吵架也有方式？情侣之间如何有效的吵架

 qinglvzhijian chaojia shizenyangde，xiangxinyounannvpengyoudedouyinggaizhidaoqizhongdeziweide，chaojiashishenmeziwei，xiangbidoushizhidaode。danshiqinglvzhijianruheyouxiaodichaojia，chaojiashikeyibiaodachuzijineixindebumande，suoyichaojiaweibishiyijianhuaishi。

一、情侣之间吵架是怎样的

 qinglvzhijianchaojiashiduiyuneixindeyizhongshifang，shibiaodachuduiyuduifangdebuman，henduoshihouaiyumianzibufangbianshuochulai，danshichaojiadehuakeyirangwomenshuochuxiangshuodehua，suoyishuochaojiashirenneixinshenchudebiaoda，yekeyirangqinglvfaxianduifangduiyuzijidebuman。

二、情侣之间如何有效地吵架

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 qinglvzhijianruheyouxiaodechaojia，zhengchangqingkuangxianvrenchaojiazhiyaonanrentaiduhao，digetou，daogeqiannvfangmashangjiuhuixiaoqi!ruguoshiyinweiyixiexiaowenti，nandezhudongrangrangtayeshiaideyizhongtixian!danshiruguoshejidaoyuanzewenti!neimejiubuyaorangbu!yaojiangdaoli!>> wanhuiniyongduifangfalema?6buzoujiaonizhenduixingwanhui

 qinglvzhijianruheyouxiaodechaojia，qishizhiyao“huichaojia”，liangrenzhijiandeganqingcaihuiyuelaiyuehao，“hui”chaojiaderen，lianggerenchaojiadecishuhuiyuelaiyueshao。chaojiaguohou，ruguoxiangfenshou、huozheweiquqiuquan，doushibuzhengquedesixiang。yinweinannvpengyouchaojiashishifenzhengchangdeyijianshi，qiebulunsheiduisheicuo，dixianshibushuofenshou。

 ganqingxuyaojingying，yeshiyimenxuewen!lianggerenzaiyiqile!jiugengyinggaihaohaomianduishenghuo!henduoshihouruguonengduozhanzaiduifangdejiaoduqusikao!duoweiduifangxiangxiang!henduoshiqingdoukeyiyingrenerjie!duidaichaojiazheigewenti!wulunshisheiduisheicuo!bixuyaoyourenxianditoudaoqian!wangwangchaowanjiahou!lianggerenzhijianjiuhaoxiangshiyizhangzhi!tongpolejiumeishile!

三、情侣之间如何规避吵架，减少吵架

1、懂得相互的迁让

 bicizhijianzaixianghugoutonghejiaoliuguochengzhong，ruguoyifangjichudejianyibunengranglingwaiyifangmanyihuozheshiwanquanbutongyi，danshiyifangyemeiyouqianrangdeyisi，yidingyaoanzhaozijideyisiquzhixing，neimebicizhijiandemaodunjiuhuishengji，zhengchaojiuhuikaishi，suoyiyaoxuehuizenmequbicideqianrang。

2、要互相的尊重

 zaiduifanghenigoutongjiaoliudeshihouyidingyaodengduifangbatagerendeyisidoujieshiqingchule，cainengfabiaonigerendeyijian，airenhaimeiyoushuowan，jiujizheyaojielun，zheigebudanshibuzunzhongairendeyizhongbiaoxian，erqierangmaodunfazhangengkuai。suoyiyaoxuehuizenmequzunzhongtaren。

3、不能翻旧账

 yiqiandeshiqingguoqulejiuguoqule，buyaoyiweizhidaoduifangdeyixieshiqingjiuyidingyaojiuzhebufang，juedezheigeshizijizhengshangfengdeyigendaocao，，zhiyaoduifangshaoweibushunzhezijideyi，jiuzaiduifangmianqianzhongfuwushubian，niyaomingbainizheigeshizaijiekaiduifangdeshangba，yanzhongyingxiangshuangfangdeganqingfazhan。

4、学会妥协

 suoweidetuoxiebingbushishuomeiyouzunyanmeiyoumianziderenyouduifangqubaibu，shidangdequtuoxiezhishiaiduifangdeyizhongbiaoxian，jiairenyixiezaizijimianqianrenxingdekongjian，zheiyangyekeyibimianwuweideyixiezhengchao。

5、多回忆过去

 bicizhijianyaoduohuiyilianaishiqideyixiemeihaoxingfukaixindeshiqing，rangbicizhijianduibicizhijiandeganqingzaizhongwenyibian，rangganqinggengjiakuaisudeshengwen，zhengchaoziranyejiushaolehenduo，zheigeshiyigebucuodebanfae。

6、学会幽默

 bicizhijianyijianbuhezhengzhibuxiudeshihou，yifangyekeyishuoyixiebijiaoyoumodehuayurangduifangbudebuxiao，zheiyangyekeyirangbicizhijiandezhengchaodedaohuanjie，rangchongmanhuoyaodekongjianyixiaziyinweizijidexiaohuafangsonglehenduo。