究竟遇到男人变心，女的要怎么开始找回对方

 zaishijizhong，dajiapengdaoxuduo nvxingmenzaiyingduinanshenggenzishenfenshoudeshihou，buqingchugaizenmezuocaihao。nanrenbianxinxuduo nvshimencaiyongyikuernaosandiaosi，jieguobazijibennenggouwanliudeqingganshenghuohuabianchengjudian。zhenduinanshengeryan，aiqingshishenmeyangdedaozizuidoufuxindeduo，yinci nvxingbubirenweinichengnengjiukeyixiyinnansheng，fanguolai，renrangfandaogengfeichangrongyixiyinnansheng。zenyangwanhuilaogong?zuizhenzhengdefangfaquanzaizheier。

方法一：要保持理性，而不是声嘶力竭

 nvxingzaipengdaonantishi，zongxiaidadanaonao，quebuzhidao，dachaodanaoshizuishixiaodejiejuekunnandefangfa。yinci ，yaoxiangwanhuilaogong，nixuyaoxuehaopouxixiadangjinniyunanrenzhijiandexiankuang，sousuoxiadajiazhongjianmaodundezhijieyuanyin，xiangyixiangzenyanglaijiejuedajiazhongjiandemaodun，jiarukeyibazhuanzhulifangdaozheiyidianshang，jiukeyicaiyongmudexingdeduice。xuduo qingkuangxiananrendoushiganxingdongwu，huoxutahuiyouyuyigenvshengerzimingbufan，keshijiarunikeyibaochilengjingdedanao，nihuanshihaiyoujihuiniuzhuanjushide，yaolejie，erzhexiangdoucongmingrensheng。zhenduinanshengeryan，jinguantamenduanshijianneixiailiandanerpiaoliangnvhaizi，keshizhangjiukanlai，tamenhuigaoqingchu，gengyoudanaodenvshengcaisuanshihunyinshenghuodeguichu。

方法二;要明白忍让

 jiarunanrenshiwufarongrennidebaopiqi，neimazheigeshihounikeyijiuxuyaoliuyirenrangle。nanrenbianxinzhongjiulingyifangrujinyijingqitoushang，nijiarubadajiazhongjiandeguanliannaodeningzhi，zheiduixianghuyemeiyouyichu。zhongjiunixinlihuanshixiangwanhuiaiqingde，jiarunimeidixiatou，huoxucongjinyihoudajiajiumeiyoujiyuzaizhuangtoule。shuqingshuzhongyingdangkeyifendeqingxiba?yinci zheigeshihoujiububiyouyiqujinjinjijiaosheiduidaodishisheidecuo，zhishiyaomingbaiyuqinguzong，xianxiyinnanshengzailiao，qitadeshiertiangaoluyuan。yinci ，youyidandadiweinanshengzhiqian，erqieyaofanyingdeshifenyouzhencheng，naizhinenggouyiyangduncuo，jiaruninengbaozhengzheiyidian，nanshengruguoyouliuxiadexin，jiuyidinghuiduiniyouyidingdedafu。

方法三:要调节自身以往跟男生交往的方法

 huoxuyiqianniyulingyifangjiaowang，yaobudisanxiasi，yaobuzigaozida。keshijinrinixuyaoxuehaohelingyifangshuohuazhidao。jiarudajiazhongjianhuanshinenggougoutongjiaoliude，neimadajiazhongjiandenantidoubingbushifeichangda。youyuzhenduiyigenanreneryan，jiarutaqueshibianlexin，nidechuxianzhenduitaeryanquanshibubiyaode。jiarunikeyibadajiazhongjiandeguanliandiaojiedao“hemuxiangchu，xianghuzunzhong”deqingkuang，neimaniyejiuhaiyoujihuiwanliuta，youyutakandaoleniduitadezhongshi，takandaolenidegenggai。gengshiyouyunidegenggai，yehuixiyinzhuzhetazijizuochuxiegenggai。

方法四：要调节自身的心理状态，改变现状，而不是更改另一方

 zaiyiduanbuchenggongdeganqingli，tongchangshiliangrenyaobuquanshikanbushunyanlingyifang，yaobushidouqidaijiandaolingyifangdegenggai，shijishangrenshengdaolukeyigenggaidetongchangshiwomenziji。liruwomenzijidexinlizhuangtai，womenzijidexintai。jiarunikukuwanliudouhuanbudaonanshengyidianerdelianmin，neimajiububiqiqiule。jiarunidachaodanaonanxiudoubukeyihuodenanshengdelejie，neimajiububichaole。hebuchangshigenggaixiazishen，huanshijiaoxiangyixia，zishenjiarushinanxing，zishenshifouhuixiairujindezishen。zishenxinlidiaojiehaola，nishenbianderenheshiercaihuiliqing。

 ganqingliyoudianerbujumoupian，yuanbenbianshiduixianghuxingzihetilidemolian，jinyoujingdezhumoliandeganqing，aiqingshishenmeyangdejinyouchaoranwuwaideganqingcaisuanshizhenzhengdeaiqing，caijiushinifeichangzhideyongyishengqushouweideganqing。yinci ，wanhuilaogongdefangfajiuquanzaizheierle，ruguonigenggaile，nishenbianderenheshidoushihuigensuigenggai，jiniwanhuilaogongdelingwaibaozhengwanhuiganqing，buxiangxindehua，congjintiankaishi，shiyishi。