包容的爱情：情侣之间如何做到不吵架

 qinglvzhijianruhezuodaobu chaojia ni，henduoqinglvkenengdouzaixiangzheigewentiba。kenengzheishiyigehennanhuidadewenti，ruhenengzuodedaoshiyaokanlianggerendexingge，huanjing，haiyoujiatingzhuangkuangjuedingde，bunengdangdangcongyigefangmianjiunengshuoming，jintianjiulaishuoshuoqinglvzhijianruhezuodaobuchaojia。

一、情侣之间如何能不吵架

1、性格要合得来：

 qinglvzhijianruhenengbuchaojia，meigerendexinggedoushibutongde，ruguoqinglvzhijianxinggemeiyouxiangtongdiandehuajiuhenrongyichanshengmaodun。birushuonanfangyaohuanshouji，nvfangyaonanfangxiageyuehuan。yinweizheigeyuejialixuyaokaizhi，ernanfangxingzijibixuzheigeyuehuan，nvfangnijianjuebutongyi。ruguoshininihuizenmezuoni?yigechengshudenanren，fuzerendenanrenxiankaolvdekendingshijiatingerbushizijidexurongxin，jiusuanzijidexingzizaijiyeyaokaolvjiating。zaibifangshuonvfangyaomaishoushi，nanfangshuodengxiayuefagongzilezaimai。kenvfangjianjueyaozheigeyuemai，nanfangjianjuebutongyi......zheiyangfazhanxiaquliangrenkendingdouzui。zheishinvfangbunengtairenxingleyaotiliangnanfang，renxingkeyidanbunengguodu。xinggehedelai，qinglvzhijiandedouzuihuishaohenduohenduo。

2、要信任：

 woxiangzheigedajiadouzhidaode，qinglvzhijianzuizhongyaozhiyidejiushixinren。xinrenshilianggerenzaiyiqidejichu。ruguoqinglvzhijianbuxinren，neimechaojiadejilvhenda。biru：nanfanghenwancaihuijia，nvfangzhiyinanfangzaiwaimianguihun。shijishangnanfangshizaiwaimianyingchou，yigehenaizijinvrendenanrenzhidaozijidenvrenbuxiangxinziji，shangxinshibiyoude。ruguonanfangjieshilenvfangyiranzhiyidehua，neimelichaojiabuyuanle。>> fuqilengzhan!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

3、要理解：

 qinglvzhijianguangyouxinrenshibuxingde，woshuolexinrenzhishizuizhongyaozhiyide。gumingsiyilijiejiushizuizhongyaozhier，henduonvfangdoubudongderuhequlijienanfang，congerchanshengmaodunshenzhidouzui。bifangshuo：nanfangzhengtianzaochuwangui，nvfangzhidaoyexiangxinnanfangzaiwaimianganshenme。keshinanfangmeitianwanshanghuilaideshihoudouxiangshoubudaojiadewennuan，yinweimeitianwanshangnanfanghuilailenvfangdoushiyijuhua：nihuilaila!conglaimeiyouqitarenhedejudong，jiuerjiuzhichaojiashibimianbule de。ruguoyouzheiyangdejiatingnvfangyaolijienanfang，lijietadexinkuhenuli，yinweinanfangzheimezuodoushiweilezheigejia。lijiebunengguangshuojiuxingyaoyouxingdong，nanfanghuilailenvfangkeyijinanfanganmo，weinanfangchishuiguodengdeng。zheiyangnanfangcaihuijuedezijidexinkushizhidede。

4、要包容：

 gumingsiyibaorongjiushiqinglvzhijianzuizhongyaozhisanle，baorongjiushibujinjinjijiao，dongdeyuanliangduifang。bifangshuo：nanfangyingongzuomangmeiyouduoshaoshijianpeinvfangjuedehenduibuqinvfang，youyitiannanfanggongzuoliangshaolexiangzhaonvfangmibu。keshidengdainanfangdequeshinvfangdeshengqiyushangxin，chichibukenlicainanfang。ruguoyiranzheiyangchixuxiaqu，chaojiabukebimianshenzhifenshou。ruguoyounvrenyudaoguo，neimenikeyikaolvzheiyangzuo。neijiushibaorongnanfang，yinweinanfangdenulibushiweilebierenershiweileni，weilezheigejia。nvfangyaodongdebaorongnanfang，bujijiaonanfanggongzuoermeiyoushijianpeini。dangnanfangyoushijianpeinile，nvfangyaozhenxi，gengyaozhenxiyouzheimeyigehaonanren。

5、总结：

 shuolezheimeduo，woxiangxindajiazhidaozenmezuoleba!aishilijie，aishibaorong，aishixinren，aijiushilianggerenbaitoudaolaoerbushifenkai。zhiyaobaorong，lijie，xinrenwoxiangxinnimenaiqinghuiyuelaiyuemeihao，yuelaiyuexingfu。

二、最近老是吵架闹分手怎么办

1、学会换位思考

 qinglvzhijianbaofamaodunyidingbushidanfangmiandeyuanyin，yibanqingkuangxiashishuangfangdouyouzerende。suoyidangmaodunjihuashi，yaoxuehuisheshenchudideweiduifangzhexiang。zuohaoxintaishanghuanweisikao，xiangxiangduifangdesuqiushishenme，zhaoqingchumaodundegenyuanzainali，shifoukeyijiejue，yinggaiyihezhongfangshijiejue，zhengquedezuofashilengjingdesikaoyixiayinggaiyizenyangdetujingcainenghubushanghaidejiejuexiancundemaodun。

2、不要互相抱怨

 zuijinlaoshichaojianaofenshouzenmeban，naomaodundeguochengzhong，shiqinglvshuangfangbicidouweiquyoufennudeshihou，zuirongyixiangdaoduifangdezhongzhongquedianhehuaimaobing，shenzhijinxingyixiliekuazhangfangda，zaizheizhongzhuangtaixiayidingyaozhuyijinliangpingfuzijideqingxu，buyaobasuoyoubumanyigunaoxuanxiejiduifang。chongtuhoudehuxiangbaoyuanbudanbunengjiejuewenti，fanerhuibamaodunjihua，qingkuanghuigengjiazaogao。

3、懂得包容对方

 aiqingzhongmeiyouzhenzhengdesheiduisheicuo，yinglezhengchaoshiquganqingyemeiyourenheyiyi。dangmaodunchanshengdeshihou，yiweidezhuiqiuduicuozhihuixiaohaodiaolianggerendejinglihenaixin。zhengquedezuofashilijiehebaorongduifang，ruguodequeshiduifangdecuowu，yejinliangjitayigejieshidejihui，changshilejieduifangneizhenshidexiangfa。yuqiduoduobirendequzhengsheiduisheicuo，buruquzhengquyixiabicizhijiandeganqing。

 renfeishengxianshunengwuguo，zailianaizhong，xuduomaodunbaofadezuichuyuanyinqishishiyinweitaizaihu，dangchongtujianglin，bufangxiangyixiangduifangdechuzhongshishenme，xiangxiangzheigemaodunhuibuhuiyingxiangnimenyihoudexiangchu，ruguowushangdaya，buruhuxiangbaorong，bingshiqianxian。