zhishizaiweixinshangkaizhan，bingqieniyaonenggougenjuweixinfapengyouquanxianghuzhijianzhangwoxianghuderichangshenghuo。

 yinci，wojianyidahuoershouhaoshi，yaoweixinhaomajiuxing。niyejiukeyishuo：“wodelikezhaogepengyoule，wojianigeweixinba。”

ruguonineishihoudewaiguanshejichongzuok，zhuyaobiaoxianchongzudedangran，nvshengyibanshiburongyihuijuenide。

jiaruhuijuenibuwaihushitazishenshifenxiuse、guishuganjiaodi，huozheyouyuxinqingyumenerhuijueni。

zenyangdashan？zongeryanzhi，dahuabingbushizuihoumudi，mudiqujueyunigenjudahuatishengziwo、chaoyueziwo。