不会搭讪怎么办？怎么搭讪女生才能成功

 jubucheditongjifenxi，90%detanlianaiqiyuanyudahua。ziran，zheierdedahuabingbingbushizhuanzhizaijiebianxiangshengshunvshengsuoqulianxidianhua，dahuazishendehanyibianshijijiyulurengoutongjiaoliu。zenyangchulirenjiguanxi？erquweideshi，90%danshennannvdenansheng，douburongyi、yehaipaxiangshengshunvshengdahua。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

 zenyangchulirenjiguanxi？yinci ，nilejieniweishenmeyizhi“yubushang”qiadangderen，zhiyou“pobudeyi”danshennannvleba？liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zenyangdashan？yaoxianggaobiedanshen，zuixiannidexuehaodahua！

1、总体目标挑选

 youderengenwoshuo“woshiguodahualea，kemeizhiyaobushuaiyebushuai，yaobubangwoyijichaofeng，shenzhiyougaodefangfowoshigepianzigongsiyiyang！”

“bingbushiwomeishiguo，zhishiyagenbuqizuoyong！”youderenrushishuodao。

 jiaruheiguafusijiali·luobotehuoshigaier·jiaduoyueniyaoshoujiweixin，ninengchiyihehuijuema？jiaruwangxifengsihuaneiyangdemeizhiyueniyaoshoujiweixin，ninengjima？

 jinguanzheiyishilijiaoweijiduanhua，keshidabufenrendaodahuadeqingkuangxiadoushitiaoxuanyixiegaopinzhidezongtimubiao。lingyifangyigegedeyaobujuxiongdazhangtui，yaobukanqilaigenwangluohongrenyiyang，huoshiyuanbenbianshinaxiexiaohuameinvxiaohua。ernilei？bianshiyigebugaozhangdebuhaokanmeiyouqiandepingchangren，tarenrangnishoujiweixincaiyouguile。

2、使用价值装饰设计

 kanguodiyidianyihou，youxierenhuixiang“jiaruzhiyoudahuayixieyibanyiyangdemeizhi，neimewoweishenmeyaoqudahua，shenbianderenjiuxuduo a。”

 jiaruninengjidianshijiliderebada8fen，neimaluozhuangdetaniyaohuida8fenma？jutongji，yigewufendemeizhi，genjuhuazhuangnengrangzhangxiangtigaodao7fen。ruguoshihaidaoguojiadezheixiehuazhuanggaoshou，shengzhi8fendoubingbushiyijiannanti。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

 deque，nanhaiziyibanbuzenyanghuazhuang，keshininengchuanzhedabana！yigewufennan，genjutouxingheyizhedaban，tigaogeyiliangfenyebushinaxienanti。erdabufennanhaiziyagenjiumeiyoupinpaixingxiangchuanzhedabandedingyi，jishiyou，yeshimangmugenfengnongyixiebuyizishendetouxingheyizhe。

 zhaojishuzhuanyedemeifashiheshishangzaoxingshijizijishejifanganyigeheshizishendezaoxingsheji，rangzishendewaizaishiyongjiazhigaoxie，neiyangnilaidahuadeqingkuangxia，dahuazheixielveweigaopinzhiyidiandemeizhitongguolvbianhuidaxuduo 。

3、心态因素

 waizaibiaozhunokle，keshihenduorendebenzhibiaozhunhaibuhao。zuidianxingxingde，bianshixuduo meiruhehenvshengchupengdenanrenzaidahuadeqingkuangxia，tongchangdoushifeichangjiaolvbuan，yizhiyukanshangquhenweixie。

 shijishangzheijiuhediyicichupengshichangxiaoshouderenyiyang，jinidongxiangyigelurentuiguangchanpin（niziji），diyicihuoshidiyicishijianduannihaowuyiwenhuijiaolvbuan，duoshijihuijiuhaole。

 kenantijiuqujueyu，xuduo rendaozishenqingkuangbutaihaodahuashibaileyihou，bianhuibuzixin，bianhuisangshizixinxin。zenyangchulirenjiguanxi？yongyouzheileixintaizhuangtaiyihou，xiayicihenvshengdahuadeqingkuangxia，qingkuangyouhuibutaihao，beijujue（sheji）dejilvyouhuidaxuduo 。

4、恰当的搭话心态状态

 chukaiyixieyuanbenjiuhenneixiangxingbudangrenjijiaowangderen，shijishangdabufenrendahuahuijiaolvbuanbuzixindoushiyouyuxintaizhuangtainanti。youyutamendouganjuedahuabianshiqujiejiaonvyoude，yinci huixiang“tajujuelewozenmeban？”“tayuanyilewogaishuoxienaxie？”“woxiangzenyangcainengkanqilaizhenxinshiyiyidian？”zheixiezheizhongnanti。

 nihuiyiyixia，ninianshujieduanhetongbantongxuenvshengjianghuadeqingkuangxiahuixiangzheizhongma？nigongzuodeqingkuangxiahenvtongshijianghuahuixiangzheizhongma？niyizhizaijuhuihuodongdeqingkuangxiaheqitanvxingjianghuahuixiangzheizhongma？

burongyi，youyunizhenduizheizhongnvrendexintaibingbushizhaotamendangnvyou。

 dahuashijishangyeyiyang，ninengzhaotadahua，daduoshushiyouyutaderongmaoshenxing。nilejietadexingqingma？lejietadexihaoma？lejietadesanguanma？doubuqingchunizenmehuiganjuetaheshiruguonidenvyou？

 dahuadeyuanbenmudi，bianshinijieshizheiyinvsheng，hetazuopengyou。suihouzaixiangyudequanguochengzhong，zaiqufenbiantashibushihezuoninvyou。erbushizaimeigangkaishidahuadeqingkuangxia，jiuzaoyibatadangzuozhunnvpengyoule。

zenyangdashan？gaoqingchuzheiyidianyihou，jiaolvbuandexintaizhuangtaibianhuidangranwucunle。