浅谈情侣吵架男人选择冷战的五种心态

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一、情侣吵架男人选择冷战的五种心态

1、避免吵架

 nanrenhenvrenzheiliangzhongshengwubudebushuonanrenqueshishibijiaokanshishide，nanrenqueshibinvrengengjialixingyixieyouqishizaiganqingzhong。zailiangrenfashengbuyukuaideshihou，nvrenzongshixihuanbuduandizhongfuzijideziyiweidedaoliyonglaizhizenanren。

 nanrenjuedenishiyigezhihuichaonaodefengpoziyidiandoubushanjierenyitijiuzhangdexingweihuirangtahenshiyanjuan。yushidangnimenchaojiadeshihoutazhidaofanbolenimenhuichaodegengxiong，qinglvchaojiananshengxintairenweinimenbudanhuichaodegengxiongshenzhihuichuxianjiaxingfenshoudexianxiang。taningyuanxuanzelengzhanzheizhongfangshijishiduiganqingyousuoshanghaiyehaoguonimenchaojiashengjilaidehao，zaishengqideshihoujiubuyaoqushuorangduifangshangxindehualezheiyangjishanghaidaoduifangyouhuirangzijihouhuide。

zongzhinanrenxinlihuixiangyuqilianggerenzaiqitoushangshuochuyixie，wufashouhuideqihuazaochenggengdadeshanghaiburuxuanzebizui。

2、jinilengjingdeshijianziwofansi

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 meicichaojianvrendouxihuanjiangdaolibieguanyuanyindaodizenmeyang，bieguanshiyinweinirenglajimeirengdaokuanglihaishiyinweinihenagenvrenzaiweixinduoliaoleyijuhua，zongzhinvrenquanbudoushidaolibingqieyidingyaojinishuochushifeiheibai，keshinanrenhuijuedefeichangmeibiyaonvrenjiangjiuyishinanrenzhuzhongjieguo。tabuyuanyihenizhengchaohaibururangnijingxialaihaohaofansi。

3、nanrenyaozizunjinliangsuoxiaochaojiafanwei

 qinglvchaojiahounanshengxintaishishenmeni？nvrenzaichaojiadeshihoufeichangdadanyeshihenjuejue，zuoweinvrendenishifoutingdaoguonidenvxingpengyoushuoguozheiyangyijuhua“dabulerangtamenquanjiadouzhidaotashigeshenmeyangderen”。

 keshinanrenjiushiyaozizunyouqishihezijidenvren。tabuxiangrangjiarenrangpengyouranghaizizhidaonimenchaojiadezhenshi，eryingxiangdaobierendeqingxuheshenghuo，suoyitahuiyayizijideqingxubukuodachaojiafanweibushengjichaojiajuqing，juebuyunxujiachouwaiyangsuoyitaxuanzelengzhanbubiaomingzijidetaidu。

4、冷战也比对骂好

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5、buxiangguanzhenichixuchengrenchaojiadecuowu

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