跟男朋友最近都在吵架怎么办，是她作？

 nvrenshigeganxingdedongwu，niduitahaotajiuhuigenzhenizou。niyaoshihetachaojiadehua，tayehuihenichaojia，nvrenzheigehuatitaiduotaiduo，henduonvxingpengyoubuzhidaohenanpengyouzuijinlaoshichaojiazenmeban，huazhenxiaobianweinijiedahenanpengyouzuijinlaoshichaojiazenmeban。

一、和男朋友最近老吵架怎么回事，该怎么办

1、dangnvxingfawendeshihou，nanxinghuijuedeshoudaolezebei

 dagebifanglaishuo，dangnvxingwennanxing“jintianqunale?”deshihou，qishibenshibujingyideyiwen，dannanxingjiuhuijuedeshiyizhongzhiyi，napahenweiruo，danyehuigandao“shibushizaizebeiwo”。

 zhihounanxingruguohuidashuo“quhejiuyingchoule”，nvxingzeduohuihuiyiju“zuijinyingchoubushaoa”，ranhounanxingdenaohuilujiushi“a，guoranjiushizaizebeiwoa”。tongyangdewenti，yexuyeyoubutongdedaan，danshinanxingjiushineizhonghuibabierendewentixiangchengshizhiyideshengwu，bingqieshifenbuhuichuli，zheiyeshimeiyoubanfadeshi。

2、nanxingzongshixiangyaozhengmingziji“henzhengzhi”

 nanxingdesikaofangshihenyouzijidestyle，tamendenaohuilurangtamenzongshixiangyaozhengmingziji“henzhengzhi”。zheizhongziwozhengzhizhuyidesiweijuedinglechushifangshi，birudangyoudongxidiaoluodeshihou，tamenhuishouxianxiangdao“zheishisheifangzaizheide!”，paichuzijishi“zhaoshizhe”，ranhouduidongxifapiqi。zheishifeichangchangjiandehuamianba。zheijiushisuoweideziwozhengzhizhuyi，shikexiangyaoqiangdiaozijibuhuai，bingyoucijuedinglejiexialaidejudong。

 tongyangdedaoli，nanxingzaichaojiadeshihou，yebutaihuiditourencuo。napaneixinshenchushenzhishizijibudui，yebuxiangdaoqian，yinweizheiyanghuirangzijiyingzaodezhengzhixingxiangpomie。

3、jinanxingtaijiexiashicongmingdechaojiafangshi

 gaoqingchunanxingzheixiexiaoxinsi，nvxingzaiyudaozheizhongqingkuangshijiuyinggaiyoubutongdeduidaifangshi，neijiushiliuyouyudi，tanpanjiejue。haishizhiqianneigelizi，nvxingyaozuodeyinggaishibuyaoshuo“zuijinyingchoubushaoa”zheijuhua，ershihanhundedayiju“e”bijiaohao。

 dangran，ruguoxiangyaohaohaojiaohuanyijian，dechuyigewanmeidejiejuefangan，zheiyangdeduihuashiqibudaozuoyongde，danshiruguochengyishiweifengshuoyixiewuguantongyangdehua，zuihouzhihuidaozhizhengchao。suoyi，jinanxingliutaijiexia，caishibimianwuyiyidezhengchaodezhizhezhidao。

 yigerenduilingwaiyigerendeganqingruguohenyiban，jiuhenkeqi，henyoulimao，henzunzhongrenjiagennibutongdedongxi，youyizhongqiutongcunyideqingxiang;erganqingyuehao，duiduifangyueguanxin，qiutongdeqingxiangyueqiang，dadaoyigefengzhi，yejiushizuigaodian，jiujiejinquanmianqiutong。mingzhiduifangduizijiyouganqing，bingqieganqingqianglie，jiuyuebujiangli、keke，youdianzhuanzhile。suoyijintianwojiuxiangxidebachaojiafenxiyixia，xiwangkanlederennenggoukandong，bahuadutou!xiangaideqinglv，duifangdeyijuyidongdouxixidekanzaiyanli，huihusiluanxiangshikeyilijiede，suoyi，dangniyoulenan(nv)pengyouzhihou，shouxianduiqitayixingbaochiyidingjuli.

 buyaojuedeta(ta)zongbujiangdaoli，womenhuangejiaodusikaoxia，ruguoyaojiangli，neijiuzuoputongpengyouhaole，putongpengyoubuhuiyueshuni，bingqieyongyuandouhuijinliangshunzheni，jianghaotingdejini。 xiangaideqingrenrenhedechaonao，jidu，caiji，haiziqi，doushihelizhengchangde。yinweita(ta)zhongshini，zhongshinimenzhijiandeyiqie，caihuiqingganminganerqianglie.ruguoxianzaideni，zhengyinweinidenan(nv)pengyouwuliqunaoershengqi，danshitashengqizhihouwomenyaozhudongdilianluo、goutong;lengzhanshiqiqishiduifangdouxiangyaojiduifangdadianhua，danhuxiangyeshizaidengzheduifangdedianhua，jiushiyinweibicidouzheimexiangsuoyijinanshouyoushengqi，shenzhiyuexiangyueqi，zuihounaodeshibukekaijiao，suoyizaitayudaozheizhongqingkuangdeshihou，tadoushidiyigeshuohuaderen，yinweitazhidaotashineimedeaita，tayeshineimedeaita，nanrenzheishihuangejiaoduxiangyixiangnimenyeshixingfuzhongderena!haohaodezhenxinishenbianweileyidianxiaoshierchicushengqiderenba，yinweiniyongyouzhezheiyangdeshenshenaizheniderenshi——xingfu!qingrenxinlimianrongbuxiayilishazi，napashihenxiao，youdenvrenshenzhikandaoniheyixingdanduliaotianhuodanduchuquxinlidouhuinanshou、bieniu 。

