夫妻吵架有不好吗？怎么解决不和睦的情况？

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一、小夫妻吵架正常吗？

fuqizhijian、chaojiashihennanbimiande、yinggaishiweizhengchangxianxiang、bubijinghuang。

 fuqiliangren、bujinxingbiebutong、xingge、guannianhexiguandengyihuyouchayi。lianaishibicihaiyoujihuiyanshi；jielehun、chaoxixiangchu、hudongpinfan、dadaxiaoxiaodechongtushiwufabimiande。mianduizheixiechongtushi、ruoshidajingxiaoguai、yiweiyoulezhengzhijiubiaoshilianggerenbushihezaiyiqi、zheishiyizhongcuowu。

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 shishishangfuqiyinggaiyijijidejiaoduduidaichaojia。“hui”chaojiadefuqi（jizhidaochaojiayuanzederen）、liangrenzhijiandeganqinghuiyulaiyuhao、erqiechaojiadecishuyehuiyulaiyushao。

二、夫妻吵架有不好吗？

chaojiashi“jiaodu”wenti、erbushi“shifei”wenti。

 fuqichaojiadezhuyaoyuanyinshiyiweishiqingyidingzhiyouyigedaan。chaojiazhedejibenxintaishi“zheijianshiyidingshiwodui、ta（ta）yidingcuole”。wentishidanglianggerendouzheiyangxiangshi、chaojiajiucengchubuqiongle。shishishangfuqijiandezhengzhijingchangdoumeiyougudingdedaan、tamenchuncuishijiaoduwenti、erbushishifeiwenti。“huichaojia”derenzaizhengzhideguochengzhong、huinulidiqutihuiduifangdezhenzhengyisi、huobijiaoliangrenzhijiandechajuzainali。“buhuichaojia”deren、zaizhengzhideguochengzhongquejiliyaobodaoduifang、zhiyaozhengmingzijide“wuwu”、jieguofanerliangbaijushang。

三、小夫妻吵架严重吗？怎么处理不和睦的情况？

1、夫妻吵架应该“讲情”，而不是“讲理”。

 yibanchaojiadetezhengshizhengli，suoyipanmingdizhuazhuduifangdeyubing，zhaochuduifangluojidequexian，jizhonghuoliergongzhi，rangduifangmeiyouzhaojiadeyudi。“zhengli”deguochengzhongwangwanghui“shangqing”，yingleliwangwanghuirangduifangduinigengmeiyouganqingeryi。fuqizhijiandezhengzhiyong“qing”laichuli，yuanbiyongfenxibianlundechaojiayaoyoujianshexingde。

2、千万不要在第三者的面前吵架。

 chaojiazheweilezhengshizijishiduide，jingchangxihuandetousujuwaidedisanzhe，xiwangbierenhuizhichita。erweilezhengqujiaoduodetongqing、jiubixubuduanditidaopeioudebushi。zheizhongzaidisanzheqian、kongsupeioudexiguanduifuqizhijiandeganqingpohuaixingjida，fuqizhijianbixujielibimian、fouzeshouhaidehaishiziji。“hui”chaojiaderenzhixiwangfuqiliangrennengmianduimiandichulibicizhijiandechongtu，buyuanzaifumu、pengyouhuotongshimianqianchao。suoyilianggerenganqingfuyuandekenengxingjiukeyidadatigao。