情感中怎么能够减少男人变心现象

 nianqingyizhijiaozongshizu，zhenduishandaizijiderenzhizhibuli，jianguaibuguai，kanbujianzhenshideziji。kongzhizijideqingxuzhendui2geshenaidereneryan，aideshendeyizhiyulaiyuguanzhe，shenaidenageyizhiyulaiyuwangdao。nanrenbianxinjibian qingwujiazhibao，kongzhiqingxudanaiyizhibijiaoyouxiande，dangguanzheniderenhenzhirugu，fenranliqu，gairuhewanliuyigeainidenanrenni?nenggoukanxiamiandesibu，suihoujianjiandiquwanhuinanpengyou，haikeyiquzhangwoxiawanhuiganqinggonglvedaquan，qudechenggongwanliuainidenanrendexin。

第一步：反省自己，换位思考一下

 liangrenconglejiedaoenai，qineiyidingshiyouyuzishendemouyifangmianyoushishendelingyifangzhongai，lingyifangyehuiyouyupengdaozishenxinaiderenerkaixin。2gexianghuzhijianaiderenyouyushangxierbianchengqinglv。zaichuqilejiedeqingkuangxia，youyushijianjiaoduan，bicizhanxianjixianghudequanshiyoushi。keshizaijinhoujiaowangdequanguochengzhong，bicidequexiangangkaishijianjiandipuluchuqu。

 jiaruyifangbunenggourenshoulingyifang，neimabianhuichangchangdachaodanaochixu。yinci lianaizhongkeyirongrendeduodezongshixihuandeshende。xuduo nvrenxihuanchenzhenanshengderenshouqumaimeng，qutiwuliqunao，naizhibujinanshengqingmian，yierzaizaiersandejinunanrendedixian，yizhiyumouyitianleijiguoduo，zaocheng youyitiannanshengxiahenxin，jirannenggouaizheni，ziranhaikeyihuanleni。yaolejiesheililesheidoukeyiguoxialai。

 yinci ，zuoweinvxing，nixuyaogenjuzheiyiganqingdezhuanbianlaishenshiziji，diaojiezishenzailianaizhongdeyixiecuowuzuofa。lingwai，yaoxuehaolejienansheng。nanshengyizhibiaocengwanqiang，neixincuiruo。jinguanyoushiduinidemanbujianglizhuyaobiaoxiandehaobuzaiyi，kongzhiqingxukeshizhangciyiwang，yehuiduinijuedeyanjuan。youyutaxinliyeshiyouduilingyibandeguiding，yehuichangchangnaneiyangdeguifanheguidinglaiyuniduibi，jiaruyizhiwuchafeichangda，tayehuiyouyubumanyieryoutianhuoshanpenfa，qingganchanshengliebianshi。nanrenbianxinyinci ，nixuyaoxiangxiyinshenainidenanren，jiuxuyaofangfanyuweiran。

gairuhewanliuyigeainidenanren-wanhuinanpengyou

第二步，宽阔自身，塑造乐趣

 jiaruniliuyifanshengziji，ninengfajue，youshidajiayizhixiaiyizhaozishendeguifanquzuodianping，fenbian，suihoukuaisuxiajielun，shiyonghuoshidizhi，zanyanghuoshichizhiyibi。yidantamenbaxintaimingquehao，bianhuifeijinxinsiyiqiebanfaquzhengshizishendejieguodezhunquexing。wangwangneiyang，shiyouyushejiaoquanbuzuda，luzoudebuzuyuan，shukandebuzuduo，yejiushishuoguoduodefengbiziji。shijishangzaizheigequanshijie，meiyoukendingdeqiadanghebuzhengque，shiqingquanshifazhanqushizhuanbiande。nixuyaozuodebianshibubirangzishenyizhineimadejiduanhuahepianji。nixuyaokuankuozishendexionghuai，jinguanbuyongshuoboxueduocai，keshizuishaobubishaojianduoguai。yanjieduole，lijingfengfuduocaile，dangranyehuixuehaohezheishijiehemuxiangchule。ruguonixinxiongkuanguang，nikandairendexintaibianhuijianjiandigenggai。youqishiduizishenqinmiwujiandeqinglv。

