那么男人变心，女的要怎么开始挽回对方

 doushuonvrendexinhaidizhen，gaoshenmoce，neishiyouyunanrenailejienvxing，xiyinbushangnvxing。shijishangyeshiyouxuduo nvxingruhedoumeifaxiyindenansheng。zongsuangentajiehunle，keshifajuetadexinquezaitarenneibian，duizishenyulaiyuaidabuli，aiqingshishenmeyangdegengguanjiandeshi，huranyouyitiantaxirilianrenfazuojiubazijiliangzaiyibianle。nanrenbianxinzheierjiujiaonizenyangwanhuinanrenxindesandayongdefangfa。

方法一：解铃还须系铃人

 qingshanggaodenvrenmingbai，jiaruxiangxiyinnanrenxin，neimazhiyoujiangnanshengxinzhongdenvxingququchu。neimaruhequchutazheiyiyizhongrenni?youdenvrenshilijishanchulenanshengshoujiquanbutaguanzhudenvxingdelianxidianhua，dannijiaruqueshineiyangzuobudanredenanshengbukaixin，bingqiezhihouhaihuijixushiketifangni，nihuodelei，tahuodeyelei。shijishangjielinghaixuxilingren。nihebuyizhenxinchengyixintaiquxunzhaotadezheiyiyizhongren，hetahaohaodideliaoyiliao，liaoyiliaotaderujin，liaoyiliaoniliangderujin。duitashuoniduinirujinrichangshenghuodegaoduzhongshijiqiduitadegaoduzhongshi，qidaitazheiyiyizhongrenkeyilejieni。jiarutadexinshangrenbeinidezhenxinshiyidadong，xiangyaocongdajiadequanqiulichechu，zheimeyilaiduandiaonanshengdetuilu，neitadangranyebianhuixiaochuzhinian，haohaoguoguishuyudajiaderichangshenghuo。keshiguanjianhuanjiejiushinizaizhaotadexinshangrenshi，yaomingbaiguanlizijidexintai，yaogaoqingchushizishenyouqiuyuren，diaodizishendezishi，qianxundian，yilifurenxiaozhiyili，jinyouneiyangcaikeyiyiqingganren，jinershuodonglingyifanglaizhenxinshiyibangni。

方法二：明白用小孩来为大家的情感提温

 doushuoxiaohaishifuqijiandeganqingqiaoliang。yongyouxiaohaiyihou，nijiuxuyaomingbaiyongxiaohailairangxianghudeqinggantiwen。nanrenbianxindoushuoxiaohaishitianshizhi，nenggouganpaoxuduo mogui，nenggouchanshengxuduo huanle。buguannanshengzaibuxihuanni，tayebudebuxiaizheiyigentayouqinshuguanxidexiaohai，buguannanshengzaiaiwaibiandeneinvren，taneixinyeyizhiyouyigejiaoluoliweizheiyixiaohaierzhiliu。jinjinnixuyaohaohaodiyunyongnanshengdezheiyidianxinlizhuangtai，quwanhuita，jiangtadexinjianjiandiliudaozheiyijiali，jinerguoshanglixianghuadexingfudeshenghuo。

方法三：做一个明白梳理、明白勤俭持家的好老婆

 nannvzhijian，shidebianshixianghuzhijianxiyinzhu。nanshengwangwangdujueni，yidingshizainizheierxinhanzhiji。yinci zuoweiyigenvreneryan，nibudanshiyaoyouhaodexintai，bingqieshiyaozuoyigeshanyuqinjianchijiabingnengchuansongkuailederen。jiarunikeyixiyinnansheng，neiyidingshizainizheiliyoutarenzuobudao、burudediqu。zainizheiertazhaodaohuanlehemanzu。dajiachangshuochuguinanrenshijishangbingbushimeiyouzerengan，zhishitazaijialimeishenmeshierkezuo，meishenmekekoukele，meiyoushenmerentaorenxihuan。jiarunikeyijitamenxingfudeganjue，shitajuededaojiadewennuan、qingxinhehuanle，neimayeyidingkeyibatadexinxiyin。nixiangyixiang，jiaruyigenanrenmangleyitian，fanhuijiali，jialisichufeiqiwuluancuan，laopohuitoutulian，xiaohaibuxiubianfu，neimataduizheiyijiayidinghuiyanfanwubi，duodaiyifenzhongtadoujuededaobushufu，neitahaixiangyaojizheiyilaopoyidianaime?zheiyilaopodebudangzuohuishitahanxinwubi，yinci waibiannvxingdeyidiantaojinhudoushihuishitashenshoudadong。suoyishuonvxingyidingyaomingbaiqinjianchijia，congwanhunneiyikeqi，yejiushinitonghuamenggangkaishihuimiedeqingkuangxia，nixuyaomingbaitigaohaozishen，xuehaohunyinjingyingdefangfacaikeyizaojiuhaojingcairensheng。

 nanshengzheiyishengzuikaixindeshiqingbianshitiaoxuanyigexianqiliangmuxiangban，jiaruwufadedao，tabianhuiquwaibianzhao，huoshiyishengdangzhongrichangshenghuobuzaixingfukuailedangzhong。nvxingzheiyishengzhongguimudiquanshiweilegenghaodijiangzishenbianchengyigegaopinzhidelianren，jinyoumingbaileai，caihuibagetijingjihao。yinci yaoxiangwanhuinanrenxinjiuxuyaobawoyixiefangfa，aiqingshishenmeyangdebawozhuyixieguanjian。jiarunikeyidongnansheng，erqieyizhiyuanchaotadeqidaizuoshiqing，neimacaihaiyoujihuibianchengnanshengxinzhongzhongnagelixianghuadenvxing，caihuiyishengdoubeitasuopianai。