老公出轨变心了，聪明的女人怎么挽救婚姻？

 laogongchuguibianxinle，congmingdenvrenzenmewanjiuhunyin？zaihunyinshenghuozhongnvxingdoubijiaomeiyouanquangan，dangfaxianlaogongchuguidisanzhe，jutigaizenmewanhuihunyinni？huazhenxiaobianzaibenwenzhizhao3geyouxiaowanjiuhunyindefangfa。

一、调整心态

 dangwofaxianlaogongchuguideshihou，woxiangxinmeiyouduoshaonvrennenglengjingdekandai。suoyi，nideyuanhen，nidebeishang，nidebeishang，doumeiyoucuo。

 danshizaifaxieqingxudetongshi，yaobawoyidingdedu，buyaozuochuyixiebulizhidexingwei。nikeyilikaizheigedifangyiduanshijian，jingjingdehuiyizheixieniannihelaogongzhijianfashengdeshiqing，kankanzijishibushiyouwenti。

 huozhezhaoyigegenghaodepengyouqingsu，sushuoxinzhongdequruhekumen，keyibangzhudiaozhengxintai。dangnidexinqingpingfule，keyipingjingdekandailaogongchuguideshiqing，jiukeyijinxingxiayibudewanhuile。

二、摆正心态

 kunaonaoshihenduonvrenzhidaozhangfuchuguizhenxianghoudediyifanying。tamenyoudechongdongqiangshi，zhijiequlaogonggongzuodedifangbashiqingnaoda，jiushiweilebiaoxianzijidechou。yidanshitaishikong，laogongdelianjiuguale，hennanbatalahuilai。

 zheixiedongxibujinbunengconggenbenshangzuzhinilaogongchugui，haihuizaiwairenmianqianzhanxiannidexiongxingxiang。haishishuonijuedeniyinggaizhengtianyileiximian，zuogeyuanfu，rangnilaogongyoufuzuigan，zheiyangnicainengbataheqingdiduanjueguanxi？zheixiedoubuliyuwanjiunidehunyin。nixuyaozuodeshirangzijilengjingxialai，diaozhengxintai，yinweijiexialainixuyaojizhongjinglihanweizijidehunyin。

三、不要抱怨高价值挽回

 baoyuanshihunyinchongtuzhongdewentizhiyi。suiranqianmianhenmei，danshisuizhexuqiudebupingheng，shenghuoherenjijiaowangdeyalihuirangrenmanmanbaoyuan。

但这样的情绪会给对方带来看不见的烦恼，最终成为双方相处的危机石，绊倒你的婚姻。所以，要救她老公，首先要调整好心态，不能只是抱怨和指责。多给对方传递正能量，可以减少你们之间的矛盾。