男人变心怎么挽回婚姻

　　nanrenbianxinzenmewanhuihunyin，hunyinlideliefengtongchangqiyuanyuyichangchenmowuyandeduitan。danghunyinguanximanmanwujie、lengdannaizhishuyuantidaishi，henduonvxingpengyourongyixianrujiaolvyumangran：wanhuizhangfuzuihaodefangfashisha?shikukuwanliu，huoshihaojinfangshi?shijishang，zhenzhengnenggouxiufuguanxideyaochi，zangzaimeiyicizhenzhidejiaoliuzhong。

　　一、合作是挽留的关键：从“抵抗”到“联接”

　　henduonvxinghunyinwentizhonghuixianruliangjihua：yaobuyongchizeheweiquchangshihuanqilingyifangdezerenxin，yaobuwanquanfengbiziwo，yongjianmodikanglengbaoli。danshi，liangzhongfangshifanerhuirangliefenggengjiashenru。xinliyanjiushuoming，wanhuizhangfuzuihaodefangfa，shiyouchuangjianshenrudeqingganlianjie，erlianjieqiantitiaojianshiyouxiaodegoutong。

　　1. goutongjiaoliudeshizhi：bingbushiquanfu，fanershilejie

　　henduowanliushibaidelizi，tongchanglaiyuanyugoutongjiaoliumubiaowucha。shituyong“jiangli”nengrangduifangdixiatou，huozheyongqingxuxuanxiehuodelianmin，zhihuiranglingyifangzaochengfangyuxinli。zhenzhenzhengzhengdejiaoliuyaozuodaoyixiajidian：

　　xuehuifangxiahaoshengxin：goutongjiaoliubingbushibianlunhui，buyongzhengduiyucuo。yuqishuodanxin“sheifancuowu”，bibushangduijiao“zenyangjiejue”。

　　chuansongcuiruogan：shehuixinlixuelide“yisunxingjichulilun”qiangdiao，shidangzhanxianzhenshidemingan(ruchengrenzijizaodongbuan、houhuimojihuowunai)，bijiaorongyijiqiduifangtonglixinyuzhengfuyu。

　　2. goutongjiaoliudehuangjinfaze：30%lingting+40%biaoshu+30%xingwei

　　lingting：fajuelingyifangweishuochukoudeyaoqiu

　　xuduozhangfuzaihunyinwentizhongbaochichenmo，shizaitamenkanlai“shuoshenmedoumeiyong”。yiner，jijilingtingtadeganshouyouweizhongyao。biru：

　　“jinqinilaoshuogongzuotaimang，shifoujiazhongrangniganjuedaogongzuoyali?”

　　“dajiajuededajiazhijiandewenti，gengduodeshisanguanbuhe，huoshixiangchumoshiwenti?”

　　lingtingshibimianqieduan、bianbo，zhixuyongdiandiantou、fanfuduifangdeyisi(ru“tingshangquniganjuehenlei”)laichuandijieshou。

　　biaoshu：yong“tihui”qudai“chize”

　　goutongdeshihouduocaiyong“woganshoudao……”dejuxing，bingfei“nizong……”。biru：

　　cuowuzuofa：“nicongbuguanjiaohaizi，zhiguzheziji!”

　　gaishanbanbenhao：“jinqifudaohaizixuexikechengrangwojuedehenpijuan，ruguokeyiheniyiqifentan，wonengqingsongxuduo。”

　　qianmianyizhongkaiqiduikangqingxu，houzhenengyindaoduifangsisuozenmejiejuewenti。

　　xingwei：ranggenggaibei“kandao”

　　kongdongdefuwuchengnuomeifazhongjianxinren，zhiyouxingweicainengzhengmingxinxin。biru：

　　ruguoguoquyinhushijiazhongyinqifenqi，keyizhudongzhengtiguihualibaitianjiatinghuodong;

　　zhiyaoduifangmaiyuangoutongjiaoliushixiao，keyidingqisheding“fufushizhang”，zhuanzhuyugoutongjiaoliubicizhijiandexuyao。

　　二、重要环境下的沟通方法

　　qingjing1：tatilihunhuoliangdifenjushi

　　zheishiqiangzhiwanhuizhihuijiazhongtadetaochuxinlizhuangtai。zuihaodebanfashi：

　　kongzhuxintai，huifuyuqinguzong

　　nanrenbianxinzenmewanhuihunyin，huifushili：“wonengganshoudaonirujinfeichangtongku，ruguonixiangyaoshizhanglizhi，wozunzhongnidejueding。danwoyaogaosuni，woyijiuaixizheiduanganqing，haishiyuanyiweigaibianfuzhunuli。”

　　wanhuizhangfugenjingongzuo：yong“feiqinrushigoutongjiaoliu”fujianlianluo

　　meiguo2-3tianfayitiaojianyuedexinxineirong，ru：“jinriluguonizuixihuandekafeiting，goumailebeinatiekafei，yuanniyekeyihedaoxihuandeweidao。”(chuansongguanzhu，bushijiayali)