 henanpengyouzuijinlaochaojiazenmehuishi，zongzhichaojiadegenbenyuanyinjiushizhenaihezaihudehunheti!!zheikeshiyifenzuizhenzuizhendexingfu。

nvrenbuchaole、bunaole、bujiaole，jiushizhendebuaile

nvrenshuoyaolikai，shishangxinle，shinirangtashiwangle.

 nvrenmingzhidaonimenzhijianmeiyouweilai，queqingyuanliuzainishenbianzuogeputongpengyou，bushita，zhishitashebude。nvrenguyizainimianqiantidaobiedenanren，bushitahuaxin，zhishixiangyaocijiyixiani，rangniduozaihutayidian。nvrenbuzhudongdadianhua、faxinxijini，bushibuxiangni，shitabugouzixin，nijiedaodianhua、duanxinshiwennizaiganma，qishitaxinlixiangzhidaoshifouyetongyangdexiangnianta。 ruguonvrenbuaini，shibuhuiduinifapiqide，buyaobaoyuanzijidenvpengyoupiqitaiguai，nvrenzhiduitaaiderenfapiqi。nvrenbushibuzhidaonihaiyoubiedenvren，taxuanzeduzishangxinquebujiechuanni，shihaipajiechuanhoujileniyigelikaitadejiekou。

nvrenzongshizainimianqianjiazhuanghenkaixin，bushitameixinmeifei，chengtianshale，zhishiweilezainimianqianliuxiazuimeideyangzi。

二、跟男朋友最近都在吵架怎么办

 gennanpengyouzuijindouzaichaojiazenmeban，buyaojizheshuoyixiehua，yaojibiciyidingdeshijian。zaidajiadouzaiqitoushangdeshihoubuyaojiuchanzhebufang，chaojiahoubingbushijiejuewentidezuijiashiqi，yidingyaodengyiduanshijianzaixingdong。

1、fangdizitai，zhudongdaoqian

 lianggerenzaiyiqi，jiranxuanzeleduifangjiubuyaoxiangtaiduo，guiweiduifangkaolvyixia，daoqianderenwangwanggengzhenxizheiduanganqing，bicixiangaiyouhetanmianzini?zhiyaodoukuaile，meiyoushenmeshiguobuqude，zhudongdaoqianba，yinianzhichakenengzaochengdejieguojiujieranbutong。

 zailianggerenzaijiangchijieduandeshihounihuibuhuibushidenaqishoujikankanshibushiyouta(ta)dexiaoxihuoshiyixiedongtaini?jirannizheiyangxiang，duifangkendingyeshizheiyangde，zhudongdejita(ta)fageduanxinhuoshidagedianhua，buyongshuotaiduo，wenyixiehensuosuidexiaoshihuoshinimenzuijindeyixieanpaidoukeyi，zheiyangjiuhenhaodejiangzheigegangadechangmianduguoqule。

 xiangwangchangyiyanggaiganshenmejiuganshenme，yiqianzenmeduitaxianzaijizenmeduita，buyaoyouqitadeshenmejudong，rangtaganjuenihaoxiangyijingbazheijianshiwangdiaoleyiyang，zheiyanglianggerenbicidouhuibuzaitijichaojiadeshile。

2、xinpingqihedetanyitan

 ruguozaichaojiazhihoulianggerendoubijiaolizhi，neimeshilianggerendouxinpingqihedezuoxialaitantan，bazijiduizheijianshidekanfayonglingyizhongyuqishuochulai，erbushiyongchaojiadefangshi，rangduifangnenggouganshoudaonishizenmexiangde。tongyangyeyaocongduifangdejiaoduchufa，qukandaiwenti。

3、bicilengjingyiduanshijian，buyaoguozaodexiamougejielun

 ruguonimenchaojiachaodehenlihai，neimekenenghuishuochumouxieshanghaiduifangdehua，neimezheishihouqianwanbuyaoyishichongdongshuochuneixiefenshouzhileidehua，yidingyaolengjingdefenxiyixiazijizaizheijianshizhongdaodizuoleshenmerangta(ta)neimeshangxinhuoshibugaoxing。zailengjingguohoucainenggenghaodexiajueding。

 chaojiadeshihoujiuchuquzouzouba。buyaoyizhizaijialidaizhe，danshiyidingyaoanshihuilai。dengqingxinglezhihouhuilezaihaohaotanyitan。