老公有外遇怎么办？挽回老公该怎么做？

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban？wanhuilaogonggaizenmezuo？henduonvxingmianduilaogongchuguidourongyiyiweifoudingziji，xiguancaiyongdijiazhiwanhuifawanhuihunyin，keshizheizhongwanhuilaogongdefangfachenggonglvhendi，huazhenqingganzaibenwenzhizhaolaogongyouwaiyudeyingduifangfa。

一、主动出击。

 chuguilaogongzenmechuli？liangzhezhijiandezonggongkeyikanchuxingshidefazhanqushi，suoyiburuzhudonggaibianxingshifazhanqushidequxiang。nikeyimashangyuedisanfangchulaitantan，yexutanenglijienidejingli，beinideyongqidadong。

 ruguoduifangshibujianglidenvren，niyeyaobiaoxianchunibaqideyimianheqipo，rangdisanzheduiniyouyidingdekongjugan。zheiyangdetanpankenengbuyunxuzhangfuwanquanhuilai，danzhishaokeyizuzhitamenjiaowangdejinyibufazhan。

daduoshunanrendoubuyuanyiweigongzuozhongdechuguimaidan。zhuazhuzheiyidian，jiehezheixiefangfa，jiukeyizhujianwanhuilaogongdexin。

二、提升自己。

 laogongchugui，niyaofanshengziji。gaibugaitishenggerenxingxiang？xiangyaozhenzhengwanhuichuguilaogongdexin，jiuxuyaozhaogejihuitishengzijideqizhi。ruguoyouheshidezhuanqianjihui，jinliangzhaogongzuo，gongzibunenggao。zhishaokeyibaohuzijidexinxin，youzijidezhuiqiuhemengxiang。

 wanjiuhunyin，nixuyaomingbaihunyinshipingdenghuliderenshenghezuo。zhiyoudangniyoujiazhideshihou，nicainengyinqinizhangfudezunzhongheguanzhu。weinixingfudehunyinernuli。

三、学会有效沟通。

 xiangwanhuilaogong，xuyaoyouxiaodegoutong，yinweigoutongkeyijiejuehenduofuqizhijiandewenti。zhiyaonimenzhijianyouzugoudegoutong，jiatingzhongdehenduowentidoukeyitongguogoutongjiejue。

当你有效沟通的时候，你就离挽回老公出轨的心不远了。更重要的是，它能让你们的心更靠近对方，更了解对方真实的想法，让你们的感情更牢固。