情侣之间总吵架正常吗，教你怎么吵架不伤感情

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一、情侣之间总吵架正常吗

 woxiangnihuizheiyangjiangyinggaishiqijileba，qinglvzhijianchaojia，zheigeshihenzhengchangde。henduoqinglvdoushijingchangchaojia，chaodexiongleshenmenantingdehuadouhuishuochulaide。

 qishiwomenliangrenxinlidoumingbai，neizhishizaichengyishizhikuai，chaowanlelengjingxialailejiuhuixiangdaozijidebuhao，zuocuodeneifangzonghuizhanchulaixiangduifangdaoqian。jingguochaojiaganqingyeshihuigengjiashendee,zhiyaonichulidezugouhao。danduochaojiushangganqinglela。haiyoua，womenchaojialewozongshihuijiang，zuoweiyigenanshengyaoduorangrangnvsheng，nvshengshiyonglaihongde，bushiyonglaimade。

二、情侣之间总是吵架好吗

1、吵架背后的奥秘

 shishishang，chaojiazhendeshifenchengbutongdezhonglei，bingqiewomenyidingyaoyousuoqufen、fenbieduidaide!zhiyuduichaojiajinxingfenleideyiju，qishijiushijiyutajiaohufenxixintaixuedangzhongsuojiangdejizhongbutongde“ziwozhuangtai”。zongdelaishuo，keyifencheng“hentiebuchenggang”、“meixinmeifei”he“daguolengzhan”sanzhongleixing。

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2、秘三大吵架模式

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 “meixinmeifei”shiwomenjingchangyudaodedierzhongchaojiamoshi。congtajiaohufenxixintaixuedejiaodulaishuo，chaojiadeshuangfangdoushichuzai“ziyouxingertong”zheizhongzhuangtaide。zheizhouchaojiamoshidedianxingtedianjiushilaiqucongcong，lianggerenwangwanghuiyinweiyixietebiejimaosuanpideshiqingdachaoyidun、bukekaijiao，danshichaowanzhihoumeiguojifenzhonglianggerenjiu“yixiaominenchou”，shenzhizaitongkuailinlidechaowanzhihoulianggerendouyijingwangjigangcaijiujingshiyinweishenmeyuanyinchaoqilaidele……ranhou，lianggerenyejiujixuyukuaidiwanshuaqule……

 “daguolengzhan”shishenmeyangdechaojiamoshini?qishibiaoxianzuiduodejiushilianggerensheidoubulishei，yiqishenggemenqi。danglianggerenchuzaizheizhongchaojiamoshizhixiashi，qishidoushitineide“shuncongxingertong”zheizhongnengliangzhanjuleshangfeng，gezidoujianlileyige “daoqiangburushuihuobuqin”dewuguiqiao，banaodaisuodeyanyanshishide。chufeiqizhongyigerenzuihoufushourenzui，erqiehaidebaizhebunaodebaibananwei，lingyifangcaikenzanqieliangjie，qiekanhoumiandebiaoxian。cishisuiranbuchaojiale，danshineizhongwuyunyadingyibandeqingxuyiranhuizailianggerentoushanglongzhaoxujiu……

3、lihaicanbandechaojiamoshi

 duiyuganggangtidaodezheisanzhongchaojiamoshilaishuo， qianliangzhongqishishiyouliyoubide，shidangdefashengyixiahuiqidaogonggu、shenzhicujinganqinghegoutongdezuoyong，danshiruguotaiduodehuayehuiyoupohuaishenzhicuihuiganqingdefengxian。

 shouxianwomenlaishuo“hentiebuchenggang”shidechaojiamoshi。zheizhongliangxingzhijiandechaojiamoshiqishishiyanxulegezigenfumudeguanximoshi——“kongzhixingfumu”duiying“shuncongxingertong”erxingchengdeyizhongxiangduiwengude“gongshengguanxi”。

 jutilaishuo，yejiuzaileisiyujiedilian、xiongmeiliandeguanxilimian，qizhongyifangzongshibanyanfumudejiaose，erlingyifangzeshiertongdejiaose，zheibenshenshiyizhongxiangduilaogudeyilianguanxi，erqieshidudechaojiahuiqianghuahegongguzheizhongyilianguanxi。

 qinglvzhijianzongchaojiahaoma，danshiruguotaiguoyupinfan，huozhechengduguoda(banyoujiatingbaolixingwei)，qizhongruoshideyifangjiuzailiangxingguanxidangzhongshizhongchuzai“shuncongxingertong”dezhuangtaichengshouhejizanyali，jiuerjiuzhiyaomehuituranbaofa、yinfagengjiayanzhongdejiatingchongtu(fenshou、lihun、xiongshadeng……)，yaomejiuyizhibanyanyigebeidongdejiaoseerbasuoyoudejiatingzerentuidaoleqiangshiyifangshenshang——zheifanerhuigengjiaqianghuaduifangde“kongzhixingfumu”denengliang。

