究竟感情中男人变心该咋办

 ganqingzhidaoshangchukaihuashuhehuanhusheng，yetianmanzhetantebuanhekunao。shijianyizhimolianzhezuizhenxinshiyideshouhou，ruguoniqianyilerichangshenghuodeguanjian，hushiletashi，yehuizaocheng tadeganqingchanshengqianyi。aiqingshishenmeyangdenvxingchangchangtitichufenshoubuqiguai，keshinanshengyidanyiqingbielianle，jiubixuhuadiansixucaikeyishitahehaoruchu。nanrenbianxinneinanrenchuguilegairuhewanhui，wanhuinanpengyoudeqiadangfangfa?

最先，要调整好心态，剖析男人出轨的缘故。

 qingxushinvxingzuipiaoliangdehufupin。haodeqingxurutongxinxiandekongqi，huiganqishenpangdemeiyigeren。dangnanrenchuguile，zuixiannixuyaopouxixiazishendeyaosu。shifouzishenpingchangduitaguanhuaitaishao?shifouyouyuzishentaijiaozongledian?shifouzishenmeiyouzaiyitadetihui?shifouzishenyizhibuguanbugutadeqingmian?

 shichubiyouyin。yigenanrenduiyigenvrendeyanfanjuebushiyixiazijiuhuiyoude。wangwangneiyang，yidingshibicidefenqileijilaidaoyidingdeshuiping。yinci ，nixuyaofanshengziji，bubiyiweidiqumaiyuanta，chizeta。niliangjinguanhuxianglianluo，keshiyoudulitongfenbu，niyoulenidexingqing，tayoutadexingzi。

 taaizheniqingkuangxianenggoukuanrongni，tabuainiqingkuangxianenggoudujueni，zheimeishenme，nanrenbianxinzhongyaojiushiniyaolejietaburongyichediyizhaonidejiazhiguannianqurichangshenghuo，niyemeiyoubixuyizhaozishendeguifanquguidingta。nikeyizuodebianshidiaojieniyaozishen，suihouyonglianghaodexintaiqujiejuezheiyijianshier。

 jiaruniqueshiaita，neimejiuxiangbanfagaibianxianzhuang，xiangbanfashitahehaoruchu。yiqiewangjijizhudongcengmianxiang，yiqieshierdoushiyouchulidefangfa。bubidanxinyuyanxiadeshier，chenjinzaitongchudangzhongbunengziba，budanwujiyushi，fandaoshilangfei。

次之，要同他常常沟通交流和沟通交流。

 rengenrenzhongjiandeguanlianyoulie，buqujueyujiangguonaxie，ganlenaxie，guanjianshishierchanshenghoubicidexintainanti。yidanbicichanshengfenqi，xiangyaodixiatouchengrencuowudenageyizhikeyichengdandaliangde。lianaizhongdenanhaihenvhai，yizhiyouyutaiguodezaihulingyifang，fandaobuqingchugairuhequyingduilingyifang。lianaizhongxuduo hunyinguanxidechuangjianbianshibiciyouxiaogoutonghegoutongjiaoliuzaojiude。nvxingdaduoshuxiaitinghuayanqiaoyu，keshinanshengyeshiyoubuyiyangdexingqing，yaolejiemeiyigerenyoumeiyigerendebuyiyang，yiqiebubisheqiu，yaoshitaxinliyouni，jibian meiyouhuayanqiaoyu，yehuichouchulaishijianlaipeizheni。

 shenghuoqijuzhong，shijishangbicizuibixudebianshigoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu，genjujiaoxin，caizhidaolingyifangzuizaihunaxie，caikeyilejielingyifangxihuanshenme，lingyifangdejiazhiguannianherenshengjiazhiguan。zaigoutongjiaoliuzhongkeyizuodaodegongshi，ganqingcaihuigongmingdian，jinercaikeyizaishenghuoqijuzhongxuehuizunzhonglingyifang，bicideguanliancaihuigengweihemu。haodeairenquanshikeyizuoxialaishuohuazhidaoderen。genjuchangchangdegoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu，lijididiaojiebiciderichangshenghuojiezou，2geyouxiurencaikeyitongfazhanqushi，rongruyugong。

再度，要多宽容和包容于他，少埋怨、少斥责他。

 ganqingyizhiyulanmanxiangban。keshiliangrenzhangqidejiaowang，gengbixujingdezhudeshipingpingdandan。henduoliangqingxiangyue、nancainvmaodelianailianren，jingchangshizaijiehunqiannongqingmiyi，liaoyiliaowohai，huayanqiaoyu，zanmeizhicisuishisuididaolai。yidanlaidaoyiqihou，bicidequexianbianhuijianjiandibaofachuqu。zheigeshihouyeshimolianbiciqinggandeqingkuangxia。jiaruxianghukeyikuanrong，keyibaorong，jiukeyiyouhaoxiangchu。

 jiaruniyizhiduozhize、maiyuan、chize，renweizaiyiqibianshijinleganqingdebaoxianju，buxuyaoshafeikuxinquyue、zanyanglingyifang，tongchangjiumeileyiwangrichangshenghuodereqing，bingbushiwujiezhidezhengzhi，bianshipingdanrushuideguoshenghuo。doushuo“jinbainianxiudetongchuandu，qiannianxiulaigongzhenmian”，yinci ，jiarukeyiaixibicideyuanfen，xianghukuanrong，baorong，fangnengxiangyouliangrenzaiyiqidemeihaoshiguang。

 fuqijian，zhongzaixiangshi，zuoshiduoshangyi，yaoliuyidashibuhutu，suoshibujijiao。yaoxuehaoranglingyifang“tonghuxi，tonghuxigongmingyun”dejuede。fuqijianshizhongyaoxuezhezhongshilingyifang，aixilingyifang，neiyangaidehuabancaishizhongrounen、yanli，zhangjiuwubai。mingbairichangshenghuodenvxing，yizhihuizaibujingyijianzhonggoujianliangrendelanman，lirulibaitianyiqiqupashan，yiqijiawulaodong，yiqiquhubianchuanxingdeng。ganqingzhonggengbixuxuehaohelingyifangxiangchu，wennuanhemudejiatinghuanjingshibixuliangrenyiqijianjiandigoujiande，touruyizhiyoushouyide。

最终，要维持倾听的习惯性。

 shangshanruoshui，haiyangwangwangshourenxiai，bianshiyouyuchukaiyoukaikuodexiongjin，yeyoujianmoqingtingdexiuyang。yinci zaihenanshengjiaowangdequanguochengzhong，bingbushiyiweidizhuyaobiaoxianzishen，youshijingxiaxinlaiqingtinglingyifang，henyoukenenghuigengshoulingyifangreliehuanying。danglingyifangkeyixiangniqingtuqingkuangxia，biaominglingyifanghuanshijiangnizuoweilezuiqinmiwujianderen。haodeqinglvguanxi，qiguanjianbianshipenyou，shizhixin。

 youyishuangqingtinglingyifangdeerduolimian，yikehuodadexin，caikeyiranghunyinshenghuozheitiaodaoluzoudeshuntan、zhangjiu。qingshanggaodeqingtingshijieshouxingqingting，jiyongyuanliangdexintaiqingtinglingyifangdeyuju，buhuiyinbeizhizeerqijibaihuai。aiqingshishenmeyangdejiangairenchangshuodefumianxinxiyuju，lejiechengzhengliandehuayi。yiqianyouxierenshuoguo：aishangyigerenkaodeshijihui，keshiyaobuduandiquai，queshikaogerenjiazhi。fufuwubilejiedao，jiehunqianshirelianqi，jiehunhoushimoheshijian。