零基础学泡妞技巧：男人如何吸引女人

 jinixitongruanjiandedazaochudelianaijiqiaofenxiangwangzhan，conglingjichuxuepaomeizi，youqianrushen、jiniyibumangranyihuo;tigaoxiuyang，dudongnvrenxin，xunsugaobiedanshen，bianchengfengcaikunan，yibumanzhang!lingjichuxuepaoniujiqiao：nanrenruhexiyinnvren?ruhe ☞tuodan ？

一、零基础学泡妞技巧：男人如何吸引女人

lingjichuxuepaoniujiqiao：nanrenruhexiyinnvren?

早期內容重中之重：

qingshengzuixianglianaiderenshi：zishen。(zuixianyaoduizishenhao，shandaizijixiangdangyuainvren)

 nvrenbingbushizhuilaide，zhishixiyinzhulaide，haohaoaiziji，rangzishenyuelaiyuechuse。gaoshiyongjiazhishixiyinzhudeqiantitiaojian，nvhaiduiniyouganjue，bingbushihuoxuduitahao，zhishinijubeitabixudeshiyongjiazhi。(xiyinzhujibenyuanli)

 gaoshiyongjiazhifencheng：benzhishiyongjiazhi、waizaishiyongjiazhi、biechengyingshiyongjiazhi、ruanshiyongjiazhihuocunhuoshiyongjiazhi、fanyushiyongjiazhi。lianqingshiyichangnanrenhenvrenshiyongjiazhihuhuandeshoujiyouxi。gaoshiyongjiazhideqiadangyingyongbiaozhun：

a.zhanxianshiyongjiazhi(xiangnvrenzhanxiannideyoushi，rangtamenduinizaochenghaogandu)

b.haohaoaiziji(qianyaohuazaizishenshoushang，rangzishenchuandehao、yongdehao、zuiguanjiandeshixiangmutouzixuexipeixun)

c.bubiyiweideshuchushiyongjiazhi(yiweideduinvhaihao，weitataoqian，beiyongtaiyibanjiuzheiyangdeatm)

d.bubiyiweidexiangnvrensuoyaoshiyongjiazhi(zhisuoyaobunuli，shiziqumiewang)

qiadangdelianaiyouxibiaozhun：

a.xiyinzhu——shushidu——yinyou

 b.buzhengquedezhuiqiunvshengbuzhou：xianyinyou、xianshufu、xiyinzhuhoubuchuangjianshushidu、shushiduhoubuyinyou。ganqing-lianqing-gaobiedanshen-zhuiqiunvsheng-paoniu-paomeizi

 zuoyoushiduiyiwangdejichuzhishidedagaixiaojie，jiarubumingbaidedixiongnenggouqucanyuewozhiqiandewenzhangneirong。neimajiexiaqunirenmenjindaodaoxiayigejieduan。zhuiqiunvshengdezaoqitiqianzhunbeigongzuozhong：

 zaoqitiqianzhunbeiqueshihaoduohaoduo，yaojiangdehuanenggoujiangsantiansanye。yinweishijianhepianshuyuangu，gengyinweirenmenzuoshieryaoyouxiao，yincizheiliwoyehuoqunengwomenyiqinenggoulijiyonglaiyongde，xiezhurenmenzhuiqiunvsheng，bukeyihushidediqutanqi。neiyangdetiqianzhunbeigongzuozhongyounaxie?

xingxiangqizhi/shentiyuyan：baohanshuohuayuzishiweixinlizhuangtai

zuoyou3geyibufenjiushishuorenmendezaoqibixutiqianzhunbeidegongzuozhong，neimaguanjianhuanjieshijizenyangdequtiqianzhunbeini?

