为什么谈恋爱久了会吵架

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一、为什么谈恋爱久了会吵架

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1、正视争吵这件事

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2.dangtianjiejuechaojiawenti

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3、quefajiaoliu，huxiangcaiji

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二、为什么谈恋爱会吵架该怎么办

1、zhaodaowentiyuantou，jiejuewenti

 weishenmelianaijiulehuichaojia,chaojialegaizenmezuo。xianzhaodaowentiyuantou，yaonongqingchumaodundegenyuan，nidetaiduhexingweiyedoushijiejuezheigewentideyizhongtaidu，ruguojiejuebuhao，nimenxiacihaihuifantongyangdewenti。lianggerenzaiyiqinanmianhuichaojia，danchuxianfenqiyaoyiqixiangbanfajiejue，erbushiheduifangzuodui，buyaobazijidexiangfaqiangjiayuren，yaoxuehuiqujieshouduifang，rangzijixinxionggengkaikuo。

2、冷静

zheishihoubuyaoxianggangcaichaojiadeshi，suiranshizheiyangshuo，danzuoqilaihennan，suoyixuyaoxiangbanfarangzijizhuanyizhuyili。

 keyitongguozuoyixieqitadeshilairangzijizhuanyizhuyili，biruchuqufengkuangdegouwu，rangzijideqianbaochudianxueyihouzhaonanpengyoubaoxiao。

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3、、避免情绪激化

 weishenmelianaijiulehuichaojia，suhuashuo：chuangtouchaojiachuangweihe，chaochaojiabenshihenzhengchangdeshiqing，lianggerenbufashengmaodunhechaojiacaishibuzhengchang，danruhezaichaojiahoujishihehaocaishizuizhongyaode。jianyikeyixianlengjingxialaihaohaoxiangxiang，lengzhanshiyaobimianqingxujihua，jiuyaoshaoshuohua，bushuohua，yimianchukoushangren。zheiqijianliangrendoufeichangmingan，yidaneyuxiangxianghenrongyichuluanzi。