女性搭讪男性的绝招

 nvxingyujianxinyinanxingruhe“chuji”cainengbaizhanbaisheng?meiguoxintaiyanjiurenyuanjianyi，qianwanbieniunie、xiuse，yinweinanxingtongchangbuchizheiyitao。defangfashizhijieledangbiaodahaogan，biejitamenrenhemohuxinxi。nvxingdashannanxingyounaxiedashanjiqiaokeyixuexini？dashanxuenizhidexuexi。

搭讪学，直奔主题

 meiguobinxifaniyazhoubakeneierdaxueyanjiurenyuanfaxian，nanxingzuixihuandenvxingdashanfangfajiushijianjiemingle，zhibenzhuti，buzuohaowuyiyideyuhui。

 yanjiurenyuanqingyizunvzhiyuanzhetigongtamendedashankaichangbai，bingcongzhongxuanchu50gezuichangjiandaan，zaiyou70mingnanxingshoushizhepingguzheixiekaichangbainengfouzouxiao。

 yanjiubaogaofabiaozaiyingguo《gexingyugetichayi》zazhishang。baogaoshuo，nanxinghennandudonganshixingyuju，jishinvxingyibianshuoyibianzuochutiaodoudongzuoyebuxing。

 yanjiurenyuanjianyi，nvxingyuqifeijinxinsimingshianshi，buruzhijieyaoqingduifangquchiwancanhuokandianying。duinanxingeryan，qingxi、zhijie、meiyouqiyidejiandanyujuzuixiyinren，biru“wanshangyiqichidacan”huo“wonengjiniwodedianhuahaomame?”dengyuju。

 jianjieyaoqingmingliedisan，biru“nidengxiayoushenmeanpai”he“nijinwanganshenme”deng。baogaotongshitixingshuo，ruguonvxingzhijiewen“qunijiahaishiwojia”，nanxingkenenglaizhebuju。

搭讪技巧三思而行

canyushiyandenvxingyerenwei，shuangfangdouganxingqudezhijieyuehuiyaoqingxingzhiyouxiao。

 chuhuyiliaodeshi，nvxingziyiweiyoumodekaichangbaishouxiaoshenwei。ruguonvfangshuo“nidechenshangenwojiadechuangdanhenda”huo“nizhanzaineilihenweixian，yinweiwokenengkongzhibuzhuzijidechongdong”，nanxingyexubuhuimaizhang。

paimingdiandidekaichangbaizeshiweixiaozheshuo：“nihenmianshu。woyiqianjianguonima?”

 bakeneierdaxuexintaixuejiaoshouqiaoer·weideshuo，“zhijiehuojianjieyaoqingnanxingyuehuinengfachumingquedexinhao，erbushirangtamen‘poyi’yixiehanhun、feiyuyandexinxi”，zhijietiyizenengxiaochu“xiangchuguochengzhongchanshengdebuquedinggan”。

 weidejianyi，ruguoyimingnvxingxiangyaoyifenzhangqi、wendingdeganqing，badianhuahaomajiaojimoshengnanxingqianyinggaisansi，yinweiduifanghuoxuhuijucirenweizheimingnvxingzhixiangwanle，budasuanrenzhenlianai。

搭讪技巧天气为上

youqudeshi，ruguonanxingxianggennvxingdashan，kaichangxianliaotianqishishangjiaxuanze。

 xianqianyixiangyanjiufaxian，ruguonanxingxiangzhanshizijidezhihuiheyundongcaineng，jiukeyiduinvxingshuo“jintianhenreba?zheikeshijinxingmalasongxunliandetianqi”。danshi，jianmianjiushuo“wonengbunengbawobenchichedeyaochifangzainibaoli”denanxinghenkenengbeinvfangtichuju。

 yingguoaidingbaodaxue2007nianyixiangyanjiufaxiandashanxue，nanxingdedashankaichangbaitongchangfenwei4zhong，youmo、tiaodou、haowuyiyidegongweihejiazhuanghenyouneihande“suanwenjiacu”。

 butongxinggedenvxingxihuandedashanfangshiyebuyiyang。xinggewaixiangdenvxinggengqinglaiyoumo、fengquxing，gexingjueqiangdenvxingzexihuan“haonanren”xingkaichangbai。jucikanlai，shanlianghuoyouqudenanxingzongshijiaoweiqiangshou。