现在的人为什么吵架喜欢冷战

 xianzaiderenweishenme chaojia zonglengzhan，weishenmechaojiaxihuanlengzhanni?nvfangrenwei，nanrenweihejiubunengrangyibu;nanfangjianchi，nvrenweihezheimewuliqunao。yikaishinanrenhaichangshigennvrenbaishishijiangdaoli，houlai，gancuichenmo。yushi，liangrendoujiangchizhule。lengzhankaishi。weishenmefuqichaojiahoulengzhanni,zheiyekenengshiyuanyinzhiyi。

一、为什么夫妻吵架后冷战

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zaizheixiemoshili，renmenchanghuiyongdaoliangzhongwuqi：

1、youyuandibazijifangzaishouhaizhedeweizhishang，aojiaodidengdaiduifanglaidaoqian。

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 henduoshihou，shiwomenzijiguyibafuqiguanxigaodenanshou。benshenyinfazhengchaodeshiqing，henkenengbuzhidezheimenanshou。womenzhishixiangyong“nanshou”kongzhiduifang，rangduifangbuzhiyujixushanghaiziji，yushikuadazijidenanshou。zheizhongkuadadenanshou，shifeichangzhenqiedetongku，shenzhihuiyouzhuixindetong。kexideshi，zijitongsile，duifangkenengyewufalijie，sihaoganjuebudaotong。suoyi，yaojiejuefuqichongtu，diyibu，yaoxiancongshouhaizhede“shentan”shangzouxialai。

2、shichenmo。nanrenhuiyong“chenmo”zheigewuqi。nvrenyehuiyong。

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 henduonvrendechenmo，zegengxiangshiyizhongkongsu。suokongsudejiushi：“woquanhao，niquanhuai”。shuoshihua，hunyinlideshi，nengfendeneimeqingchusheihaosheihuaima?wokanweibi。jingshenfenxizhongdeketiguanxixuepairenwei：tarenduiwomendetaidu，hendachengdushangshiyouwomenzijijiaohuide。yinweiguanxishixianghude。yejiushishuo，weijingwomenyunxudehua，meirennenggouzhenzhengzoujinwomendeneixin，bingcitongwomen。henduoshihou，shiwomenjileduifangshanghaiwomenzijidequanlihenengli。

 erdangwomenyong“woquanhao，niquanhuai”quzhizeduifangdeshihou，duifangdediyifanying，douhuishixiangganshoudaoleyoulijianciguolaiyiyang，minjiediduobikai，xiayishidijinxingzibao，zhudongbianhu，shenzhifaqihuiji。dangran，ruguoyigehenzixin、henyounengliangderen，huiquexinzijidejiazhi，yejiunenggoujiedezhuduifangcilaidejian。

随着社会的发展，变的是环境、也是人心，从前大吵大闹嫌烦，现在冷漠应对，也好像还蛮自己的了，以后会不会世界都变成哑言哑语了呢?为什么吵架总冷战，试试打开心交谈吧。