如果爱情婚姻出现第三者了如何做

 meiyiduiqinglv，congzuikaishidexiangyu、xiangshi、daoenai，doucengweilegenghaodixieshouyisheng、dijiutianzhangerqinfenguo。nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomashubuzhi，disanzhedechuxian，aiqinghunyinbaituolezheibenlaixingfukuailedeyiqieba。

 tamenbiaomianguangcaizhaoren，fangshiyinxiandulajianzha，zongtimubiaojiandingbuyijingque，kanqilaixiongxiong，yishijianshiwomenfangcundaluan，shouzuwucuo。shijishang，yingduidisanzhedefangfaxuduo ，xiabianjiuyiqilaikanyixia，ruhenengwanhuinanpengyoujibaidisanzhe?

击败第三者，要信心、理智

 disanzhedechuxian，huihuailezishendeqinggan，queshikehen。danconglingyigeshijiaokanlai，gengshiyouyunanpengyouchuse，caidedaodaozhidangjinjushi，zheizugouzhengshibenshenshifenyouyanguang，qiecongzhengtishilieryan，bubidisanzhecha。

 yinci ，neileishouzuwucuo、naizhibuzixin、xiaojibeiguandexintai，nenggoushuaizainaohoule。jiexiaquyaozuode，bianshibubeixintaisuoshangxia，zhishirangzishenpingjingxialai。

 henduorencikehuizhiyizishennanpengyou，zheihaowuyiwenshibuzhengquede。huoxugengshiyouyupianjiyantanjuzhi，qiahaobeidisanzheyunyong，qizuochuyifutongqingdali、tongqingdalideyanzang，weicihongtuodajiademanbujiangli，aiqinghunyinjianjiexingxiezhudisanzhehuodeyoushi。

击败第三者，要搞清其目地和优点

 disanzhehencongming。zhengsuoweiwulibuqizao，tamendechuxian，yidingsuizhezheqitu，nenggoucongzheidangzhongsherudaomouleiquanyi。yixietuqian、yixietuming、yixietule，haiyixiechunsuishiweilegenghaodixunzhaocijixing。duiyucishi，yidingyaogaoqingchuqizhenshimudisuoshu。

 disanzheyaoxiangde，bianshiwomenyaoquhuide;disanzhebuyaoxiangde，gengshiwomenyaojiyude。jiushizheiyang，rangqiqiuerbude，dezhiyanfan，qiduinanpengyoudejingongdangranjiandi。

 zheishihou，jiuxuyaogangkaishipouxidisanzhedeshenshangdeyoushi，daodinajigefangmianzheibanxiyinzhunanpengyou，weicixuexipeixunzhi，bingzhujianzaizishenjiansheyiyangdegongzuonengli，xiaoqianqiyoudian，rangqiyuelaiyuepingpingchangchang。

击败第三者，要打蛇打七寸

 meiyigedisanzhe，kanqilaibiaomianshunshundangdang，rongguanghuanfa，shishishangxuduo xingyehegerenxingwei，douwuzizhongzhongde，kandaotaiyangguangbidingxianchuyuanxing。shuobailedashedaqicun，bianshiyaohaohaodikexueyanjiuqiquedian，jiangdisanzhezaiyide、shouweide、buqidaibeibierenlejiedecengmianjinkenengbawo，weiciweijibenduiqikaizhanhaiji。

 disanzhepasangshide，womenyaoyougongzuonengliquzou;disanzhebuhaipasangshide，dajiachedikeweiyulicai。dangqijiaozhunanpengyouchengbenfeimanmanjiaogao，bidinghuisisuozheizaiqizhongdelibideshi。

 ziran，shijianhuodongzhong，jiadingqibuzaiyizhimingduyoulie，zhishijuedeqianshiquannengdeyiqie，neimahaijiguanjian，jiuxuyaozaizenmerangqibudanwufadedao，bingqieyeyaorangqi“buyongkeqi”、“liuxue”zhizhonghenxiagongfu，jinerlingqixinliyou“zhancang”zhigan。

 yaoxiangwanhuinanpengyouqudechenggongzhanshengdisanzhe，wubipojuxinxinqielizhi，ranhougaoqingqimudiheyoudian，genjuyifanshijicaozuo，xiaoruozhi，zuizhongzhaoqiqicunjiyuyanlidaji，yiqiedoukeyifenbianliucheng，jiaotashidi。

 ziran，wanhuinanpengyouqinei，zhishishizuozheizhongyiranbuzu，yeyaosikaobenshenshibushizaiganqingzhizhongchuxianlenanti。huiwangyiqiandelijing，shibushijinanpengyouxinliliuyouleshangba?keyijiecijihuiyeqingkaizhansikao、tianbu。nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomadiaobaorongyicongneibugongke，cishigangkaishiyaojiegoujiaguganqingzishen，buyaojidisanzheyijihui。