遇到男人变心，女的要怎么开始挽回对方

 “shiyuyanzhi，zhongyurenpin“。yongzheijuhualaiguinahenduorendeaiqingxiaogushi，congcishidangdanshile。jiurutahelinzhouzhongjiandeganqing，yikaishiliantazishendoushuobuchulai，weishenmetaneimexiyinzhuzishen，neileipiaoliangdejuede，aiqingshishenmeyangdenandaoshuojinjinyouyuxianghudebiaomian?xiangchuzhichu，tayeshixiaitade，danwuhuabushuolejigeyue，jianjiandixianghuyouhuoliyulaiyuruo。dangtamenzhihoujinjinchixubiandaquexian、yishumeixiaoshideqingkuangxia，tichufenshoushiwuyandejieju。nanrenbianxindanzheibingbukeyibiaominglingyifangjiuzhendeshiyigehenzhaderen，zhiyoubiaomingdajiabumingbaijiarujiaiqingbaoxian，bumingbaiyunying，neimazaihaodemubiaoniyehuicuoguole。zenyangwanhuilaogong，shitazaiciaishangleni?

一、面对心伤

 tichufenshoujinguantongchu，danruguonipingjingxialaimianduixinshang，shijishangtichufenshounengrangrenfazhan。zaiyiqideqingkuangxia，nicengganjuexianghujinshiyan，rumiwuyibanhaoxiangyichanghuanjue。ruguonizhenshiliquta，caikeyilizaikeguanxingdeshijiaolailizhidisisuohesikaozheiyiduanqinggan，jiandaonantideshizhizainaer。lejiecuozainaer，caikeyizhenshiqugenggai。

 yinrongmaohuomouleichusedetexinghuxiangxiyinzhu，dangxiangchuchuangjianzaizheigebingbulaogudejibenchushi，shijianjiuleqingganbianhuizhujiantuise。bieyintichufenshouerjuedetongku，shijishangtichufenshouyejiushininifengfanpandezhuanzhe。yaoshimeiyoupiaoliangdebiaomian，niyaohuixiaineirenme?changshiduoqufajuelingyifangqitadeyoushi，congqitashijiaozaicixuanze。ruguonirenzhen，yidingnengxunzhaorangaigengweilaogudewupin。yaoxiangwanhuinanpengyou，neimejiuzaiciqulejietaba，changchanggengxinduixianghuderenzhinengli。

二、好好的爱自己

 wulunnanshenghuanshinvxing，zhangxiangzaigao，quemeiyouneihan，jiurudiannaoneicunqianque，douhuikasi。nanrenbianxinmeirenkelingnideyanlei，qingbuyaoyifuqiqicancandeyangzi。yebubishushuonidetongku，tarenzongshiganjuenihuogai。gengbubiqujiuchanbuqinglingyifang，baoludaliangdexuqiugan，kanqilainishifenbianyi。

 yaowanhuinanpengyou，wulunlingyifangruhewuqing，bieshibuzhiwei、youqiwuli，nixuyaomingbaihaohaodeaiziji。zhengyouyumeirenteng，caigengyaohenhenaizishen。bubiyintarendeguocuohequexianfahuonaohen，neiyangbianshichengfaziji，rangneixinpumantongkuhezenghen。sikaoyixiazishen，buyechangzuocuoshima?mingbaiyuanliang，lingyifangyekeyibaorongni。changchangneiyangxiang，zhenduiqingganzhongdefenqimaodun，niyejiunengpingxinjingqilumiandui。

三、让自身焕然一新

 zenyangwanhuinanrenxin?bubichenniyuyiwang，jinzaorangzishencongneidaowaidouhuanranyixin。congxinkaishi，yidianyididigaibianxianzhuang。qianqueneihanderen，meifalingrenchijiuxiai，neimanenggouduozuoyixiefengfuduocaineihandeshier。jiarunilejiezishendequedianjiuxing，liruziyiweishi，neimajiuxiandinghaoyigezongtimubiao，sheqiziyiweishi，niyejiuhuihuanleqilai。

 ninengzhidingyifentishengzijibiao。zaizijijiadeqiangmianshang，tieyizhangfeichangdade“lixiangbiao”。meiridouxiezishenyaoxianggenggaidebuliangxiguan，yaoxiangdadaodezongtimubiao，shijiyoushenmexingdong。meirizaozhongwandouxie，huozheruguoniyiyoushijian，xiangdaonaxielaila，jiulikexiejinqu。meirichixufanfuneiyangdeyanyulvji，meiriduizishenkaizhandingqijianchajiewu，shikeyangeyaoqiuziji，yizhaofanganlaigaibianxianzhuang。yiduanshijian，niyidingnengyiwaijingxidichajuezijideqiansuoweiyoudejudagaibian。

四、填满信心

 xinxindenvsheng，caikeyixiyinzhugaopinzhidenansheng，caihuijifananshengzhuiqiuwanmeihexiyindechongdong。bierangzishenderenshengdaolucidianliyou“keling”zheigeci，sheideyanleishizhongbingbushixiyinnanshengdebaowu，wenrouyebuyidingnengwanhuinanrenxin。

 wanhuinanpengyou，nixuyaomingbailengdanta，zuibubizuodeshierbianshitaohaota。dangyigenanrenlejieyounvrenaitashi，tongchangbianhuiyuelaiyuehenkuangwangzida、ziyiweishidaochaojibiantai。nijiuxuyaoyijiduren，aiqingshishenmeyangdegaibianwenjingnvshengdepinpaixingxiang，zuoyigeyaoshuonodexinxinnvxing。ruguonilengdannanshengshi，tajiulejiezishenyegaigenggaile。ruguonibianweitameiqianmaideshechipinbaobao、wanwandabudaodemubiao，tacaihuilejienideshiyongjiazhi、duiniaidesixintadi。