不幸情场失意遇到第三者情况咋办

 zhangfuchuguiyoudisanzhegaizenmeban?juedabufennvxingyingduidisanzhedefangshiquanshibuzhengquede，yibanchuguinanrenquanshitugexinxianjing，yidanniwanquangenlingyifangsipolianpihou，neimabudanbazhangfutuijidisanzhejiakuaidajialiyidejiaobu，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomadajiazhongjianyejiucongcihuibudaoguoqu。zaijiashangruguoyouxiaohai，qingchangshiyineimaxiaohaihenyoukenengbianshizuikeliande。

 zuoweiyigenvrenyidingyaoconghui，yaolejieheshigaijin，heshigaitui，heshigaibiaotaifayan，heshigaijianmo，heshigaizhenxinxianlu，naxiegaifangsi，bubiyudaoyidianshierdeqingkuangxia，jiuluanlezhenjiao，youqishilejiezishendechuguinanrenyoudisanzhedeqingkuangxiaqianwanbieyouxiabiandebuzhengquejiejuefangshi。

不管自身有多么的痛楚和不舒服，都不必考虑到以对付的方法

buguanzishenduomedetongchuhebushufu，doububikaolvdaoyiqirenzhidao，haizhiqirenzhishendeduifufangfa。

 buran，nibudanxinlirengranbukeyijunheng，haihuijixujinishangshangjiashang，yaohaijidebaoronglingyifangdelingwaiyejiushishihuai。zaihuifuguanliandezheiduanshijian，nibubiyouyiquyueta，danyebubizhengzhi、lengbaoli;ninengshitaganshoudaonidetongchu，danbubiyitiandaowanyoukuyounao，yaoburan，tadexinlini、beijinglixianghuiyuezouyueyuan。qingchangshiyiyaoshitajuedezainipangbianshishushide，jiazhongshiwennuanhewennuande，shitaderenyuxinlibulejiazhong、yuelaiyueaini。

激化矛盾，挑拨情感

 laogongxihuandisanzhe，yidingyeshiguiguisuisui。zenyangyingduiyanzangdedisanzhe?shidefangshibianshirangtamenzhongjianfashengzhengzhi：jiarutadeqinggandouwufadedaozhangfudezhongshi，tabianhuiganjuezishenbeiwannonghebeishua。

 zaineiyangdezhuangkuangxiazongshigoujitiaoqiang，bingbushinaobianshifen。yinci ，nixuyaolinghuoyunyongzheiyidian。liruzaizhangfushuishushiqiaoqiaoyongzhangfushoujishangjitafaxinxi，youyijiaocuotadexingming，rangtarenweinidezhangfuhehaoduogenvxinglingwaidouweichizheneiyangdeaimei。

 rangtazishenfanshengzijishijinhuanshitui。huoshibianshizaitaiwandeqingkuangxiayouyiyongnizhangfudeshoujishangdadianhuajita，suihouzhaohaoduogezishendezimeizailimianshuodiannuanxinqinghua，buhepaota，zuishaoyeshijiyilikegumingxin。

沟通交流包容

 danghunyinpoliechuxianshi，laopojiuyingdangbazheileizishibaichu，genlaogonglizhilixingdishenkailaitan。zhenduitafancuodeshiyangemingzhetadegerenxingweijizheiyijiachanshengduoshaosunhai，shangguolenideai，suihouxianghupouxiwaiyudeyuanyinshishenme，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomaxianghuyoushenmebixugaishande。jiarunibuyuanliyi，neimanizhiyouyuanliangkuanrongta，jiarunikuanrongdanshibukeyibaozhengbaorong，yitiandaowanbazheiyijianshierfangdaozuibian，nanshengzizunhenqiang，hunyinshenghuoshimeifazaiciyunyingxialaide。