老公出轨了怎么办？妻子如何挽回婚姻家庭？

 laogongchuguilezenmeban？qiziruhewanhuihunyinjiating？hunyinshenghuozhongnvrenfaxianlaogongchugui，laogongyouwaiyuchuxiandisanzhe，douhenrongyiziwofouding，zheiduiwanhuihunyinmeiyoubangzhu，zhengquedewanhuihunyinfangfashiyonggaojiazhidefangfawanhui。

一、不要起正面的冲突

 jingyinghunyinxuyaolianggerenhuxiangxuexi，huxiangpeihe。yeyoukenengshiyinweifuqijingyinghunyindefangshibudang，rangcangyingyaopoledan。yinci，dangzhangfuchuguihou，nvrenbuyinggaishengqi，eryinggaiwenzijizaigongzuorishifoulvxingleqizidezhize。

 ruguoniderichangzuofabukekao，shouxianxiangnidezhangfudaoqian，bingnuligaizheng；ruguoshizhangfudehuaxin，wenwenzijishifouxianglihun。ruguonimenmeiyoulihun，nimenbixudanxinduifangzaichuguihoudeganshou。chuyuzheigeyuanyin，nibunenghenidezhangfuzhengchaotaiduo，fouzekenengmeiyoubuzhou。

二、知道老公出轨的真实原因

 jinguanlaogongwaiyushibuduide，danxuduoanlizhengminghunyinzhongcunzaiwenti。ruguoninengfanshengzijibingzuochuxiangyingdegaibian，neimehunyinjiunengdejiu，daduoshunanrendebuzhongbingbushiweilelihun。

 nvrenyaokeguanpanduan，buyaojiyufanu。dangran，zheibingbuyaoqiuqiziyiweidiyinghenanxing，ershizaikeguanfenxihunyinwentideqiantixiazuochuxiangyingdegaibian，jianghunyintuixiangliangxingxunhuanxitong。

三、不要自暴自弃要提升自己

 mianduihunwaiqing，youxienvrenhuifangqiziji。nvrenbuyinggairenweizheigenanrenyouhunwaiqing，yejiushishuo，tamenbuaita。tamenrenweiguoqushiniandeshenghuochongmanleqipian。zheigexiangfayidanchansheng，nvrenjiubengkuile，xuduonvrenhuizidongsikao。

当她发现丈夫有外遇时，她立刻认为丈夫不再爱她了。因为她的丈夫曾经告诉她，她永远不会爱第二个人，她觉得她丈夫从她遇见她的那一刻起就欺骗了她，所以她整整十年的爱是虚假的，这种想法是可怕的，所以挽回婚姻要懂得提升自己。