怎么去挽回变心老公 挽回必须知道的三件事

 huozhizhangfuyiqingbielianhou，nvxingdexinjingshiwuweizachende，tamenhuijuedemeirennengrenshizijibeilaogongpanbiandeqingxu。meiyourenzhangwotamenyouneimetongchu，duomedenaonu，duomedefannao，duomedexiaochen，duomedeguji……zishenweilelaogonghexiaopengyouganleneimeduoqinfen，weihezhangfuqueaixiqitanvxing，buaixizishenni？dangmeirennenggaoqingchuzheizhongfannaoyutongchushi，bianhuizuochugaoshengzhiwenzhangfu，pokoudamadisanzhe，gaodaorenminfayuan……zheixiexingdong。faxiewanzishendexintaihou，zheiyichanghunyinshenghuoyejiuwanquangaoyiduanluo。zhenduiqidaizhangfunengfanhuizishenshenbiandereneryan，gaizenmezuoni？zenmequwanhuibianxinlaogong？yixiajigefangmianqidainengxiezhunilaiwanliujingshenchuguidezhangfu。

一，获知丈夫移情别恋后

 ruguonimingquezhangfuyiqingbielianhou，huoshixiangshitazishenrenkekeguanshishi，danlingyifangyizhishuoxietuolishijidetuituozhici，yizhibuyuanrenke，shinigengweitongchu。yidanzhiyi，“yinweiniyiqingbielianle，ninyoubiedenvxingle”，zhinengshitafanchunxiangji，kouchueyu，naizhijiangchu，“wonengneiyang，doushinidecuo”laizaochengnidefujiuhefuzuigan。

 qiadangdezuofayinggaishi，changshijiangchuzishenxinlizhijiedeqinggan，liru，ruguonifajuenanyouyudisanzhededuanxiaoxishi，nenggouneiyangshuo，“wokandaojianbaoshi，xinlishifenshangxin。”nishuoqidejinyouzheiyi。zheijinjinchuncuidibiaoshuchukeguanshishiyuzishendeqinggan，meiyouzhilingzhangfuhelingyifangfenkai，doumeiyousizichuaimozhangfudeqingxu，huoburongzhibiandichize。yinci，zhangfuyenanyizaochengfantiaoxinlizhuangtai。ruoxinlibuguanzenyanghuoshichongchizhenaonu，fangfoyishuohuajiuxuyaodahouchuqudeqingkuangxia，qingchuanjianbao。zheiyangyilai，zhangfucaikeyiqinzilejietaranglaopoganjuehenyoushang，youshihoufanerhuizishentanyanwaiyu。suiranlaogongbuyidinghuiyinerlikezhongzhiwaiyu，danshizuishaonenggoushitaziwofansi。

二，不要在一开始就原谅

 yingduizhangfuyiqingbielianzheiyikeguanshishi，youyixienvhaizizaixiang：“ruonengyuanliangdehua，buzhidaogaiyouduomehao。”danshi，weihefeiyaoyaoneimaqinfenqukuanrongzhangfuni？chuguiderenbenlaishilaogonga！niyuanliangyebuguisu，yuanliangmeiyouzhuyixiaohai，yuanliangshuohuang……jieguozhangfugenggailemeiyou？wulunyuanliangjihui，tadouchedimeiyougenggai，nibushizaoyijingliguozheibantongchudegongzuojingyanlemeiyou？jiujingyaokuanrongjihui，zhangfucaihuizhongzhiwaiyuni？nixuyaoyongduoshaodexionghuai，qukuanrongtadefanchunxiangjiyuyiziwoweizhongxindeqingxingni？

 bunengyifajuezhangfuchugui，jiulikekuanrongzhangfu。youyuzhangfuhuiwurenwei，wojishiwaiyutayehuiqingyuanliangwo，tandewuyanzaiciwaiyu。zaimeiyouyingdangkuanrongzhangfudeqingkuangxiakuanrongleta，zheibingbukeshicuode，yehuiduinidejingshenshizhizaochengfumianyingxiang。shuobailebuyinggaikuanrongzhangfudeqingkuangxia，jiushizhizhangfuzhiwuqicifangzhiyunigoutongjiaoliu，buduanshuohuang，meiyoupeili……yejiushitalianyidingdian“ranglaoposhoushangle，shiwobuhao”zheileihouhuimojidexiangfayemeiyoudeqingkuangxia。

 ziran，jishitakuzhezhiqian，tangruobuyuanyuanliang，haikeyibukuanrong。nixuyaoqingxidigaozhizhangfu：“woxihuanni，danshiwobuyuanliangwaiyu。”jiaruzhangfuweixieshuo：“neidajialiyi”，niyebuyongyinerjinghuang，youyutajiaruzhenlihunle，yingdangzaoyizhenglixinglixianglikai。

三，为自己胆量

 zhangfuyiqingbielianrutongzuoyunxiaofeichezaoshouchuxianyiwai，jibianbeijiuchu，jibiandeshenshangdechuangkouzhiyule，shenrudeshangbayirancanyuxinli。zenmequwanhuibianxinlaogong？nipadehaipazaizuoyunxiaofeiche，yehaipadadiandongche，gonggongqichehedeshi，meifaqushangban。bianweineiyangyeshiwanbanwunai，youyushishenrudeneixinwaishangdaozhide。zhangfuyiqingbielianhouyaozhongguiyuhao，rutongyaochangshizaiyicidachengyunxiaofeicheyiyang。ruomeiyoukefukongjudedanliangjiqixinlailingyifangdeqiangjingganqingjiumeifakuachuqu。yinci，niwuxujuedezishenshiyigerouruoderen。