liangrenzaiyiqi,laiyuanyubuyiyangdeziranhuanjing,youyuziranhuanjingchanshengdechabie,kongzhizijideqingxumocashijuticunyoude。daozhizheileimocadelaiyuanyu,budanshejidaoshenglixuezhufangmian,ruzhangxiang,shentisuzhi,jingshenshizhitexing,xingtexing,kongzhiqingxugecengmiantexing,gengshejidaoxinlizhuangtaizhufangmian,ruganqing,xingqing,siweimoshi,qichang,nanrenbianxinwenhuasuyang,zhishitixi,caikeyi,xingquaihao,xinnian,naizhihaihenduoshehuirenzhibiaozhun,ruyingxiangli,shehuifazhanlianluo,diqutedian,zheixie。dabufenqingkuangxia,liangrenyushang,nengzouzaiyiqizaoyishiyouyuanfen。zairichangshenghuodequanguochengzhong,haibixuzhangqimoheqicaikeyixiguanxingxianghu。
youyunanhaihenvhaibenshenyeyoufazhanziranhuanjingdechabie,daduoshuhuozaochengyixieneiyangnazhongdefenqi,kongzhizijideqingxuneizenyangcainengfangzhizheizhongfenqini?
1.重视另一方的盆友
wuyileijurenyiqunfen,lingyifangdepenyoukendingshilingyifangrentongde,jiusuanshijiuroupengyouzaitaxinliyeshixingfude,zuoweinvyoudeniyinggaiquzhongshitamen,erbushidishitamen,jienatamensuihouhetamenrongdaoyiqiqu。hetadexiongdidahaolaguanlian,dengdaitamendexiongdichaozhenijiandaonidehaodeqingkuangxia,duidajiaduixingfukuaileqingganyongyou feichanghaodegongxiao。fanguolaijiarunibukeyigenggaixintaiqudishitamen,wanbushangyiqi,zaochengbierenbumanyiledaihuierxiangxijieshaogekeyiwandaoyiqidenvyoujiangnihuanle,jiubeitongyujuele,jiuroupengyouyoushihoujiuhenvrendehaoguimiyiyang,shouwozheshiquan。yinerneixinzairuhenanshou,ganwanbuyaoshuochuqu,zongzhinixuyaohenanpengyouzaiyiqi,yizhiyaoxuexipeixunhetamenjiaowang,xianzhuangzuoxiaitamenba,suihoumomodideyongniderichengbiaopaijidiaotayuxiongdihuanjudeshijian。
2.积极家务劳动
nanshengdaduoshushilande,feichangshaoxiaiqujiawulaodong,cikenijiuxuyaorenkeqijiawuhuo,nanrenbianxinbazijidejiashulidehaohaodide,kantahairuhefangqini。
3.做一个好儿媳
yulaiyuduodepoxizhijianbuyoushan,cikedajiayingdangjiejinquanliqufangzhizheizhongnanti,zhongjiuniyebuyuanlingyibanjiazaiganqinghezhenqingzhongjianba。yiyangyigeyouxiaodaodenvxingnengweizijidadajiafen。conghuidexifuerhuineiyangzuo:youhaokandaitadeqinren,shaopengmian,duosongliwu。duitashuoniaitadeqinren,yaojiejinquanlifangzhidajiayinqinrenfashengzhengzhi,bingbapengmianshijiansuozhuzaishengchenhuochuantongjieri。neiyangyekeyijinanxingqinrenchanshenghaoyinxiang。shuodaozheierguicaizaiduinishuoyigemimi:zaizhangfuyanqian“jubao”jiapodefangfa,yibanrenwokelaowene!
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4.明白忍让
nidenanpengyoumingbaiduo,queyeyixiezhigaoqiyang,gennitangulunjinshizongyaofenchushengfu,zaidajieshanghurantigaoyinliang,weilegenghaodiyixiewuguantongyangdenantizhengchaobingbucongming,qingshanggaodenvrenhuijinanpengyouqingmian,hongta:“nishiduide,shuodemanyouxiedaolide”zheijinjinyishiderenrang,meibiyaohezishendelianrenyouyuyixieshierdaqilai,zheibuzhi。chaohuosheng,biaomingninanyoubuqizuoyong,nimuguangcha,chaoshudiao,zishenbuyukuai,hebini。
5.欲擒故纵
dangzishendenanshengdingzhubiedenvxingkanshi,nvpengyoushiduoshaohuiyixiebushiziweiba?cikeliangzhezhijianjiangneigenvrentifeihuozhejiangnanpengyoudetouzhuanhuijiazaichoumayidunlingrenkanrenao,bibushangduitasahuang:“nishuangyannenggouluanpiao,keshinideguanhaozijiderenti。”jiarutahuanshibuzhihuigai,neimenihetazaiyiqishi,jiufukuadesuilukaiqiangsizhoudekunan,keshibiezaochengzhengzhi,kanyixiatashifouhuishoulianxing。
6.接纳自身的挑选
sheidouqidaizishendelingyibanshigewanmeinanren,dandajiadoulejiezheileinanshenghennanzhao,meiyoushiquanshimeide,duoduoshaoshao,cunyouyixiequexian,liangzhezhijianguidingnanpengyougenggai,bibushangjienatadezhenzhengmian,duitashuoniaitadedadunan、kongzhizijideqingxuaitadedahanshengduitashuonishangxitadeyiqie,jiangtadequexianshiweitadetedian,neiyanglianggerenyebujinjinjijiaoxianghushibushifuhejizhideguize,buyetingqingqingsongsongde?zailingyifangmianeryan,aiyigerenjiyaoaitadeshenshangchusedeyiqie,haiyaoaitadeshenshangdebuchusedediqu。
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