老公出轨变心后该怎么挽回婚姻家庭呢？

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一、冷静思考，冷静应对。

 faxianzhangfuyouwaiyuhou，henduonvrendouyizhibuzhuziji，yaomehezhangfudachaoyijia，yaomezhijielengzhan。qishichaojiahelengzhandoubunenghenhaodejiejuewenti，youshihouhuijiashenhunyinweiji。

 yueshiguanjianshike，nvrenyuexuyaolengjing。tayinweirenxingerbayuanlaideshouhaizhebianchengyigeshangrenderenshijiqibuheshide。ruguonihaiduizheiduanganqingyouliulian，xiangwanhuihunyin，bingqiekeyijieshoulaogongchuguideshishi。

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二、反思自己，改变自己。

 fuqizhijiandewentikendingbushidanfangmiandezeren，suoyiwanjiuhunyin，yaoxuehuihuanweisikao，sheshenchudiweiduifangzhexiang，zhidaoduifangzaixiangshenme，zijixuyaoshenme，bierenzenmexiang，zaihunyinzhongyongyuanjidexianlejie。

 jinruhunyinshenghuohou，henduorenhuiyinweijuxianyuzijidesiweimoshiershiwang，yongyuanbuhuizhenzhenglijieduifangdexiangfa，congduifangdejiaoduquganshouduifangdeqingxuheganshou，zheihuiranglianggerendejuliyuelaiyueyuan。

 ruguoduifangduinibumanyi，niduizijiyebumanyi，neijiuxuyaozaishuangfangdouqidaidedifangqugaibianhegaizheng。ruguozixikaolvhoujuedemeibiyaogaibian，neijiubuyaoweinanziji。

 duiyuyigerenlaishuo，bazijibiandemianmuquanfeishibeidongdelizi，zhihuizengjiaduifangdeyuanhen。xiangaibianziji，gaibianzijidexingxiang，bujingyijiangaibianpeioudeganshou，zhongxinzhanxianzijidangshixiyintademeili。lingwai，niyaoquanmiantishengzijideqizhi、xiuyang、shiye，rangduifangzhidaonidezhongyaoxing，manzutadexurongxin。

三、善待并不断提升自己

 suoyoudechouyuanyunideshengmingjiankangxiangbidoushiweibuzudaode。hunyinchuxianweijishishandaiziji。shijiehaishihuimeiyourenherendeyunxing，baitianheiyedouhuizhunshidaolai。

 bierenbuzaihunideshijian，nijiuyaozaihuziji，aiziji，xuehuixunzhaokuaile，huochuziji。buguanniyouduoaiyigeren，doubuyaobatadangchengnideweiyi，basuoyoudexingfudouyazaitashenshang。

当你太依赖一个人的时候，他们会鄙视你，以为你会明白你在做什么。所以，当婚姻出现危机时，你要尽早考虑退路。当你开始少关注他的时间，他就会开始关注你的一举一动。