老公的背叛怎么办 如果老公变心了怎么办

 ruguolaogongbianxinlezenmeban？hunyinshenghuozhonglaiyuanyulingyibandepanbian，nenggouduisuoyoureneryanshishifenrenbuzhudeyijianshiqing，xuduonvxingzaibeilaogongchuguiyihou，buqingchuyinggaizenmezuo，jinrijiuyiqilaihaohaodidelejieyixia。

丈夫的叛变该怎么办

控住自身的心理状态

 ruguonikandaonilaogongduinichuguixingweishi，bubibiaoxiandexianggelvchabiao。naizhifajuesannianjidexiaohaizhuazhetadexiufazaijieshangdasannianjidexiaohai，shizaitaiyumeile。zheishi，niyinggaichenwen，jinliangtiejinkeguanshishideshizhi，quzhaodaolaogongchuguishibushimingxishangdegudingbudongkeguanshishi。buran，hebiedenvrendajiashihenbushihede，youyuwodeyigecaiyiwuhuilewolaogong。

剖析现阶段的状况

 jiarulaogongchuguileni？ruguonixiangxinnideairenzaiwaiyushi，naonushidangrande，danhaibingbushiqingkuangxia。rujinniyinggaipingjingxialai，pouxiyixianilaogongweiheduinichuguixingwei。jiarunifajuezheiyeshinidewenti，niyinggailijigaizheng，neiyangtajiunengganjuedaoniyaoxiufutadexin。jiaruzheigerenhaiaini，jiandaonidelizhihegenggaihaowuyiwenhuifanhuinideshenpang。

作出自身的分辨

 jiarunifajuenilaogongdechuguiyagenbushinidehunyinshenghuodenanti，fanershitadexingqing，gongqinghuochenmidenanti，niyinggaixiajuexin。jiaruniyiranaizheigeren，niwubixiangtashuoming，ninengyuanliangzheiyici，danniwubizhidingsangebiaozhun，jiaruneiyangdeshierzaiweilaizaicichuxian。jiarutaqueshixianghuijia，tawubifuwuchengnuoduankaiyuneinvrendelianluo，kendingbuhuizaiyouyiqielianluo，jibianneinvrenzouzaitayanqian，rutongtabuqingchuyiyang。

下决心心作出决策

 neilaogongduilaopowubini？ruguolaogongbianxinlezenmeban?zaihenduozhuangkuangxia,nvxingyizhicankudimengpiantamendelaogong,jinjinbeilaogongyiciyouyicidikeshang。ruguonichajuezijimeifajienanizuiaiderendepanbianshi，biaozhunshibiaozhun，buyinggaibeibuqingyuandeshishikekebianruan。ruguoniyingdangzuodeqingkuangxiaxuehuijianqiang，buran，zuihouzhinengweihaini。