 youshidajiachangchangfandeyigebuzhengquebianshiduitarentaiketao，erduiqinmijiechuderentaiyanke。yinci yaoxuehaozairichangshenghuozhongsuzaozishendelequ，yigerendefazhanbianshilaizirichangshenghuodexingwu。jiaruyuzuoriduibi，nikeyigengweidedacidabei，gengweideconghui，gengweidemingbaijianmanrichangshenghuo，xiangshourensheng，neimaniyejiuhuihuochengzhenshidezishen。yigebenshenxiulianhaoderen，yidingmingbairichangshenghuoshenmeshiguanjiandeshier，shenmeshiyingjideshier，shenmeshierbuyonghuaguoduodeshijianquzuo。ruguoniliqingxilerichangshenghuodeguanjian，yebianhuiyouxiangshourenshengdelequ。neimaliangrenzaiyiqidesuiyuebianhuiyuelaiyuelanmaneryougengyouyiyi。

第三步，修练自身，更为豁达大度

 liangrenzaijiaowangdequanguochengzhong，leijiqinggandezhibuguoshisuoshi，wajieqinggandeyeshisuoshi。yinci yaogaoduzhongshijiejueliangrenzhongjiandesuoshi。yaoliuyirichangshenghuodeguanjiandian。“moyishanxiaoerbuyi，moyiexiaoererwei。”sunhairendehua，weihaibiciganqingdehuabubisuibianshuochurukou，yaolejie：“liangyanyijusandongnuan，eyanyishengliuyuehan”。yaozairichangshenghuozhongxiulianzishendexinli，rangzishenyuelaiyuewenrou，wanshan。budanzuoqizhinvren，gengyingzuochengshumeinv。rangnanshengkeyijiandaobutongxunchangdezishen。bumangmucongzhong，bufengjianmixin，nideyuzhongbutongjiangjiushinizhangjiudefengcaisuoshu。nvrenyaozairichangshenghuozhongchixudemolianzishen，fangkongziji，caihuiyulaiyuyounvrenqizhi。

 yaogenjubuduanxuexipeixunyusikao，jinerrangzishendexinliyuelaiyuegengweihuodadadu，rangzishenduifanzadechenshigengweikuanrong，duixinxiandeshiqingxintaigengweiduiwaikaifang，neiyangdenvxing，yingdanggengnengganshouhetihuihuodezheiyiquweihengshengdequanqiu。caikeyizaojiuchuliangrenzaiyiqidehuanleqifen。yigemimanzhehuanledenvxing，zishenjiunengchuansongjitarenyizhonghuanledeshujuxinhao，kuailederenyizhiyouyouhuolide。

第四步，相识是缘，方能持久

 ganqingdaoshangchukaipumanxianhua，yetianmanzhejianxinheniningbukan。liangrenzaiyiqi，kandebingbushiaideduomedefenbugushen、yingxiongwangzuo，erzhongyaokankefouzoudezhangjiuzhangjiu。keyijianchibuxiechulaidequanshimingbaixiangshishiyuanderen。renhaimangmang，niweiyouyutaenai，zheileiyuanfenbuqingchushishangbeizidenghouleduoshaonian，jiranzaicishengxiangfeng，jiuxuyaomingbaibaitouxielaozhidao。jibian zhiqianmeiyoulejiedao，rujinlaimingbailelaitianbuhaihuideji。tayunijiaowangzheimeduonian，yeweiyounishilaidaotaneixinshenchude，yeweiyounizuizhangwotade。jiranneiyang，weihebuyongnidezhenxinshiyiquwennuantaposuidexin。nansheng，yeshibixujili，kongzhizijideqingxushiyonghekuanweide，jiarukeyiyouyigezhilengzhirederenyutabaitouxielao，zheiduinanshengeryanquanshiyibeiziderongyu。