 4、jiexialaiyaoshuodejiushi“meixinmeifei”dechaojiamoshi。huoxunihuishuozheizhongchaojiamoshisihuhenbucuoya，weishenmehaihuiyoushenmefuzuoyongni?

 qishicongzheizhongchaojiaguochenglaishuo，queshibushishenmehuaishi，yinwei“ziyouxingertong”benlaijiushiyigekeyiziyouxuanxiexinzhongbuyue、shuochuneixinzhenshixiangfadezhuangtai，tongguozheizhongchaojiaqueshinenggourangbicigenghaodelejieyixieduifangneixindeshijie。danshiwentijiuzaiyuchulezheizhonggoutongdefangshizhiwai，qishilianggerenyekeyixuanzedoucong“chengrenziwo”dezhuangtaijinxinggengjiawenhe、lengjingdejiaoliu。danshiruguoxiguanletongguochaojiademoshijinxinggoutong，yejiuhennanzaitongguogengduogengyouhaodefangshigoutongle——chaojiabijingshicunzaifenqi、chongtuhefumiandeqingxude。

 fanguanzheiliangzhongchaojiamoshi，qishiwomenbunanfaxiantamendoukeyizaiyidingchengdushangmibuhetidaichuzai“chengrenziwo”zhuangtaixiadelixinggoutong，danshitongshiyezaiboduozheizhonglianghaogoutongmoshichuxiandejihui。dangbicixiguanlebanyan“chengrenziwo”zhiwaidejiaoseshi，zheizhongneizaidenengliangyejiuhuibianyuelaiyueruoxiaole，yejiuyiweizhelianggerensuozuchengde“nengliangxitong”dangzhongyuanbenqizhecaipan、diaojieren、zhinangzuoyongde“chengrenziwo”huibiandeyuelaiyueshao，suoyizheifenganqingjiuyoushikongdeweixianle……

5、youhaiwulidechaojiamoshi

 sanzhongmoshiyijingshuoleliangzhong，ziranyouhaierwulidemaozijiuyaoluodaole“daguolengzhan”zheizhongchaojiamoshidetoushangle。weishenmeduizheizhongchaojiamoshipingpanderucichedini?yuanyinjiuzaiyutashiweiyiyizhongzuduanlelianggerenquanbugoutongdechaojiamoshi

 ruguoshuo“hentiebuchenggang”suochengxiandeshifumuyuzinvzhijiandeguanxi，“meixinmeifei”suochengxiandeshihaiziyuhaizizhijiandeguanxi，neime“daguolengzhan”suochengxiandeshishenmeguanxini?——daanjiushimeiguanxi!yinweizhiyoumoshengrencaimeiyourenhedegoutonghejiaoliu!

 qishizaixianshidangzhong，youqishihaimeiyou“lingzheng”dexiaoqinglvzhijian，danglianggerenchuzaizheizhongchaojiaguochengli，qizhongyifangtiyishuo：“woxiangjingjingle，buyongwenwojingjingshishei!womenguoyiduanshijianzailianxiba!”ruguolingyifangzhendetongyi，bingqieyezhendeguoyiduanshijianzailianxi，neigujijiuli“yongbulianxi”meijibulule。yinweirenshixuyaoyuwaijiejinxingjiaoliu、huodeanfude，ruguonibujiduifang，neiduifangjiuhuixuzhaoqitarenlaihuode。ruguoduifangzhaodeshizhangbei(gandiechuwai)huozhetongxing，neihaibaoxianyidiandian，ruguozhaodeshiyixingpengyou(youqishidanshende)neijiutebieweixianle——zhaosheibuxing?weishenmepianpianzhaozheigeren?kendingshiyoumouzhongmoqide!

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 6、suoyishuo，debanfajiushifanghuanyuweiran，yejiushidangaiqingzhongdeshuangfangyidanjinrule“daguolengzhan”dezhuangtaishi，zuoweiduguozheipianwenzhangdeyoudongdexintaixuejishudeni，yidingyaozailianggerendouliangxialaizhihounenggoutingshenerchu，houzhelianpi、yingzhetoupidepeilidaoqian、xuhanwennuan，fouzedengdaohouhuideshihoujiushenmexintaixuelilunhejishudouwufawanhuinizheibeiwaqiangjiaodeaiqingle……