womenzaizishenderichangshenghuo、huoshizouzaijiedaoshandoushipengdaozishenxiaidemeizhi,bingqieshihaixuduo,xinliyizhiduoduoshaoshaoyaoxiangqulejietadeyuwang,keshi,youyouduoshaodixiongzhenshidequdahuatamenni?ruhejiaopengyou?yexushiyouyuzishenhaipa,yexubushimingbaidahuadefangfa,liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?dashanjiqiaoyounaxie?neimajinriwangbianjiuweidahuoshuoshuodahuanvxingzuiyouxiaodefangfajiqichangjianwenti:
1、搭话时尽早自我介绍,要比在别的场所里更快的自我介绍,由于大家我国人的教育便是不必和别人发言,在你详细介绍了你叫什么名字,和她搭讪的目地,你是干什么的这些。
ruhejiaopengyou?meizhibianhuiduiniyixiezhangwo,dajiadelejiegan、guishuganbianhuiqiangyixie,taburongyijuedenishichedideluren,duidajiajiexiaqudehudongjiaoliushihenbixude。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?dashanjiqiaoyounaxie?,chuanshangzishenzuikude“taozhuang”
yifangmianpinpaixingxiangshidahuadediyiyinsu,shimeizhihenijianghuadequdonglisuoshu;lingyifangmianhaodepinpaixingxianghuitishengnidexinxin,zheiyoujiushinidahuanvshengenengbuduandequdongli,yinci,zaidahuanvshengyiqianhuayigexiaoshizhenglizishenshiwubide。
3、放松一点
xuehuifangxianidejiaolvbuan,neiyangnenggourangtanenggouqingqingsongsongdikandainidedahua,xuduo deqingkuangxianidahuanvrendoushizishenmeiyougaohao,zishenjiaolvbuan、miantian、fangbuxia,neimameizhihaowuyiwenyeyiyangde,dajiashizaiyigeqingjingxiade,nizijiganjueshushi,caikeyiranglingyifangganjueshushi,dajiadahuahudongjiaoliudequanguochengcaihuishushi。
4、假如你准备用NEG来开局,是面带微笑做为赔偿
xiaorongnenggoujiejuexuduo nankandechangsuo,zainitiejinnvxingdeqingkuangxiashiyeshixiaoronglaiyingdui,meizhidiaozhuantoujiandaoyizhangxiaorongdelianshinanyihuijuenide。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban?dashanjiqiaoyounaxie?
5、假如你沒有好的托词或是沒有好的开场词,有一个合理的方法:找女生帮助法。
liru,ninhao,kefouhuanyigelingqianwodagongchea”jiarutaguoduandefanqianjia,jiuyoujihuile,houbiandewuxuwojiaoba,nenggoutantarenshanjierenyi(zongeryanzhiyidunmengkua),suihoushuo,liugeshoujiweixin,wohuilaizhuanjini,qudechenggongshouhaodejilvfeichangda。
6、情景搭话法
zaidiannei,chaoxiangyingyeyuan,yijindianmianjiutantingzheianeia,yibanzheixiechaoliufuzhuang,jingpindiande,haokandemmfeichangduo,wenshuozheiyiruhe?woyigepenyouzuoshengri,wojuedecaidianwupinjitamen,nizaishuoshenmehaoni?shijishangzheijiuzaoyiliaodaole,bingqiehendangran,meiyouyiqiedeweihe,nvrenbangnichulexiangfale,yiyangshuoqita:renhao、youpinwei、nenggouzuolaoshifuzheileidehua,zaiquliuyoutashoujiweixin,jinhouqiujiao。
7、游戏道具搭话法
jiarumeizhideshenshangyouguaiyidezhuangshipin、fuzhuang,nenggoulijihemeizhiyizheizhongwupinkaiju,biaomingduizheizhongwupinhaoqixin、haowanerdeng,meizhimeiyou,ruhejiaopengyou?ninengchuandeyebieyidian、shuangyan、zheyangmao、zhaoxiangji、shu、chaopaixiezideng,youzheizhongbianshitishengdajiazhongjiandehuatitaolun,rangdajiayouhenduodehuakeshuo,shuoduole,dajiadelejieganbianhuitigao。
8、要搭自身喜爱的
haokande,shishangchaoliude(weihe,plmmyouxinxin,beinanrendahuaxiguan,pailencituo,henopen,choudenvshengchuantong,quefazixin,juedelurendahuawozhunshicuoshi)
9、赞扬搭话法
yixingpengyoudahua,yaoxianrangzishenjuyouyouliangdeguanchagongzuonengli。kanyixiameizhiyoushenmedifangzhidezanyangdediqu,jifu、fuzhuang、pinwei、qichangdeng,yizhinixianquguancha,shenxinghepiaoliangjiububiqujiangguo,yishangqubianshuoyizhiganjueyouzhenduixing,zanmeinvrenbianhuijitafeichanghaodeyinxiang,ranhouliaoxialaidejilvhuijiaoweida。
10、你需要让搭话进到风趣趣味的氛围
jiaruninengbawozheileifenwei,niyizhizaijiedalijianghuisuoxiangpimi。zheiyidequebixuyidingderenjijiaowangnengli,bingqieshizaidajiabingbushihenlejiedezhuangkuangxia,youyidingdenanduxishu,bixuchongzudegongzuojingyancainenggou,dahuaxinshoumeifazuodaoyeyiqiezhengchang。
11、我建议你一直在收尾时假装仿佛忽然才想到这一想法一样,在搭话最和睦的情况下收尾。
liru,zainifengquyixia、nvshengdehuanxiaoshenghaimeiyouzhongzhishi,shuo,
“hei,jiaruyaoyuenishifouhuiyoudianerbuduijing,quqianbiandeguaijiaoneibianchidianbingqilinba。wohenxihuancaomeimiaopeirulaode。nizuiaidenaxiekougan?”
zheileiwuyijian,suiyishuochulaidewupin,meiyoujiaoqiangdezhenduixing,meizhitongyijiuhenhao,butongyiyehenyiqiezhengchang,niyebianshiguanchayixia。
dashanjiqiaoyounaxie?zuizhong,gaozhidahuoerdahuayeyaodaizhuwandexintaizhuangtai、xunlian、tigaozijidexintaizhuangtai,bubineimayongxin,yongxinduinimeiyoushenmeyichu,dahuaqudechenggongnidangranhuifeichanggaoxing,shibaile,niyehuixiaojiechudahuanvxingdegongzuojingyan,duinizenmequanshizhuande。
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