挽救婚姻：夫妻沟通不顺怎么处理

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，fuqijiannanmianhuichuxiangezhonggeyangdemaodunhemoca。fuqigoutongbushunzenmechuli？youshihou，yixiexiaowentiruobujishichuli，jiuhuizhujianjileichengdawenti，jinerdaozhifuqiguanxidepolie。neime，yingduifuqibuhe、jingchangchaojiadejiongjing，yingdangruhejiejueni?

　　1、多倾听，少说话

　　zaifuqidegoutongzhong，womenwangwangguoyuzaiyizijidebiaoshu，erhushileduifangdeganshou。qishi，zhenzhengdegoutongshishuangxiangde，xuyaoshuangfangdounengqingtingduifangdeshengxiang。

　　dangnixuehuiduoqingting、shaoshuohuashi，nihuifaxian，xuduomaodunqishidoushiyouyuwujiehegoutongbuchangzaochengde。yinci，jingxialai，jiduifangyigeqingsudejihui，huoxunihuifaxianyigequanxindeta。

　　2、多用换位思考

　　zhanzaiduifangdejiaodusikaowenti，nihuifaxianyuanxiantayeyoukuzhonghewunai。huanweisikaobudannengzengjinbicidelejie，hainengrangnimendeganqinggengweinonghou。liru，tamaiyuannihuijiawan，qishizhishixiangrangniduopeipeita;tagongzuoyalida，yexuzhishixiangzainizheilizhaodaoxiexuanwei。

　　3、用幽默化解尴尬

　　dangqifenjinzhangshi，yijuyoumodehuawangwangnenghuajieganga。liru，dangnimenyouyuyijianxiaoshichaodebukekaijiaoshi，nikeyituranshuo：“aiyo，womenzheishizaiweijiatinghexiezuogongxianni，zhenshixinkule!”zheiyangjinenghuanjieqifen，younengrangduifangyishidaozhengzhidewuyiyi。

　　4、退一步开阔天空

　　fuqigoutongbushunzenmechuli？changyandao：“jiahewanshixing”。fuqijian，meiyoujueduisheiduisheicuo，henduoshihouzhishilichangbutong、jiaodubutongeryi。dangmaodunchuxianshi，bufangxianlengjingxialai，jibiciyigehuanchongkongjian。jilao，tuiyibubushifushu，ershiweilegenghaodeqianxing。