出轨的男人值得原谅吗？男人变心了怎么办？

 chuguidenanrenzhideyuanliangma？nanrenbianxinlezenmeban？henduonvxingduihunyinzhonglaogongchuguijiqifenyoubuzhidaogairuheshihao，fangqihunyinshebude，bufangqihunyinyoubuzhidaoruheyingduichuguidenanren，huazhenqingganzaibenwenzhizhaojigeyouxiaowanhuihunyindefangfa。

一、保持冷静的头脑。

 wolaogongyouwaiyu，pingshihuibiaoxianyichang，ertalaopohuihenzhuyitalaogongderenhexingwei。zaiyiderenwangwanghuibaoluzijidexuyaogan，rongyiyinfabaofa，ranhoujiuhuichuxianlianggejiduan。

 zainanrenyanli，ruguoyigenvrenzhidaozijichuguile，buduandezhizehezuochujiduandexingweizhihuirangnanrengengjiafangan，renweizijichuguidexuanzeshizhengquede。

 yinweiyigerenzuipamafan，yidantabutingdezhizaomafan，tajiuhuigandaobuan，tongshixinliyehuichanshengyigexiangfa。woxuyaodeshiai，bushiyigezhengtianyouyuanqidenvren。

 woningyuanjieshuzheizhongshenghuo，yebuyuanchengweixingshizourou。danshidangnizhidaotachuguideshihou，tadexinqingshipingjingde，zheizhengmingzheigenvrenyijingduizijixinhuiyilengle，danshiquehuiyinqinanrendeziwofoudingxinli。

二、好好经营自己的生活。

 zhangfuwaiyuchuqi，yibanbuhuibaquanbujinglifangzaidisanzheshenshang。zheigeshihou，tahuiyibianguanzhuqizidefanying，yibianyanshizijideaimei。zheigeshihou，congmingdenvrenhuixuanzebazhuyiliconglaogongdeshiqingshangyikai，zijiguanlizijideshenghuo，buzaizuoyigeziyuanziaidenvren。

 nanrenshishijuedongwu，tamendemianzhishizhuyaoxiyinli。meiyounanrenyuanyimeitianmianduiyigemeiyoumeilidenvren。ziranxiyintadeshiwaibiaohexinxiangan。danshidangjialidenvrenbiandegengyoumeilishi，zhangfuziranhuicongqizishenshangganshoudaoweijigan。

三、让男人明白出轨的代价。

 nanrenchuguishiyishideganjue，danbuhuitaikaolvchengben。jiaotanzhong，rangnanrenqingchudezhidaoqizidedixian。chaoguozheigedixian，nijiushiqulejia。

出轨的男人一旦知道出轨的代价，就会自己衡量。就像康纳先生说的：“被抓到出轨，马上分手，改变对方的愤怒。我们更害怕失去，而不是拥有。"