婚姻生活出现问题，老公有外遇该放弃吗？

 hunyinshenghuochuxianwenti，laogongyouwaiyugaifangqima？faxianlaogongyouwaiyudehunyinhaiyoumeiyoujixuxiaqudebiyaoni？zheiyaojujutiqingkuangerding，nvrenzaiyudaozheizhongshiqing，shouxianyaolixingxiangqingchu，shiwanjiuhunyinhaishifangqihunyinshenghuo。

一、冷静分析问题

 buguanfashengshenme，diyibuyidingyaofenxiwenti，xianrangzijilengjingxialai，lixingdemianduiwenti，zuochuzhengquedexuanze，yinweirenzaichongdongdeshihouzuochuxuanze，zheishibulixingde，jiuxiangchuguidewentiyiyang，yinweishiqulelixingdexuanze，zoushangleyitiaoweibeizijidaodeheshehuililundedaolu。

 kanwentichuzainayidian，duizhengxiayaowangwanghuishishiqingshibangongbei，dadaoyuqidexiaoguo。yibandouhuiyouwaiyu。nanfangkendingshiyinweishenglixuqiu，jialiqueshaoxingfuganhuozheyouwaiyudexiangfa。zheigeshihouqizidepeibantebiezhongyao，keyiyouxiaodewanhuinanrendexin。

二、宽容和宽恕

 zaiheshideshihouzhijiehetatan，biaomingzijidexiangfa，wenwentadetaiduhekanfa。ruguonanfangdexiangfaheniyizhi，neimeshidangdebaoronghelijiehuirangnanrenjuedenihentitie，bushigejinjinjijiaodenvren，bijingbunengyigunzidasisuoyouren。

 nikeyijitamenyigefansidejihui，fansizijiyihougaizenmezuo。ruguoyaojixuzhuzaiyiqi，yinggaiyongshenmetaiduqumianduiduifang。danbujinjinshiyuanlianghebaorong，zhihuirangtamengengzaogao。ganqingbeiweiderenyidingshishoushangzuishenderen，ganqingbuhuizhangjiu。

三、选择离婚的自救

 ruguonibunengjieshounanfangyouwaiyudexingwei，huozhenanfangdetaidubudaibiaohuiguo，neimelihunduibicilaishuoshizuiyouxiaode，yeshidejieguo。

这段婚姻生活是失败的，所以及时开始下一段感情，重新开始生活，是双方的选择。毕竟出轨最重要的是看自己的想法和对方的态度。虽然离婚是一个极端的选择，但仍然是一个很好的解决办法。