老公婚外情有第三者，原配妻子还有胜算吗？

 laogonghunwaiqingyoudisanzhe，yuanpeiqizihaiyoushengsuanma？henduoqizizaiyudaolaogongyouhunwaiqing，dourongyiqijibaihuai，caiquyixiecuowudefangfa，zheiduiwanjiuhunyinmeiyoubangzhu。shouxianyaoguanlihaozijideqingxu，congzhangjiyibaoweizijizaihunyinzhongdequanyi。

一、拒绝错误的方法

 zaihunyinzhong，henduonvrenwangwanghuizainanrenyouhunwaiqingdeshihoufenranlihun，yinweicongshisudejiaodulaikan，zheigenanrenyijingweibeilejiehunshiyan，buzaizhuanzhudiaini。zheigeshihouniku，ninao，shiyinweinihaizaihuta，ruguoneigenanrenzhendezaihuni，tajiubuhuishijintianzheigeyangzi。

 suoyi，ruguonikule，zhihuirangtagengfanni。guoduanlihun，zhihuigengbianyi，jitayigeqingrao。debaofushinixiangcuihuitaduinidemieshizhixin，ernichedidabaidisanzhe。

 zheilimiandiyijianshijiushiniyaoyoudabaidisanzhedexin，dangwuzhijishifangxianihelaogongzhijiandeneibumaodun。zheigezhanghuyihoukeyizhongxinjisuan。muqianyinggaiyouxianjizhongliliangdabaidisanzhe。

二、善于放大第三者的缺点

 duiyudisanzhe，tazuipashenme，niyaofangdatapashenme。zheihuirangtahaipani。jirandisanzheyijingmingzhengyanshundizhuazhulenidenanren，nijiuyinggairangtazhidaolaohushishenmezhuangtai。

 buguowomenchulizheijianshikeyi“quxianyidong”，bufangquzhaodisanzhejiashuoshuo。lianggelaorenruguomingbaileshiqing，jiuhuixiangbanfaguanhaohaizi。ruguonibunengkongzhizijidenver，nijianglaiyidinghuixianruhuimie。binggaosutamen，ruguodisanzhenengtuichuzheiduanlianqing，neinijiujiwangbujiu。

三、理性想清楚不轻易妥协

 zuoweiqizi，ruguonibibuguodisanzhe，niyaojizhuyidian：jianchinidejiehunzheng。buguantamenzenmezuo，nijiushibulihun，disanzheyebunenglizhiqizhuang。kankantamennengcongmingduojiu！nibulihunshiyinweinibangbuletamen。

之所以不离婚，是因为此刻不想逞强，因为婚姻本身就是内外兼修。既然走到了这条路，总要有输赢。即使你不爱他，也不要轻易把他交给别人，尤其是自己的敌人，否则你会为自己多年的努力感到惋惜。