恋爱中吵架如何才能不伤感情？

 qinglvhuoshifuqixiangchushijianjiule，ziranerranhuifashengzhengchao，henderenzaizhengchaozhongjiujianjianshangleduonianleganqing。neimenannvlianaizhongyaozenmeyanggentachaojiacaibuhuishangganqingni？zenmehenvhaizichaojiabushangganqingni？

 nannvlianaizhonghehunhouxiangchuzonghuiyouxiefenqizhileide，zheishihenduoshihoudajiadoubuhuipingxindequjiejue，wangwangdoushixianchaoshangjigezhongtou，zailengzhangejitian，kansheixianrenzhubudedaoqian。buguozheiyangdehuahenrongyishangganqing。neimelianaizhongchaojiaruhecainengbushangganqing？

一、恋爱中吵架如何才能不伤感情？

1、不要恶语相向

 lianaizhongchaojiaruhecainengbushangganqing？buyaoeyuxiangxiang。yigerenzaishengqishihuirongyishuochulingzijihouhuidehua。zainimentanhuaqian，shizhelengjingxialai，buyaoeyidijinxingrenshengongjishenzhizhouma，yinweitamenbuhuibangzhunijiejuerenhewenti，zhihuirangnimenzhijiandetanhuabiandegengnan。

2、学会倾听

 yaozenmeyanggentachaojiacaibuhuishangganqingni？ruguotashituweizijidexingweidaoqian，buyaodaduanta，naixindengtashuowan。ruguonibujitafayandejihui，neimezheigewentijiangyongyuanwufajiejue。

3、buyaonaoderenjinjiezhi

 chaochaorangrangderangshenbianderenweiguan，zhihuirangshuangfangdounankan，daozhiguanxiehua。napazhendeyichujifa，yeyaozhaoge“yinbi”dedifang。

4、yongyuanbuyaoshiyongbaoli

 zenmehenvhaizichaojiabushangganqingni？yongyuanbuyaoshiyongbaoli。wulunnanrennvren，shiyongbaolidoushibukeyuanliangde，yigechengshuderenbixuxuehuiyongjiankangdefangshiguanlizijideqingxu。

5、huxiangliudianhuanchongshijian

 zhengchaozhongjishiweilejiejuetimu，erbushichengyishikoushezhikuai。jibiciyidianshijian，haohaosikaohehuiyingduifangdeyijianhekanfa，jinyibuzhengchaocaiyouyiyi。

6、寻找恰当的时机

 buyaozaitadefumu、pengyou、tongshizaichangdeshihoufapiqi，zheizhihuirangtagandaonankan，yebuyaozaitaxinqingfanzaohuozheshentibushishizhaotademafan，chufeinixianggenzijiguobuqu。

7、jiushilunshi，bunaguoqushuoshi

 henduonvrenmeicigenbanlvchaojia，douhuibutingdijiushizhongti，zheichulenengjiqiduifangdefennu，duiyunimentanhuadejinxingqibudaorenhezuoyong。xuehuijiushilunshi，rangtanhuadejiaodianzhijizhongzaiyanqianzheiyigewentishang。

8、说话直截了当

 lengchaorefeng、zhisangmahuai，hennanrangduifanglejienidaodinalibumanzu、xiangyaozuoshenme。yaoxiangjiejuezhengyi，zhijieqiejinzhongdian，mingqueshuochunidexiangfa，zheiyangduifangcainengmingbainixiangyaobiaodadezhengqueyiyi。

9、不要分出对错

 zhengchaoshi，jidetixingziji：yijianfenqibingbushisheiduisheicuodetimu，zhishikanfabuyizhieryi。renqinglezheiyidian，xiaochuzhengduanhuibiandeqingyihenduo。

10、duoyong“wo”erbushi“ni”

 lianaizhongchaojiaruhecainengbushangganqing？duoyong“wo”erbushi“ni”。dangnizaiyantanzhizhongzongshiyong“ni”zheigeziyanshi，tingqilaizongxiangshizaizhizeduifang，erqierongyirangnimenshuangfangzhanzaiduilimianshang。bufangshizheba“ni”huanzuo“wo”,zheibujinbiaoxianchuniduitadezunzhong，yekeyiyouxiaoyizhiyancizhongdaiyoudegongjixing。