分手了该怎么挽回 变心的男友可信么

 fenshougaizenmewanhui？bianxindenanyoukexinme?dajiawangwangwanliuyiduanqinggan，shiyouyuxihuanta，buyuanshiquleta。keshizaihenduorenlaikan，wanliushiyouyulingyifangdeshiyongjiazhitaigaole。pasangshiyihoujiucongcizhaobuzheneimehaoderenle。yegengshiyouyuyouneiyangwentideniantou，caihuizaiwanliudeqingkuangxiayizhibazijibaizaiyigejiaoweididebuwei。pabeilingyifangwangdiao，jiufaxinxidajiaota，jieguoquezhaolailingyifangdedichu;yidanwufadedaohuifujiuzhujianzhiyizishennaerzuodebutaihao，lingyifangshifouyiqingbielianle，suihouyouyubuding，xinshenbuningdepouxizheiyiduanqinggannengfouwanliu，zhibuzhiwanliu，quebuzhidao，qiahaoshizheizhongniantoucujinlewanliunanduxishutisheng。

suhuashuodehao，zainaershuaidao，jiuzainaerzhanqilai。zainaerfashengdenanti，womenjiubatayibubupoyi!

一，选准分歧点，一举击溃绝不再次发生

 youhenduonanhaizilaizhaodaowodeqingkuangxia，yizhibiequdedunangzhe：jiaoshi，woyebuzhidaotaweihegenwotifenkai，woyagenbuqingchuzijizuobuduinaxie!”tingqilaihenzhanli，chaobiequ。quebuzhidao，zheicaisuanshijiaodadebuzhengquedian，tanlezheimeduoniandetanlianai，nandaoshuohaimeiyougaoqingchunvxingxiangfanancaima?feichangaixinkoubuyima?zheileitedianzaochengtamenaiwanwanraorao，lingyifangduinibumanyideqingkuangxia，burongyizaizuibianquelibiaoxianchulai，keshihuizaixinzhongrangnixionghendehuashangyidao，momodipingfen。

 keshixuduonanhaizidoushiyouyubuzhidaonvrendexinli，fanlebuzhengque，budianjizheruhequtianbu，zongganjueguoqujiumeishile，lindaofenkai，cairudangtouyibang。zhujianqiansiwanxiangzishenjiujingfanleshenmebuzhengque，zheigeshihou，zaoyiwanle。nvhaizaoyiyouyuchengqianshangwanjiansuoshierjileilexuduoxinhan，caiyouzheiyirangrenbeitongdejuece。

 yinci，zheigeshihouxunzhaozishenshenmedianshilingtazhenzhenzhengzhengduinixinhandediqu。yijuzheizhongfenqi，kaizhanquanliyifugaijin，tebieshizaitagengweichengshoubushang，shucizhuzhongguodezheixiewenti。lirukongzhiyuqiang，zhanyouyu，zhanrendeng。yiyangyingyongfanxiangsiwei：dajiajiejinquanligaizhengzishendewenti，bianshiweilenengzaiduhuodetarendeshangxi。haikeyicongshehuixinlixueshijiao，kexueyanjiulingyifangdeaihao，yijutadetexing，laishixianyichanggengxingaizao。biru：nizhiqianchangchangxizhuangbiting，nenggoushuncongtaxiaiyundongfenggededaban;nizhiqianchangchangbuxiubianfu，nenggouyishunjianzaitayanzhongbiandeshenshibinbinyouli;nizhiqianbusijinqu，nenggourenzhengongzuotigaozijideshengcunnengli。deng，quanshiwanliudaolushangdejiqiangfuzhu。

 ziran，zuishouyaodehuanshiyaoxuanzhunfangwei，motoulingyifangfenshouzhihoudexintai，jiqiduinideyanfanshuiping。niduitadezhenxinshiyibixuqiadangfangshidefuchi，yexuyaoganyuyingduiwanliu，ruguowomenzishizhizhongtiaoxuanshanduo，liefengzhinengyuelaiyueda，jiarunibuyuanqingganjiuzheiyangwanbi，huoshiyijingzaoshouqinggantongchu，bieweiganqingfanchou，buguanzhouduanyezhang，dajiazishizhizhongdoushihuihaojin120%denengliang，shinizaicibaojinniqipandeganqing。

二，控住心态，先让往事翻篇

 xuduonanhaizizaibeifenshouhou，xintaiyuelaiyueyinqingbuding，bukeyizidonghuakongzhi。huaiyinvshengweishenmebuhuiweixin?youyouyunvhaidelengyanxiangdaieryuelaiyuejiqihuixinsangqi，ganjuewanliuyaoyaowuqi。yaoburan，zefengkuangdejiuchanluanda，bawozhuzishenquerendezuizhongjiyugaobaiqingyi，huiyi，zhicuojiugaidexin。zainanhaizilaikan，ganjuezishenzaibiaoshuzhenxinshiyi。keshizainvhailaikan，zheihaowuyiwenyouyicimengpian。chengdanzerendejiang，shijizhong，baifenzhijiushijiudezhenxingfenshou，douyouyuneiyangzuo，jianglingyifangyuetuiyuezhangle。jiaoniyizhao，buguanniyoumeiyouxianggaoqingchufenshoudeyuanyin，huoshishixintainanyizidonghuakongzhi。zheigeshihouyidingyaozhuangzuoningjing，bukeyizhengzhihezhengzhi，gengbubiyinyishishuangkuaiereyaneyu。zhongzhongzhizhong，shiyaoxianraokaijinqu。

