发现男人变心老公出轨，最聪明的应对是这个！

 faxiannanrenbianxinlaogongchugui，zuicongmingdeyingduishizheige！henduoqizizaiyudaolaogongchuguideshishi，dourongyikongzhibuhaozijideqingxu，erzuolehenduowuliyuwanhuihunyindeshiqing。zuicongmingdefangfabushiwanhuihunyinhelihun，ershiwanhuiziji，ranglaogongzhudongwanhui。

一、努力提升内外在

 nanrenbianxinhou，nanrenkangjubulewaimianchuguideyouhuo，qishihendayibufenshiyinweiduifangshigedongdedabandenvren。suoyi，zuoweiqizi，yaobuduantishengziji，hunhoubuyaorangzijishiwang。congdabanzijikaishi，rangnilaogongyibutongdeyanguangkanni。meitianjingxindaban，huiranglaogongyoudianmimang，yinqitamendehaoqi。

二、不要针锋相对

 ruguonishiyaowanhuichuguilaogongdexin，neimebachuguideshiqingpukaizhihoudachaodanaodehua，jibenshangshimeiyoudaotuideyudide，yinweizheishihoushuangfangdoumeiyouzouxiaqudetaijie，huidaobukewanhuidedibu。

 laogongchuguiwangwangbushitazijidewenti。zuoweiqizi，yeyaofansizijidequedian，nagefangmianmeiyourangtamanyi，shizijibianle，haishinanrenbianle。

三、先放开老公的婚外情

 chuguidenanrenhenshaohuiyinweidisanzheerpaoqiqizi。ruguozheigeshihouyouxinwanhui，jixujingyingzheiduanhunyinyebunan。shouxianyaozuodeshihulvezuobi。henduoshihou，nanrenchuguishiyinweichongdong。congzheiyikekaishi，haohaozhaoguziji，rangzijiyougengduodezibenliuzhulaogong，shenzhihedisanzhedajia。

四、避免互相争论

 ruguonizhidaonilaogongzaipianshei，jiubuyaoqumenwaishuohua。zheiyangbujinhuijiduifangbabing，haihuizaochengpofuxingxiang。duiwanhuichuguizhangfudexinmeiyouhaochu，yerangdisanzhegandaowunai。

想真正挽回婚姻，要忽视第三者，当对方连敌人都算不上的时候，那么你就有更多的精力和时间去思考如何改善夫妻关系。战略上藐视敌人，战术上重视对方，知己知彼。