faxianlaogongchuguileqizizenmekeyiwanhuihunyin?zhenduihunyinzhonglaogongchugui,henduoqingkuangxiadoushihunyinzhongfuqiganqingbenshenchuxianlewenti,xiangyaowanhuihunyin,jiejuefuqizhijiandewentiyeshihenzhongyaode,xiamianwomenyiqilaikan。
一、善于倾听配偶的声音
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二、重新认识关系,找出根本问题。
lihundexiangfajuebushipingkongerxiangnitichude。tabushiyigerenxingderen。bijingjiehunhou,dajiadesixiangdouchengshule,buzaixiangyiqiantanlianaineiyangsuixinsuoyule。
ruguobuzhaochujutiwenti,shenruwajuedaozhilihundeyinsu,genbenhuibuqu。nixuyaozhongxinqingchudelejienimendehunyinguanxi,faxianyixiexiaoxijie,biruduitabugouzhongshi,huozheduitadejiatingbugouzhongshi。huiyidangshidebutong,zhaochutaxiangnitichulihundeyuanyin,womencainengconggenbenshangjiejuewenti,erbushixiangmitudegaoyangyiyangmishifangxiang。
三、试着更好的理解对方。
zhanzaiduifangdejiaoduqusikaoshiqing,youqishicongduifangdejiaosequxiangxiangtadeganshou,lijietadeqingxu。neimeduifangdehenduoxingweijiubuzainanyilijiele,nijiuzhidaozenmechulile,youliyuqinmiguanxideweichi。
站在对方的角度,你现在不能说太多,事后再想。对方的压力是什么,语言压迫,家里没钱的抱怨,自己技能不足,婆媳之争让他很难做到...所以他必须“逃离现实”。
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