究竟浓情蜜意没了变心了怎么做

 aimuxurongshirendebenzhi，shehuifazhanyouzaifeisufazhandiwangqianfazhanqushi，nongqingmiyizuoweinvxing，aiqingshishenmeyangzidezenyangcainengbubeishidaisuoqudai，zenyangcainengshizishendelaogongbuhuigaibianxinni?

第一条：要提升自身的素养，提升自身的文化艺术涵养，要跟上时期的脚步。

 jineryejiujingenlenidelaogonghuonanyoudejiaobu。xiandaishehuinanshengdejiazhiguannian、jiatingguanxianyoufeichangdadegenggai，yigeshahuhu、laolaoshishide、zhengkaiyanjingbuzhidaotianxiadashidenvshengshishuanbuleqiangdadenanrenxinde。congguzhijin。zhenbuzhidaonagezhumingdezhuangzhongxianyadewenweneryanenghuodenanshengdeduchong，erlingnanshengyusiyuxiandebaosi、cixitaihou、dayi、wumeiniang、lishishi、suxiaoxiao、saijinhuadengquanshijingmingnenggan，jizhiguoren，shulianjunziliuyi，boxueduocai。

 wushuciminyidiaochazhongfajue，nanshenggengxihuan、gengbixudeshiconghui、shishang、youdanaodeairen，zaixiandaishehui，daiwazhufanxichuangdanjibingbushiqizidegongzuo，zaojiubeijiatingbaomu、youzhiyuan、gaojicanguanhefandiansuotidaile。

第二条：要充足的信心。

 nanrenxihuanzixindenvren。xinxinnengshiyifupingfandeliankongyuelaiyuerongguanghuanfa。yaosuzao、nongqingmiyibaohuzijidefengcai。fengcaibingbingbushilaiziliandaner，wofanduizaizishendelianbudongdaodongqiang。wojuede，woshizhongburongyiquzuozhengrongshoushu。dangran、zhenzhengshizuimeilide。dajiazhixiangbanfayongxindibaohuziji。huanmanshuaituishinenggoubaozhengde。wobiaomeiconghelantongdianhuajiewo，gaozhishuotaxiangyaoquzhengrongshoushu。womashangyizhengciyandigaozhita：“jiaruniquganlezhengrongshoushu，wocongcibuxihuannile。woainixiandemoyang。lianyidianyebuguanjian。”

第三条：不必爱得放纵自己。

 zheiyileidenvxingzuifeichangrongyibeinanrensuopaoxia。tamentourushuzuiduo，shudeyejiubeicui。jiarunijiangzishendesuoyoudangzuolipinrushuzengjilelingyifang，lingyifanghuijuedehuodetaifeichangrongyi，huijuebulianxiangxiyudijiangtafangdaoyibian。shiwohenduonanxingpengyoudoulihunlehuozheqingganbutaihaoyongyoudisanzhe。ertamendefurenmeishenmeguoshi。woxunwentamenweihe?yourenshuotamenyebuzhidao。xiangxianghenjiuhuiyingwojiang：henyoukenengbingbushiwozhuiguolaideba!

第四条：要给另一方一定的随意，给另一方充足的室内空间。

 fufubiciweichiyidingdejianjushishifenguanjiande。jiarunirangnanshengshixi，nanshengbianhuiyanfanni。yaoweichilingyifangduinideshenmigan。jiarutayitiandaowandouyunipaozaiyiqi，zongyouyitianhuiganjuefawei。shitaquzuotazijideshi，baxiaoshiyiwaihuozheyelihenizaiyiqijiuchongzule。

第五条：要记牢婚姻生活仅仅责任，决不是支配权。

 shizhongbubisunhainanshengdezizun，shizhongyaojilingyifangqingmian!henduonvxingwanhunyihoubananshengzuoweizishendehefacaichan。wuyuanwugujiujilianziqiao，shuaicanzhuo。shuaidengzi，zaibubianshiouqibuhangsheng。dangtarenmianfuxiuerquzheixie，bijiaoyanzhongdechangchangdachaodanao，gongranjiaodaolaogongchedimeiyounvxingdewenrou，yifuzhigaoqiyangdemoyang。zuikaishichuduixiangshidewenzhibinbin，wenrunruyuhuaweiwuyou。pululezhenmianmu。yaolejienanrenshiqulenibingbingbushibatamairangni，weihejibierenqishou?quanbuderendouhaomianzi，nanshengtebieshizaiaimianzi。jiaruniyizhizaigonggongchangheyicibujitamenqingmian。zhihounijiusuanganxinqingyuanweitazuoyiniandefandoutianbubuhuilai。jiusuannifanhuijiazhongzaiyutalunlidoubidangrenliandachaodanaozhengchaohaohenduo。aiqingshishenmeyangzidedanshi，zuihaoshibubizhengchao，youqishibubiweiyixiewuguanjinyaodeshizhengchao，yixieshierdiandaoweizhi，bubidelibuxuren。