 weijianglaidewanliukaiyigekaihaoju。zainvhaideneixin，jiangwanfenkaidesiweidingshi，huiganjueniyinggaiwenqiyuangu，naizhiweilegenghaodiwanliubiaoshuhuihenzhiyizheixie。keshi，zheierwomenyaogaogaoqingchudeyijianshishi，nvhaijuecefenkai，gaozhinideshiyigejieguo。quebuzhidao，taweilegenghaodizuozheizhongjuece，zaoyidanduzaiyanhanzhongzhanlehaozhangshijian。shigaozhini，erbushitongnishangyi。gaodongzheiyixinlizhuangtaiyihou，dajiadeningjingjiena，jiubianchenglenvpengyoudeyixiangbudao。zheigeshihouqiahaoyingyongleyuqinguzong，yinqinvhaidehaoqixinxinlizhuangtai。qudechenggonghaijiyici。erzishenyexuyaokuaisudecong“nanyou”derenwujiaoselibengchulai，lizaiyigejuwairendeshijiao，caikeyiweichiyigefuruandedanao，jinzaoxunzhaojijiajihuafangan。

三，间接性秘密武器，为复合型做铺垫

 wulunyouyuyuanguzenyang，yanerzongeryanzhiyijuhua，dabufenyouyubenshenfengcaibugouzaocheng。dajiayinggaizhuyaojibenjiansheyouhuoli。yaomudexingdefanyingrenmendegaoshiyongjiazhi，weizaiyicipengmianzuopudian，erbushimangcongdimeiyouyiqiegenggai，jiujiqieranglingyifangjiandaozishendeyichengbubian，jinerquanpanfouding。weixinfapengyouquan，xinlangweibo，qqkongjian，tanengchupengdaodeyixieshejiaowangluopingtaihuibianchengniguanjianzhanxianzigedeshineikongjian。nenggoufayixiechulaigenxiongdiwandewentu，pengrenjishufazhandeyinzhengdeng。zaizheierbixutebiezhuyideshi，womendoushimudexingdefa，erbushiyouyidazaochuyigemohuhuajiaose。youdelianrenzaoyizaiyiqihaozhangshijianle，bicizhijianzaoyishifenzhangwo。jiarunicailexuduojinqu，jibenshanghaojinlezishennenggouxiangqideyiqiefangfa，lingyifanghuoshiduiniwudongyuzhong。

 neimaqingbuyaoweishouweiweisheqi，lingyifangzaiduinisilexinyiqianyidinghuishifangchulaiduanzanxingdeduihuakuang，jiarubukeyizhangwonaizhiwufashibie。jiaruniyiqianhaoqingzhuangzhixiadefuwuchengnuobianweiyigejianshennvshen，yizhiwufajinxing。nenggouyikaoweixinpengyouquandakaqiandao，guanjiandeshiranglingyifangjiandaonidegenggai。motoulingyifangdexihao，nenggouhelidexuanxieduihuakuang。liru，lingyifanghenxihuanzhoudong，qiahaotadexunhuiyanchangdepiaonanyimai。niyizhizaiweixinpengyouquanfabuerzhangpiao，biaomingzishenyouyuzuoyeyuanguzhiyoujiangpiaokaizhanzhuansong(jilaojinyirenyoucikejiano)，dengdaijiuhaole。womencengjingpingzhecifazhanzhanlve，qudechenggongwanliuyiduiqinglv。

 nvhaiyouyuganxie，huiqingkechifanbiaoshuganji。shurifenshouyihou，yinzhengdaonanhaizidezhenshichengzhangyufazhan，qudechenggongnizhuanganqing。gangfenkai，quanbunvxingjibenshangdoushihuichuyuyigemingantefangqi，zheigeshihou，nikeyiyigaiguoqu，yunyongjinshengdeyidianerhaoganduyingdenvxingdexinlai。jinerjiejuemaodun，youqianmiandeaiqingzai，nvxinghuifeichangrongyiyunxufuhexingde。wanliunanma?nan。bianxindenanyoukexinme?youyuzainvxingduininyouhenqiangdedichuxinlizhuangtaishi，zuixianyaoxuezhequbakongtadexinlizhuangtai。ruhegoutongjiaoliuyujinru，daliangdebixufangshiyufangfa，yeyouzhuanyedeyindaoyubupuluyaoqiudegaoaozida。shaobuliushen，huishinvhaiduinidexintaigengjiacha，lijiduzhuquanbuwanliudeanquantongdao。shijishangxuduorenmenzaiwanliudeqingkuangxia，nvhaidoushihuibiaomingjiaruqianrennengjiuzhengdehua，zishenshihaikeyikaolvdaohuijiade。keshizaiwanliudechengshidaolushang，dajiayiranyehuipengdaohenduodefeiwuceshi，yejiushiyunyong“bukedexing”tishengzishendeshiyongjiazhi，jiqibeiaixidezhulizijin。