1、形象气质

zheiyiwuxuwojiangguoduo，keshixuduodixionghuanshimeiyouzaochenggaoduzhongshi。neimacongkanguozheipiangangkaishi，nibixuzuoxialieshier：

 liuyinidetouxing，qujinjieyidiandemeifadian，rangmeifashijinishejifanganyigeheshinidehaokandefaxing。liuyinideyizhe(yifukuzihexuezi)。guanchazheixieyizhejiaoweichao、kushuaidenanshengshiruhedapeide;

 qujiaoweichaoyidiandeyifudianqumailiangjianpinzhihewaiguanshejipiaoliangyidiandeyifukuzi，bumingbairuhetiao，nenggourangyingyeyuanbangnipeida。huoxunihaikeyizhaozheixingdeshineishejishibangnipeida。

 haikeyirangjiaoweipiaoliangdenvhaibangnipeida，lirunidepengyou、tongxuemen、qinpenghaoyou。liuyinidekouqiangjiankang，weichiyachijiebai。liuyinidebiqiang，shibushibimaotaizhang。dangnidekongzhimianbanjiaoweicha，nenggoushidudeyingyonghufuchanpinhehufupin。

 nidehuangjinbilishencai，jiarufeipangzhengdehua，liuyijianfeishoushen;rouruodehuaduoduodeyundongjianshen。xiaojie：zongdelaishuorangzishendewaizaikanshangqugengmeiguandafang、jingqishen、youqichang。

2、身体语言

 xuduoneishihou，dajiabanshiquanshicongcongmangmang、haibuqingchu。xinjideyangzilingrenkanqilaihenbuwanshan、bulizhi、jirenyizhongniyeshiyigebunengjiezhudenansheng。

 youhuoshitongyixingdonghenniangniangqiang，gengenvrenyiyang。zheizhongdoubixugaizheng，nibixunanziqigai。guiding：buhuangbumang、zhendingziruo、tairanziruo。

 shuohuadeneishihouyehenniangniangqiang，huoshimankouzanghua，huoshijieba、wuyinbuquan、youhuoshihenjiaolvbuan、jiuchixudeshuohuajianggebuduan，youhuoshishuohuashifendisheng，rangtarendouwufatingdao。guiding：kengqiangyouli、yaoziqingchu、yanyuwenminglimao。

3、心态状态

 xintaizhuangtaishiyigemohubuqingdedingyi，doushiyigeshifenyoushencengdedingyi。zheili，chuxuezhezhibixuliuyixialiehaoduogecengmian：

 youjiaolvbuanshihenyiqiezhengchangde，bufangqi，zaicijianchibuxie，jiaolvbuanyequxianliao，shijianjiulejiuhuihuodetisheng。bubidaizhumudiquxianliao，nijinjindanchunxingdehetamengoutongjiaoliu，erbingbushiyuanyishuita。

 buzixinxintaizhuangtaishibuliyunideyiqietongyixingdong，suzaoxinxinguannian，renrenpingdeng，niyeshichusede，bubiguitian。nipeideshangsuoyouren，wangwangbupei，jinjinyouyurendefenbiexinzuoguai。

 jibiantarenqiaobuqini，yewuxubibushangle。niyeshichusede，niyeshilipin，nvrenbixunuliqinfencainenggouhuodeni。(zheizaoyishidaozhuihuanjie)

henvrenxianliao，daliangdeshixiangyouxianliaodekuaile，dailainvrenkaixin。(shuchushiyongjiazhi，qiangjingdeyouhuoli)

 lingjichuxuepaoniujiqiao：nanrenruhexiyinnvren?youguanxintaizhuangtaijiaoweiliefeng，bingfeiduanqineihuoshiyijuhuajiunenggouhuodegenggaide，wozaizheirangniyigefangwei，shinizaizheiyifangweideyindaoxia，manmandegaizhengzishendebuzhengqueluojisiwei、buzixinxintaizhuangtai。

 bansuizheniyunvrenchupengdezengjia，nidexintaizhuangtaijiuhuimanmandewangshangmianshengji，zuizhongzuodaodiliudian，nikeyitanranbusuideyusuoyourenxianliao，bingqienengdailaitamenkaixin。