和老公吵架了冷战中咋办？

 hunqianjingchangyinweiyixiexiaoshi lengzhan ，napajiehunhouyeshizheiyang，suanshihunqiandelishiyiliuwentile。helaogongchaojialelengzhanzhongzaban?wojuededajiayinggaijinliangzaihunqianjiejue，lianaizhongdejinliangzailianaichuqijiejue。huazhenxiaobiantixingnin，nandaomeiyoukaolvguoweishahunhouzongshichaojialengzhanma？

一、为啥婚后总是吵架冷战？

 lengzhanhelengjingyixiayaoqufenkai，ruguotashilengjingyixiaqusikaonimenzhijiandemaodun，zheishihelide，yinggaijiduifangshijian。erduqibushuohua，zheijiushilengzhanle，shibuhelide。

 lengzhanzheigewenti，kendingshiyouyushuangfangyijianbuhechanshengde，zailengzhanzhongshuangfangdoubuyuanyirangbu，buyuanyizhudongheduifangshuohua，dagaishichuyuyizhong“xianshuohuaderenjiushishule，tuoxiele”dexintai。ruguoniyaohuajiezheigegangadejumian，wojuedeshouxianjiuyaodapozheizhongsixiang。

weishenmedapozheizhongsixiangni？huanjuhuashuo，weishenmexianshuohuaderenbingbushishule，bingbushituoxieni？

 yinweilengzhanshiyouyufennudeqingxubuduanmanyanchanshengde，shuangfangbushuohuadouzaiyongchenmolaigaozhiduifangwohenbugaoxing。zheishiyizhongxiaolvjididegoutongfangshi，chulebiaodalenideqingxuyiwai，duijiejuewentizuoyongyebuhuiqi。xianshuohuaderenruguoshirenshidaozheidianhouquchangshiyuduifanggoutong，bingbushiyinwei“shule”huozhe“aiduifangbijiaoduo”、“zaihuduifangbijiaoduo”zheizhongyuanyin，ershiyinweitadesixianggengchengshu，gengtieheshiji。tayaozhaodeshijiejuewentidefangfa，shibuganyuxianruzheizhongyouzhideduqiyouxi。ruguoduifangyichaojiajiuxihuanlengzhan，zheishigekaochenmobiaodafennudexiaohaizi。neinijiudechengweiyigezhixingdexiaojiejiequyindaotajinxinglizhidegoutongcaikeyi。burandehua，nihetayiqixianruchenmo，jiudaibiaozhenigenzhetadejiezouzoule，niyebianchengtazheizhongrenle。zheicaishishua！

二、和老公吵架了冷战中咋办？

 henduorenbuyuanyixiankaikoudeyuanyinshi，zheishiyuanzewenti，mingmingshinicuo，niyinggaixiangenwodaoqiana！niruguobudaoqiandehua，woshijueduibuhuikaikougennishuohuade。yinweizheiyangdeyuanze，jiurangniwobuyuanxiandapojiangju，yebuzixisisuozheigeyuanzeyouwudaoli（youshihaikaodeshiyixiewaili，birushuo，nanrenbenlaijiuyaorangnvrendengdeng）。zheixieyuanzedemude，shiweiwomendeshenghuotigongxingweizunxundefangxiang，danshiruguosishouyuanze，womenjiuhuihenrongyipeishangxinqingle。 suoyicishidiyigegaizuode，jiushiyaofangxiazheixiecongzhongzuogengdeyuanze。laiyitangqingxuchaoshikongzhilv，wenzijiyigewenti：yinianzhihou，woshifourenghuizaihuzheijianshi？shinianzhihou，woshifourengjiuhuiweitadangnianshiyanerjuedeshitaiyanzhong？>> fuqilengzhan!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

 huozhekeyizaiwenziji：zaiwolikaizheigeshijieshi，wohaihuijijiaozheijianshima？zheimeyixiangjiuhuibazijideshiyedakai，nijiuhuifajue，xianzaihenzaihudeshiqing，qishidaburuxiangxiangzhongzhongyao！

三、和老公吵架了在冷战中咋办?

 xianbishangyanjing，xiangsangenizhideganjiduifangdeyuanyin。biru，xiexietaduixiaohaizheimehao，huozhexiexietanuligongzuozhuanqianyangjiadeng，dangnixiangchusangeganjiduifangdeyuanyin，womendeshenglizhuangtaijiuhuigenzhefangsongeryuyue，jiexialaishuochulaidehuaziranjiuhuihuanhexuduo，yeyouzhuyuniwozhaohuibijiaokeguandexintaihelichang。

 jiexialaidedongzuo，jiugaixiangbanfakaikouqujieshuzheigelengzhan。 shuoshihua，weichixianzhuangbijiaorongyi，eryounenglixiankaikouderen，caishizhenzhengdeyingxiong，yinweizheixuyaoyifenchengshudexinzhiyijiyifengaoqingshangcainengzuodao。daodigaizenmekaikou？

 shouxian，qing“baduicuofangliangbian、yihanbaizhongjian”，zheishishenmeyisi？yisishishuo，buguansheiduisheicuo，xianbuquzhenglun，yinweiyidantanlunduicuo，womenyoulikekaishihuodale。zheishihounikeyixianshuoxinlideyihan：“zheiyizhenziyilaiwomenbicizhijiandoubujianghua，wojuedeyihanyeshifenbuan”

 gaosuduifangniduizheiyangdeqingkuanggandaoyihan，yiqianwomenxiangchuhenhao，zheiciyinweizheiyangzidewuhuigaodedoubushuohua，qishihaizhenbieniu。

 jiezhe，buweishiqing，yegaiweixinqingdaoqian。jishixinzhongburenweizijiyoucuo，zuobudaoweishiqingdaoqian，xingfudarenyehuicongmingdiweixinqingzhiqian：“rangniwodeganjuezheimezao，wojuedehenbaoqian，wohenxiwangzhaohuiyuanxianhenixiangchushidekaixin。”

四、总结

 yaomezhudongdapojiangchidejumian，yaomejiuyindaolaogongdapolengzhandeqifen。xiangyaowanjiuhunyinjiuyaoyouyifangzhudongzhanchulaidapolengzhandejumian，ruguosheidoubukenrenshu，neimegangadeqifenhaihuijixu，shijianjiule，fuqideganqingdanle，meile，neimehunyinyehuipolie。