究竟浓情蜜意没了变心了咋办

 zaidangdairichangshenghuo，weishenmenanrenhuiyuelaiyueneimafeichangrongyiyiqingbielian?weihelaoshihuichuxianhunyinchuguihuozhedisanzhe?meinvmendoumanma“chenshimei”，danmashimabuhehaoruchude。nongqingmiyiyaolejieaimuxurongshiyiqierenmendetianxing。aiqingshishenmeyangzideneima，meinvmengaizenmezuocaikeyirangnidenanrenburongyiyiqingbielianni

第一，要充足的信心。

 nanrenxihuanzixindenvren。xinxinnengshiyifupingfandeliankongyuelaiyuerongguanghuanfa。yaosuzao、baohuzijidefengcai。fengcaibingbingbushilaiziliandaner，wofanduizaizishendelianbudongdaodongqiang。wojuede，woshizhongburongyiquzuozhengrongshoushu。dangran、zhenzhengshizuimeilide。dajiazhixiangbanfayongxindibaohuziji。huanmanshuaituishinenggoubaozhengde。wobiaomeiconghelantongdianhuajiewo，gaozhishuotaxiangyaoquzhengrongshoushu。womashangyizhengciyandigaozhita：“jiaruniquganlezhengrongshoushu，wocongcibuxihuannile。woainixiandemoyang。lianyidianyebuguanjian。”

第二、不必爱得放纵自己。

 zheiyileidenvxingzuifeichangrongyibeinanrensuopaoxia。tamentourushuzuiduo，shudeyejiubeicui。jiarunijiangzishendesuoyoudangzuolipinrushuzengjilelingyifang，lingyifanghuijuedehuodetaifeichangrongyi，huijuebulianxiangxiyudijiangtafangdaoyibian。shiwohenduonanxingpengyoudoulihunlehuozheqingganbutaihaoyongyoudisanzhe。ertamendefurenmeishenmeguoshi。nongqingmiyiwoxunwentamenweihe?yourenshuotamenyebuzhidao。xiangxianghenjiuhuiyingwojiang：henyoukenengbingbushiwozhuiguolaideba

第三，提升自身的文化艺术涵养。

 genshangshiqidejiaobu，yejiujingenlenidelaogonghuonanyoudejiaobu。xiandaishehuinanshengdejiazhiguannian、jiatingguanxianyoufeichangdadegenggai，yigeshahuhu、laolaoshishide、zhengkaiyanjingbuzhidaotianxiadashidenvshengshishuanbuleqiangdadenanrenxinde。congguzhijin。zhenbuzhidaonagezhimingdezhuangzhongxianyadewenweneryanenghuodenanshengdeduchong，erlingnanshengyusiyuxiandebaosi、cixitaihou、dayi、wumeiniang、lishishi、suxiaoxiao、saijinhuadengquanshijingmingnenggan，jizhiguoren，shulianjunziliuyi，boxueduocai。

 wushuciminyidiaochazhongfajue，nanshenggengxihuan、gengbixudeshiconghui、shishang、youdanaodeairen，zaixiandaishehui，daiwazhufanxichuangdanjibingbushiqizidegongzuo，zaojiubeijiatingbaomu、youzhiyuan、gaojicanguanhefandiansuotidaile。

第四，要记牢婚姻生活仅仅责任，决不是支配权。

 shizhongbubisunhainanshengdezizun，shizhongyaojilingyifangqingmian!henduonvxingwanhunyihoubananshengzuoweizishendehefacaichan。wuyuanwugujiujilianziqiao，shuaicanzhuo。shuaidengzi，zaibubianshiouqibuhangsheng。dangtarenmianfuxiuerquzheixie，bijiaoyanzhongdechangchangdachaodanao，gongranjiaodaolaogongchedimeiyounvxingdewenrou，yifuzhigaoqiyangdemoyang。zuikaishichuduixiangshidewenzhibinbin，wenrunruyuhuaweiwuyou。pululezhenmianmu。yaolejienanrenshiqulenibingbingbushibatamairangni，weihejibierenqishou?quanbuderendouhaomianzi，nanshengtebieshizaiaimianzi。jiaruniyizhizaigonggongchangheyicibujitamenqingmian。zhihounijiusuanganxinqingyuanweitazuoyiniandefandoutianbubuhuilai。jiusuannifanhuijiazhongzaiyutalunlidoubidangrenliandachaodanaozhengchaohaohenduo。danshi，aiqingshishenmeyangzidezuihaoshibubizhengchao，youqishibubiweiyixiewuguanjinyaodeshizhengchao，yixieshierdiandaoweizhi，bubidelibuxuren。