老公出轨变心了，原配妻子怎么挽回婚姻？

 laogongchuguibianxinle，yuanpeiqizizenmewanhuihunyin？zaixianshishenghuozhonghenduonvxingzaihunneiyudaolaogongchugui，laogongyouwaiyudoubuzhidaogaizenmewanhuihunyin，huazhenqingganzaibenwenzhizhaojigewanhuihunyindefangfa。

一、学会管理自己的情绪

 youxienvren，dezhilaogongyouwaiyuhou，neixinshijiehuibengkui，gezhongfuzadeqingxukaishizisheng。zaizheiyangdeqingxuxia，tamenhuibiandehennanguo。

 zheizhongqingxushikeyilijiede，danshiwolaogongyouwaiyudeshihou，shouxianyaochulihaozijideqingxu，rangzijilengjingxialai。bijing，aiqingbushinidequanbu。nihaiyounidefumuhepengyou。

 suoyi，zaibierendebangzhuxia，jizijiyigexuanxieqingxudequdao，hedepengyougoutong，hefumugoutong。ruguojuedehennankaikou，bufangxierijifaxieyixiaqingxu。zongzhi，kongzhizijideqingxu，jizijiyigefaxiedejihui，buyaorangzheixieshiqingdabaiziji。

二、提升和改变自己

 yixiefunvdezhilaogongyouwaiyushifeichangfennu。yinweimeiyoufaxiedejihui，woyidiandianbiandeyiyu，shenzhiyouyizhongxiangyaobaofudexintai。ruguowolaogongchugui，neiwojiudeyongchuguilaibaofuta。zheizhongzuofatingyouzhide。

 dangnilaogongyouwaiyudeshihou，niyaokaolvzenmequantahuilai，erbushibaofuta。zaihenduohunwaiqingzhong，nanrenquanhenglibihouhuiguijiating，buyaorangniyouzhidexingweichedihuidiaobenlaikeyiwanhuidehunyin。

三、做出决定挽回婚姻

 tongchangqingkuangxia，chulizhangfuwaiyuyouliangzhongfangshi：yishixuanzelihun，ershijitayigejihui。ruguonijuedezijishigewanmeizhuyizhe，bunengjieshouzhangfudebuzhong，juedezijideaiqingbuzaichunjie，xinlizonghuiyouyigenci，neijiujuedinglihun。

如果你老公有外遇，但你不想放弃家庭，你觉得应该给他一个机会，让他反思这段感情中存在的问题，让他权衡利弊后再回到家人身边。